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Singh Jee, you are absolutely right. You have clearly perceived his real intentions.

Brother, I feel so sorry, whenever I come to know that when anybody, or any sikh brother / sister, fall into drugs and drinking. Personally I feel there is a lot of His grace on you, just apart yourself from bad sangat, which pulls you down. At the same time, keep good sangat, and engage yourself as much as possible in any sewa at any Gurdwara. Then slowly and slowly you will develope strong will power. Just make a commitment to yourself, that you will come out from that dark well of drugs and all that surrounds it, delinquency. You do not deserve all this nonsense, you are a brave child of brave and all powerful Dasvee Patshaee. Do not let any "nashaa" overpower you, let it be if any, then it should of His Nam. You see, the mind is constantly seeking pleasures, take the chance of that weak point of the mind, and give it for once and ever, the tatse of: Amrit Nam, maha ras meetha, Wahiguru Palanhar Himself will take care of you, by keeping you safe at His Lotus Feet. Waiting to listen soon from your side, that you have successfully come out from the hell of intoxicants Stay blessed. Sat Sree Akal.

THE BUS STOP DOESN’T MATTER; YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE DRIVER DOES A boy stood on a sidewalk waiting for a bus. A man walking by spotted the boy and gave him some gentle advice. "Son," he said, "if you're waiting for the bus you need to move to the street corner. That's where the bus stops for passengers.""It's OK," said the boy. "I'll just wait right here and the bus will stop for me." The man repeated his advice, but the boy never moved. Just then, the bus appeared. Amazingly, the bus pulled over to where the boy stood and he hopped in. The man on the sidewalk stood speechless. The boy turned around in the doorway and said, "Mister, I knew the bus would stop here, because the bus driver is my dad! "When you've got a relationship with the bus driver, you don't need a bus stop. If you've given your heart to the King of Kings, you're in a royal family of unspeakable proportions. Today I would like to remind you that when you know the Driver of your life, you can take the bus of life anywhere. He will stop and pick you up where people think it is not possible. Whether you are unemployed, broke, single or married, or childless or divorced, or widowed. What matters is that you know Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above what we can think or even imagine.However, the BIG question is : "Is the Driver your Father?" "Are you still His child? You can only get that privilege if He is your Father. Enjoy the ride with your Father. *God knows the best, He does the best, He gives the best because He is the best. May He make you achieve the best in everything you do in life now and forever. Stay blessed, Sat Sree Akal.

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Wake up to happiness.. Deep relationships are not built by forcing others to understand you, But ... by giving them the confidence that you have understood them.

Yes for sure. If we can avoid negative people, the better, for otherwise we may enter the turbulance zone of negativity and get affected. So yes, darkness, bitterness, hatred, anger, swearing .... are all forms of negativity, which should be avoided at all cost. As it is said, prevention is always better, than to get hurt and then get cured.

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. Harvey S. Firestone Some people won't be happy until they've pushed you to the ground. What you have to do is have the courage to stand your ground and not give them the time of day. Hold on to your power and never give it away. Donna Schoenrock Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one. Eleanor Roosevelt When people hurt you over and over, think of them like sand paper; They may scratch and hurt you a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless. Chris Colfer

He who conquers others is strong; He who conquers himself is mighty. Lao Tzu When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. Franklin D. Roosevelt Stay strong, be brave, love hard and true, and you will have nothing to lose. Demi Lovato Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. Helen Keller Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. Harvey Fierstein People who love themselves, don't hurt other people. The more we hate ourselves, the more we want others to suffer. Dan Pearce Bullying is for people who have no confidence at all. So everyone being bullied, please remember they are scared of you. You have something they don't, and that's what makes them bully you. Don't let their words affect you because they are the ones needing confidence, not you. Anonymous

Does prayer/meditation/ardaas really work? Yes it does. The thing is, the results are not per our wishes always, moreover, there is a significant difference if our ardaas is for worldly desires, of we ask for Him, from Him. If it is for wolrldy related issues, then, we are tightening our ties in the cycle of births and deaths, for when Wahiguru satisfies our prayers/desires, we have to be here in this world to receive their fruits. But if as said, we ask Him from Him, then for sure, that is the right attitude, which He gracefully fulfills, and the result is that we cut off our ties for once and forever from the perishable creation, and we are not born anymore, for, we have gone and become one with Him, in Him. Immortal like Himself So you see, prayers are always answered, no matter how much time it may take, that is for the wise Nature to decide when and where to fullfill them, but the difference lies in the asking, so why not ask Himself from Wahiguru, the source of all true and eternal bliss. Sat Sree Akal.

What is Sewa?

