thanks guys i think after reading all the advice i felt real stupid and childish for feeling jealous because evryone has there times and i no that my friends didnt do well last year and i did and so i should be happy for them.and i really do feel ashamed when i think of this because they are my best friends aswel and i should as was advised make evryone my friend..i think i have accepted what has happend and i remberd a shabad i used to listen to alot called "je gur jhirkey taan mitha laagah..." and it reminded me that i should be happy when i receive pain and be happy if I am blessed.
Exactly..
Do your karam concentrating on what ur doing rather than focussing on the end point! Karam is soo sensitive like milk - leave it out in the sun it will go bad, put it in wrong pot it will go bad.. focus on that ..
The Phal you get out of it is under Hukam of Akaal Purakh,
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thats a very intrestingg pointt and i never saw it like that thats the advantage of sharing a problem here is that i gain another prespective and one which is of higher understanding and knowledge and maybe that could b my mistake and ill take that on board.