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11 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Yesterday i was wishing i was dead all i could do was when looking at the train was imagining it killing me as thats how i wanted to die. 

 

I mean living everyday is just a death being repated and again. But real death was all i could think of yesterday.

 

I was watching again and again a video on my phone of a guy jumping off a tower frame then falling to death. It was so good i felt watching it.

 

One side i was thinking how happy i would be if i was given a month to live then die by dr.

 

@lostconfussedsingh how are you dealing with the negative thoughts ? Are you getting any guidance from a counsellor? 

1 hour ago, monatosingh said:

HAI BHAGWAN (as @MrDoaba) says

Mr Doaba ji where are u? Thorka launda a? Kithe a? ?

41 minutes ago, Big_Tera said:

So I broke off a an egagement And now Im trying to do it again. but now that trust is broken. not sure how I can reeasure the other party except give my word that it wont happen again. this is in india btw. 

Any ideas how I can get thia marriage back on track. 

Why did you break it off bro? 

No you can’t marry her. She’s your niece, whether it’s your cousin or real brother, still your brother. Don’t think stupid things like this, you should know better. Is this how you value relatives nowadays? 

A Sikh guy should not marry his niece, or even think about it. Or do I sense a troll ? 

That sounds like a sarangi in the background. Idu Sharif came to mind when I heard that, he plays it well. 

Btw I didn’t listen to any of the lyrics of the song, so don’t know what they sang ?. 

Some pretty cool full stops there ...... ??

1 hour ago, Guest Jagsaw_Singh said:

Simran, have you calmed down a little bit now and realised how wrong you were ?  Have you realised how when I talked about people looking for their keys high and low only to find it was right in front of them the whole time I was talking about all of us human beings because we all do it...and it wasn't an attack on you personally ?

I was calm in the first place. It’s you who has issues with giving lectures. No I don’t think I was wrong in anything I wrote. In fact I think you have a lot of ahankar and you wrote what you did, people like me, so that was directed at me. 

Jo kuch karda apne leh karda a, mehne dehn di koi lorh nai. Tu sochda tu apay karda sara kuch te hor koi kuch karda nai. But thanks for saying it wasn’t a personal attack, but then you should have worded it better if it wasn’t. 

Whichever method you choose, whether praising God through kirtan, Simran, Gurbani, Mool Mantar, do it with love. 

Because Guruji tells us in Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji: Jin Prem kiyo tin hee Prabh paayo.

Don’t know, but it’s been discussed before :

http://gurmatbibek.com/forum/read.php?3,9683

8 hours ago, Guest Jagsaw_Singh said:

Post 4 of this thread even gave you  a media link.  Moral of that story is that stories, like keys, are sometimes right in front of your eyes but you only realised that after you've searched high and low in other places for them.

I'm really sorry Simran but I don't think you've quite grasped the things I said in my opening post. Homeless Sikhs dying on the streets of London, Athens and Paris is not unusual even that requires a spot on the 10 o'clock news. It's been happening all the time and will continue to happen. You, as a human, do not need a newspaper, news network or preacher telling you what you should care about and when you should care. Your conscience alone should be enough to tell you what is right and what is wrong. The overall point of this thread is to get people like you to listen to your own heart....and not rely on preachers who are getting rich telling others how to live their own private lives but cry 'nindya' anyone dares to question their own. Listen to your heart. Listen to your heart-beat. Understand how that heart=beat is what connects you too all other living beings. That connection is in spirit Waheguru. Care about that connection with othes.

No need to belittle me like that. I simply said it’s not in the media, such as the Sikh/Punjabi media, as they normally share things like that. 

People like me? You’ve got a nerve judging me, maybe take a look at yourself first before spouting things you know nothing about me. I’m very well aware what’s going on in the world with homeless people. You’re very rude btw, you should listen to that nimrata inside yourself also and learn to talk to others properly. Have a nice day bro. 

You know what Jagsaw_Singh, I’m not going bother to comment on your posts next time, because you go OTT and thanks for your lecture, but no thanks. Lecture somebody else that you want to belittle because I’ve ended it here and not going reply back to your next unmeaningful reply to me. 

On 27/01/2018 at 4:47 AM, GurjantGnostic said:

The link is static on the sgpc site. It may auto update. If not I will, or anyone please, update it daily. 

Thank you ji confused face for liking my post. 

I couldn’t find anything on this story. Wonder why it’s not been in the media.  

I think it’s something to do with blocked energy that maybe releasing, but I’m not sure or the muscles. Would be nice if somebody else explained it. 

Why is confused face, confused at full stop posted by Gurjant paji? It’s confusing, putting so many confused faces on ?. Gal ki a? Ina confuse na hovo, chill out. 

19 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

If you are dealing with depression, anxiety, concentration issues or any other mental issue.  Go see a professional.  Get your vitamin levels checked out.  You make have low iron and vitamin D.  Both are very important to how much energy you have to function on a daily basis.  Many punjabis have low iron and don't get enough vitamin D so they suffer from low moods and low energy.  This results in feeling depressed and sad.  

Good advise. Adding to this, @lostconfussedsingh, along with iron, Vitamin D study, also get your Vitamin B12 checked. 

@lostconfussedsingh paji, don’t be looking at topics like this. Listen to some Gurbani/kirtan. Think positive. 

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