Marriages are made in heaven. You only get married to someone with whom you have a karma and the karma could be good or bad. As a results; marriage can be heaven like, sheer hell or both (normally happens with twin flames). I suggest that you try to workout with your wife, if you have kids. But if you haveno kids from this marriage, I suggest that if there is no love between the two of you, drop the marriage. If you can email me your date, time and place of birth as well as her's I can let you know if the two of you are compatible or not.