Life Is What Life Is Through all the ups, all the downs, Some will be there, some can't be found.If they won't care as they should, so be it.This is life in the way that I wish to see it.You can give your all, or you can try not.When they decide to leave, what have you got? You build it up, then it breaks away.This is life in the way I see it today.Days come and go, true hearts stay close.Without happiness, love is an imitation at most.You haven't stayed close, it's hard to love you, This is life in a way that is sadly true.To leave behind such a feeble mind, forget it and pursue someone real.This is my goal, and in time...This will be life and the way that I feel. Edward Veilleux (Life/Philosophy) Life Is.... It has neither a beginning nor an endYou can never predict where it will bend.Life is a teacher, it will show you the wayBut unless you live it...it will run away.If you have no fear of living, you will findNo fear of death and you will not mind.You have to feel the agonizing sorrow and feel the painOnly then it will heal and you will be whole again.It is in every leaf, in your smile, in your tearsIn your toil, in your triumphs and in your fears.Just enjoy the journey without looking backSavour the senses and you will not lack.Truth is more in the process than the resultLiberates you from thought and you can exultTo see the truth in the false, thats the keyTo understand, without changing it...just let it beLove life, live it and it will set you free.... Renu Rakeja

Sometimes I start doing an evaluation of my life. ? In one of those I came across the story of the driver Michael Schumacher. ? When I studied his resume as an athlete I saw that he was: ? Winner of the Grand Prix in 1991. ? He was 7 (seven times) world champion of Formula 1. ? Happiness was in his Being, but in a fateful day his story and his destiny completely changed due to a sky accident .... ? Today, with just 44 kilos of weight struggle to "survive" since December 2013. ? His wife begins to sell the goods to cover the expenses and thus be able to keep him alive in a room adapted in his house, where he lies like a vegetable. ? Here comes a question: ? Who is better than who? ? Life can take directions never imagined. ? It's amazing how everything can change in an instant. ? No one is exempt from anything. ? And in no circumstances are they of any use Money, Titles, Fame, Success, Power. ? We are all the same. ? Then why the pride? ? To make the claim? ? Why arrogance? ? For that victimization? ? So that attachments to material goods? ? To make you angry? Do you think your version is the absolute truth? ? All we have is the day to day so that we can live it with passion and enjoy ourselves to the fullest, doing good, serving our neighbor and full of joy. ? We need to stop creating problems, claim insignificant things, and always avoid everything that "takes our lives". ? Be careful not to lose someone who loves you and accepts you as you are. ? As in the game of chess, in the end both the King and the Pawn are kept in the same box. ? It is worth examining what we have done. ? We are born without bringing anything ... we die without taking anything! absolutely nothing!. ? And the sad thing is that in the interval between life and death, we fight for what we did not bring and even more for what we will not take ... ? Think about that, let's live more, let's love more. Let's always understand the other and be happier!

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Dear sister, so sorry to learn about your such a terrible and painful life, but at the same time, I admire your courage and strength, and above all positive attitude, while going through that hell of life. Though it is easily said to someone trust God, for one has to really be someone´s shoes to test oneself how would one react in those times of weaknesses... But that much I can say, He, Wahiguru can never be blamed for anything, no matter how much it seems so, for He is not like a Alladino´s genie, who comes if we rub a type of lamp .... He is faithful to the laws of nature made by Him, He can not transgress them by interference. For the creation works on action-reaction, according to the seeds sown so are the fruits which we collect, the only thing is, as we have been in the creation since times immemorial, we do not remember the stock of karmas we have been gathering, since we stepped into this mayavee creation. For example, just look at Fifth Patshahee, how He the embodiment of goodness, was inflicted with the most of cruelty, and though He was all powerful, He did nothing to make use of it, and to benefit Himself. If we wished, with only one thought He could have burned them, or anything, but yet He remained calm.. Of course we can never ever comapre ourselves in any way to them, or their avastha, but definetely, we can pay attention and learn a lot, from their humility and mercy. Please never ever think of suicide, for this human life is bestowed on us by His apaar grace, to free ourselves from this karmic mayavee creation. You see, He knows right before we are even born, what we all have to go through, but as said, it is by His infinte love and grace, He gives us this human form, to end all our karmas for once and ever, by doing even a kachee bhakti of His, so Dayalu is our Wahiguru Akal Purukh. For karmas can not be changed when once born, but definetely all the store kamas we have still, they can be washed off with the water of Bhakti and the soap of His Nam. So sister, inspite you have been surrounded by immature and heartless people, I can assure you, I believe and trust in you, for being so patient. I do not know what destiny holds for you, but I sincerely send you my blessings, and do ardaas at His Lotus Feet, to attach your mind to Himself through His bhakti, and give you inner strength, to face cheerfuly this your present life. God bless you. Sat Sree Akal