Medallion Stallion

i humbly bow ur post is a classic example of how wonderful Waheguru and how he looks after his devotees.............and how filth is like the crap u throw into the see.................no matter how hard u thrown it in............the crap always comes up to the surface and can be seen............

the parent aspect of how views on marraige can differ and wot "we" think is right and "they" think is right..........but at the end of the day

Hukami Andar Sab Ko, Bahar Hukam Nah Koee

we are all merly puppets and Waheguru and HIS sweet will...................

u end up marrying the one u wanted to marry - Waheguru has done kirpa

u have a marraige where ur beaten day after day - Waheguru has done kirpa

u have a marraige of two gursikhs and living each day in HIS charan and mediatation - Waheguru has done kirpa

We have karam and god knows what we did in our past lives so whether, we choose, they choose..........IT AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL HUKAM

waheguroooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :nihungsmile:

Im confused :lol:

^^ wake up. why do you think family puts pressure on you? its cause of what's considered as "norm" in society. the fear is, "hai rabba, if we dont do it, what would peeople say" :lol:

i stand corrected.......yea ur right also goes for the alcohol and meat at weddings thing.......man it pisses me off even religious families cave into THAT one........

one thing thats great about arranged marriages is if it goes bad u can blame your parents because they arranged it ANYWAY i dont think society plays much of a role its the family who puts on the pressure.

I was just wondering if anything has happened about this comment from a radio presenter:

http://www.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/news.nsf/Ne...725735D0044A4E4

did you that sat sri akal is banned on bbc asian-scum network, they say every1 elses greetings but not ours, boycott it.

screw them man they cant hurt us.....bbc asian network is nothin but gandh............gandh attracts gandh...........i personally dont want sat sri akal associated with that pathetic excuse for a network!

why surrender to your parents wishes whn you know thy r wrong??

I dont know man some people give in because of guilt/family honour or something then u get those classic uphappy marrages and sometimes parents support you, thats life.

aaho..^^ wht u said.. but how many of us are like that?? and why rn't we like that ??

bibi rajni har koi ni bann sakda :lol:

people arent like that well some maybe BUT they get side tracked by thier parents who want the perfect son or daughter in law u got to remember marriage is a big family affair too.

I like that rajni story BUT seriously when it comes to marriage today yea a few put spirituality high on thier list but the vast majority only care about looks and everything else is secondary now init........yea i know its wrong BUT thats how people roll today......which is sad of course but what can you do..........forget what other people think init and choose someone who will support you in everything including ur sikhi.

http://www.wdbj7.com/Global/story.asp?S=7115179

"BURTONSVILLE, Md. (AP) - Montgomery County police are investigating what they call a possible hate crime against two Sikh men.

The men were assaulted by a group of teenagers on Sept. 15 in Burtonsville.

The victims are a 75-year-old from Springfield, Va., and a 77-year-old from Burtonsville.

Police say the two were walking in the woods when they came across the group of 6 or seven boys, believed to be about 14 or 15. They say 2 of the teenagers punched the men in the face, causing them to fall to the ground.

Police said they have no information about the motive, but are investigating the incident as a possible hate crime."

I get your point JustME panji singhs are being represented but does it have to be at some weird fashion show.

8. Mr. Best Behaviour. - sounds like a dog show (crufts) what are they gona make them do next rollover!

I admit..........I want halo 3.

backward thinking has alot to do with domestic violence..........alcoholism too plays a major part.........men too suffer from domestic violence but its not widely reported for obvious reason...........i guess women stay because they dont want to lose face in the community or they keep on thinking their man will change many many reason its such a complicated topic man. However, the woman in that case didnt kill herself because of violence maybe she was depressed.

:HP:

i think sitting on the floor is correct seven kings sabha gurdwara and karamsar gurdwara (sorry for spelling mistakes) have got it right i usually go to the neville road one in east london its nice all done up BUT use chairs and thats wrong to me personally.

but u know what sikhs who aint into sikhi that much wont care becuase to them its just a chair u know and when u try and explain it to them why i sit on the floor and not above Guru Maharaj all they give u is funny looks.......

BTW im NOT referring to the bibia in the pictures im talking bout those people who could sit on the floor but choose not to (the healthy non disabled/old people)

LOL @ "dont get the children obese" watch out for the old bibia at the gurdwara forcing chips and beans down the kids throats :lol: :cry:

oh, and she called it quits by email, not me. But I just replied and said I agreed...

ur better off out of it mate......people like that are too narrowminded.

waoh..waoh .. easy supersingh... am not here ask anythg.. i just asked a general question.. i didnt make this thread expecting any help online in finding a partner... Just trying to understand the human mind here..nthg else

lol ok kool

this is a complicated topic and isnt going to be solved (ever) in this forum...........to B4ND4 only you know what type of partner you want look deep inside of yourself and im sure u will find the answer.......everybody else has their own preferences so no point asking people here.

So when we're at the Gurdwara Sahib, why do we bother to face Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj? Might as well turn our backs towards our King.

It's respect, pure and simple. You (hopefully) wouldn't stick your feet in front of someone's face if they were talking to you.

now THAT would be funny..............but i agree with you.

that documentary was rubbish, bloody hell the bbc do like sucking upto the muslims dont they! that gora didnt know jack all not a historian i think he was just probably happy he was tv.....you should have heard the way he was talkin lol

noo im not talking to a muslim person, u havent seen what they like down here there all militant!!!

panji maybe you need to become militant and show them you're a force to be reckoned with :nihungsmile:

exactly.............shouldntwe be working on our ownjeevans before "we" are even capable of making the decision on what "we" think is a suitable partner....................

But sorting out your own jeevan could take a very long time :lol:

exactly.............shouldntwe be working on our ownjeevans before "we" are even capable of making the decision on what "we" think is a suitable partner....................

But sorting out your own jeevan could take a very long time :lol:

That "janak" story was really good :nihungsmile: BUT i dont think people are THAT evolved on the inside appearances mean ALOT to people.........everybody has an idea of their perfect partner and if they meet someone who doesnt fit into that "pefect partner" model that they have in their heads they would not be interested i think........so the best thing to do i think is when you meet someone approach that person with an open mind without any prejudices and u never know what will happen.

find out what is triggering those thoughts and then cut that thing out if you cant back off from it a bit........erm........when get these thoughts distract yourself with other thought (good ones! lol) i.e. jaap naam etc.

standing up for myself isnt a prob, problem is that wont make him stop!

i know one way of stopping him...........introduce his face to Mr. Baseball bat!