After I read this, would you mind giving a solution to this following situation? (everyones welcome to give solutions )
do let me know if you need more info on the situation if you start to find it confusing.....
I agree with this, although it can go both ways.
Similar situations I have heard of such as:
People want others to tell them the truth, but the 'wanter' still wants to lie to protect the truth. why? because by not telling the truth, they can understand that person and use manipulative lie's to convince the person that they are true. Which is 100% wrong. It's hard to trust anyone on that note.
I think your overall message is pure though, makes sence.
I forgot to tell you one thing before. I don't want to give you any solution for your problems for many reasons.
My solution won't work for other. Don't try to cling to other peoples' solution. Those solutions will mislead you.
Problem that people are jealous has nothing to do with lying or telling truth. Whatever you will say(truth or lie) your problem will be there. What I can get from this situation is that person said truth and had bad results then he lied and short-term results were not bad.
Actual problem is jealousy, your truth or lie will not eliminate jealousy. Jealousy will be there weather you will see it on front or not.
So do you want to end hate and jealousy or you just don't want to see it?
We only have your side of story. Most of the time there are two or more sides of story depending on number of people involved. People like to play blame game. Person A will blame person B and Person B will blame Person A. If instead of thinking about others' problems a person can think about his/her problem then he/she can find solution. This is general what I did many times. I don't know how true is that for the situation you gave us. There are few things that I do not understand in your situation.
I am not giving you any answer, I am just giving you company to look in these problems deeply.
Some people have fear of spiders and some fear death, crossing roads, bugs, failure. Sometimes one person is scared of crossing road and other is comfortable with that. There is no one thing in world that every person has feared of. Fear is not about things or situations, it is about elusion.
If there is a situation or something in front of person then that person can either face it or can try to escape. If that person will try to escape then that situation/object will become fearing to him. If he will decide to understand and face then he will be more energetic to deal with it.
You didn't run away from something because it feared. It feared because you ran away from it. Everything you have feared of is thing you didn't understand. Once you will take a moment to face and understand situation then there won't be any fear and you will be more energetic.
People have tendency to escape from situations and those situations will become fearing to them until they understand and face it.