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lol - thats a funny saying , but i must say ive never heard it nefore ....:happybouncer:

We forget that we don't have to go to a Gurudwara Sahib that has some great history to do pilgrimage. When we have our True Guru with us at every moment why are we running around? The time we waste trying to visit all these holy places that are becoming more and more of tourist attractions, we could be spending with our Guru and deepening our relationship with him. I know you're probably thinking, there is nothing wrong with visiting Gurudwaras with great history. I agree there is not but why do we just visit Gurudwaras like Bangla Sahib Ji which spend millions of dollars to attract us? Why don't we visit the Gurudwaras that have a great history but are not as well funded or well kept? Why aren't the Gurudwara Sahib Ji's that receive a lot of contributions helping to restore Gurudwara Sahib Ji's that aren't being kept very well? Why? Because Gurudwara Sahib Ji's are becoming a place of business for many corrupt leaders. The leaders aren't to blame, we sleeping Sikhs are. The moment we wake up and find our pilgrimage in the words of our Guru instead of a physical location, we will become better Sikhs. All this corruption will come to an end when we Sikhs stop feeding the fire of evil. The corruption is evil, the seva is not. Anything done by any human to honor and serve the divinity in another and without any desire for self-benefit is seva. That means there is nothing intrinsically wrong with making a Gurudwara Sahib out of gold. It is up to us if we want to donate for that cause. And if we really don't want this, we can donate to better charities and actually make a difference in people's lives by feeding them, healing them and inspiring them. Why do we complain about the people that are behind these sort of projects, but then never do anything better ourselves? Let us each set an example. Let each of us get involved and do something other than spend our energy complaining when someone else does something. Also if we really don't wish for this, then let us start going to Gurudwaras that listen to their Sangat and do the right thing. Even if this Gurudwara Sahib gets covered in gold and becomes a huge tourist attraction, do you think that the offerings made by the tourists will equal that of we Sikhs? Never! So let us stop worrying about what others do or do not do. Let each of us look into our own heart and do what we know is right. Our Guru is everywhere! Not just in the Gurdwaras. I say let them cover Bangla Sahib Ji in gold and let us all wake up and stop making a show of running to different Gurudwara Sahibs and instead let us offer ourselves, and all the earthly blessings Waheguru has bestowed upon us, to our True Guru, because that is our shelter and our salvation.

most of the students do not want to learn - its only a hand full people that do honestly follow.. I guess you cant force one to follow but unfortunatly the go down the wrong path ... x

thankyou , some of the comments on here calling me names is quiet uncalled for .. Baandri one said- such respect for women .....:monkeyjuggle:

No not all hun, just a fair few....

I dont know why my threads have been deleted obvioulsy freedom of speech doesnet exist on this forum .. how rude .. Admin Note: You created a new ID to post after your KALLY ID was put under moderation, which is against forum rules. Do not try to act smart with us. Your posts are the ones that are put under moderation, so they will be read before they are approved. If you find that rude, please feel to leave this forum. Thanks.

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but its true though isent it ?

thanks for your comments

and in my part of birmingham we say " On your bike " !!

I can handel stiff resistance dont you worry about me - you have a foul mouth would you speak to your mother this way - may be you do but thats your choice i guess .. as they say in my part of birmingham " on your bike kid " ( deek head!) ps - you try and get clever with me i will rip into and embarrass you infront of all members = so next time you feel the need to get on your high horse think twice !!!.. :nono:

ITS OK NO NEED TO APOLIGISE XX

How embarrasing was this ??: One of the more interesting parts of the recent documentary on Sikh extremism was the recording of a fight that took place over control of Southall Gurdwara (the biggest outside India) between its existing management and an outside group calling themselves ‘Lion Group’. The fight basically illustrates the terrible state of Sikh affairs in the UK, an issue most Sikhs keep ignoring. Anyway, the Southall-based paper Des Pardes published a write-up of what happened after, with such bias its downright hilarious. But its worth reading anyway. I publish the full article here.

I totally disagree with what you have said .. its the wrong path to lead and will only create resentment in the long run .. :monkeyjuggle:

But do we really need to let our children - youngsters live the memorie so it eventually turns to hatred , now im not saying that all will do this but keep reminding of this instead why dont we focus on what is going on now with tehe musla but our energies into that .. thats all im saying .. we will all die one day but do we have to tell the innocent everything? i think not .... os - i wish i was a politician - could do with the cash ....x

:rowingmachine:you cant forgive if its happening right now can you that would be just ignorant .. I dont why the few freinds i have regested dont have names /? maybe you can answer that for me ??

Its a valid point how many religous channels have islamist fund got on tv - im sure you would agree that mots of our channels are not very religous - i think maybe 1 or 2 but mainly juts young kuree's dancing with a group of young lads with alchohol....

The people that commited those awaful crimes are probably long gone now - would you feel better if we to take revenge on their 2nd maybe even 3rd generation that have no wrong doing and are totally innocent - im sure they would feel the same as we do??

thats fine as you can see im fairly new to the forum and if you look i have requested mainly female , i havent really looked into whether they have made any posts but they all have accepted .. Are you saying that i can only request people who have made comments ?? and why are you checking out my profile I havent done or said anything wrong or are you juts tryiing use bully bot tactics on teh new girl?? you may be outspoken but at teh same time you are being quite rude towards me ..... and i wouldent even know what fake profile would look like i guess you do ......:khalsa:

Cool thats fine.....

isent t radiswami hindu ?

Why ? I guess your not used to an out spoken woman > bet you would prefer that i kept queit and in teh kitchen making rooti yeah ... :trolleyfun:

YOU KNOW WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY ..