Medallion Stallion

I currently have a headache :lol:

It was her business UNTIL she broadcast it to the rest of the world.

You need parent consent to get married if you're under the age of 21??? :lol:

Wonder if that should apply in the UK!!!

You need parent consent to get married if you're under the age of 18 in the UK

The marriageable age is

in England and Wales: 16 with consent of parents, 18 otherwise.

in Scotland: 16

in Northern Ireland: 17 with consent, 18 otherwise

its just ONE girl, why all the fuss?

One girls becomes two girls, then two girls becomes three girls.......then sooner or later it becomes a whole generation of girls...........

Who cares? Not my life. I'm more worried about having fancy cars, big houses and swmiming in money!

:cry:

:lol: :cry:

That's why society has different rules for men and women.

I am not at all saying that there are no strong women but strong women are in minority.

sound like todays society in general veer and not just women.................. :lol:

society has always had different rules for women and men even thought Bani gives both equal status...............that will never change.......the methods of distinction has simply moderised with times......

Just me ji

Its a bitter truth that women betray their religion much more than men.their are girls which

were considered as role models for others but later you find them marrying men of other faiths

and raising their children to their husband's faith.on the other hand there are men who never even say waheguru but still they don't convert to other religions for girlfriends.

It is not only sikhs that are facing this problem.Hindu organisations in india too are worried about hindu girls marrying muslims.according to one of their estimate 1 lac hindu girls marry muslims every year

Again i am very sorry if my post hurts anybody.

Muslims and Christians ALSO face this problem the only difference is they go on about it like we do!

i dont think i have an anger problem...........

:lol: yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah of course you dont

no i dont

Trying to calm down like JustME panji told me to...............

Krodh is the worst of the 5 chors veer.................:mellow:

it destroys everything in its path and many men have lost their self respect through it........... :lol:

im not that bad i stilll have ma self respect and i dont think i have an anger problem...........

Trying to calm down like JustME panji told me to...............

^^ .. uncalled for... very very uncalled for...

not a smart comment...

Ur right there was no need for that comment..............

Well if family members will beat and keep the girl home locked then that has to happen.

Ayuunnn Muthu swammi

what IF her family didnt beat her and lock her up? and she's using it as an excuse to run off with the guy *edited*

I agree with everything you said but is mentally imagining being with someone really the same as pyhsically being with someone?

well i think it is.........remember bani makes so many references to the battle of the mind............Kaam, Krodh, Loh Moh and Hankaar are born in the mind..........the mind feeds and nurtures them............it is the body, i.e. physical contact that carries out the actions of an impure mind..............

yes they are borne in the mind but you use bani to combat those thoughts and if you succeed in combating them then great but if you go ahead and make physical contact then thats bad..............what im saying is toughts are just thoughts they dont have to materialise you just need to become stronger to combat them BUT once you become physical theres no going back and you cant deny it.

Nothing new here in malaysia but it is a big problem here in malaysia where punjabi gals end up marrying indian guys.. .

reason being: they (indian guys) treat em much better then punjabi guys.. we did a poll in one of the gurmat camps and surprsingly most of the gals either had or are having indian bf..

not all sikh guys treat women badly :lol:

Tell them that the REAL reason they pray 5 times towards mecca is because of Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji :nihungsmile:

Okay i agree with B4Nda in the sense we truly need to understand what a "relationship" is...........if you have the intent to engage in a plutonic relationship in order to get to know someone as a potential life partner................then...........personally i dont see anything wrong with that................the battle has always been with the mind and nothing else.....................a potential spouse would be someone i can spend hours and hours talking about Waheguru with...............someone to do seva with.............someone to rouse me at amritvela when i feel like crawling back to bed............someone who puts WAHEGURU and SANGAT before me and vice versa...................the relationship you must strive to develop is no different to our journey in life............the tools and methods we may use are different but the goal has always been to see waheguru in everything....................

ibnw AnMd ibvwh qy Bugqy pr kI joie ] sux isKw gur kih Q~ky myrw isK n soie ]25]

binaa ana(n)dh bivaah thae bhugathae par kee joe || sun sikhaa gur kehi thhaakae maeraa sikh n soe ||25||

Without having Anand Karaj those who have sexual relationships. Listen O' Sikh the Guru states, he is not my Sikh.

notice the word used in this Rehatnama Mukhthnama

"SEXUAL RELATIONs" and not a friendship before marraige but bani has always been our spiritual teacher...............u can still be a virgin yet have the most polluted mind by imagining bedding every man/woman that walks past you..........no is that not equal to sleeping around with ten different people physically?

When following the sikhi path its important to remember than, mann, dhan are all of the same thing.........mentally, physically, spiritualy we know what is right and wrong...........we know where the boundries lie and whether we mentally or physically cross them.................there is no difference.......its just maya and kaljug tightening its stranglehold over us

Bhulah chucka di maafi sangat jio

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

I agree with everything you said but is mentally imagining being with someone really the same as pyhsically being with someone?

Vaheguru

This is all very one sided what does the girl want in this relationship?

Didnt Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji say no relationships before marriage or am i wrong?

The members name above begins with "H"

Its distburing that an amritdhari singh has a girlfriend.

welcome the real world

to original poster, you are just 19, don't rush into marriage, you are just a kid

at 19 you think you know everything im 23 and i still dont know anything :lol: :cry: ...........sorry back to the topic.

The user above does a good job on sikhroots

http://www.khalsakids.org/

this is a website i found........its ideal for younger members of this website who may like it and it also may help kids on how to cope with bullying.

"Sikhism is the 5th largest religion in the world. Still, most Americans know very little about who Sikhs are. Because of that, Sikh students are often harassed and bullied in school. In May 2007, Harpal Singh Vacher, a Sikh student from New York, was the victim of a violent hate crime. His attackers removed his turban and cut his long hair. In a study released this summer, the Sikh Coalition found that nearly 75% of Sikh boys who study in Queens are harassed, bullied and teased in school.

The information you’ll find on this website can help you stand up for your rights and explain Sikhism to people who don’t know much about it. Khalsa Kids lets you to find others your age who can give you advice, answer questions, or just inspire you to be proud of who you are. Teachers, students and parents can use these videos, handouts, and presentations to learn and teach about who Sikhs are"

I like the way the above member starts and ends his messages :nihungsmile:

I like the above members signature :cry:

:lol:

"Shati is back"

erm.............yeah realy inspiring...................

NOOOO read my post again

I like the above members signature i was reffering to JustME panji then the above member posted too quickly :lol: BUT now i like his signature too