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  1. My favourite Asa di vaar recording by Bhai Balbir Singh ji Ragi

    The tanti saaz deepen the shabad so much

    Another Panth da rattan kitaniya is Bhai Avtar Singh ji (Delhi wale) I listen to his multi disc collection , GURBANI KIRTAN PARAMPARA in the car , my daughter loves volume 3 especially since I used to play a lot around the time my Father was doing his antim simran abihaas (48 hours non-stop)...the first track was so perfect it was like listening to my father

    Hum Aadmi hai ik Dammi

    can listen on www.gurmatveechar.com in their audio collection

  2. I just can't stop thinking about what Muslims say. That when you recite their shahada, you become a Muslim and you can never unconvert. This is what is weighing on me so much. My mother went to the hospital yesterday for low blood pressure. She's sick at home right now and suffering. And what do I do? I hide in my room and go to some stupid website and type their conversion line all because I was stupidly fascinated by those dawah videos and because of the girl whom I was talking to. I love my mother so much, but she is 50 times the Sikh I am. I don't know if after death, God will allow me to see her even because of my actions

    listen carefully muslims will say anything and everything to keep you under their spell but truth is you have free will that Waheguru blessed you with, would you really want to stay in the company of people who believe its a good thing to cheat, attack or kill people because they are not the same as you? that would have your daughters married at nine? of course not because you know what is just and in line with compassion ...

    As far as I can remember you say the phrase but you have to believe it . all it says is there is no other than Allah which you believe also but you call Waheguru the second bit is that you believe Mohammed is the true prophet of Allah .. Sikhi says he was sent but he was of the many that ended up getting his own name worshipped so mission partial fail. You have not said/thought anything that ties you to Islam it is just a trick ...the true conversion is once you eat halal meat this was in historical program about mohammed setting up Islam.

    sit with your mum and do Mool mantar jap with her, tell her your worries she knows it's not easy in this place to stay steady ...trust her and trust Guru ji thanks for coming and talking to us instead of stewing in your depression

  3. I would like to do this but I wonder how I can sit with her with the knowledge of what I did. Right now, I'm feeling such guilt and disappointment with myself, I hope God forgives me first.

    why kick yourself so much ...you are sharing a bigger love with your MUM , the biggest love ...imagine how happy she will feel to be able to share that with you again after so long. Dry your eyes, lift your spirits and recite 'ja too mera val hai ta keha mushanda' shabad everytime you feel low ... be happy

    http://waheguru.us/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Ja-Tu-Mere.jpg

  4. None of my parents have taken Amrit, but both of them follow Sikhism and religion is very important to them. In fact, my mom does paath every morning and evening. My dad is also Sikh. However, he doesn't do paath and drinks alcohol on occasion. Can I follow this middle ground, moreso like my mother, and be a content Sikh? When I was high school, my mom wanted to order an English translation so that I could also learn paath, but somehow we forgot and never did it. I would like to try this, but I just hope that my mind can find peace now. I've been worried all day, and I have important exams and things coming up. I don't want to sink into depression.

    Pepper

    I'm not sure if you know Khalsa maths ....1 =Sikh 2 =Sangat 5= Guru

    How about sitting with your Mum for sangat at home and do paat with her ? I'm sure she would be glad of the company maybe now you can get that gutka to join in/follow . We used do that as kids and it's a good way to pick up bani pronounciation and have meaningful family time. Then take it from there

  5. First of all ,do not feel paranoid, just keep calm, as the mind is playing with you by troubling you.

    An agitated state of mind will make you do more wrong things, so first of all stay calm. What they believe does not necessary need to be the truth.

    That is all maanmat. Our soul is already linked with God, as it is of the same essence, whether you deny it or accept it, it makes no difference to Him. Wahiguru or Allah, is a level of consciousness, it is not like swearing the constituion or kissing a flag of that country , so that you aquire the nationality of that country.. This, as said above, this all maanmat. That is not Gurmat at all.

    Then, the question of going to a Gurdwara... there is no need for it.

    Why?

    Is the Wahiguru inside you, lesser than the one you will find in that place made of the 5 lifeless tatwaas?

    And moreover we go to Gurdwaras to listen His glory, not to confirm anybody, of one´s faith.

    Does not the Bani say: Har mandir eheu sareer hae, gyan ratan parghat hoe . This very human body is the real temple of the Lord Har, and wherein one can find the jewel of true wisdom.

    So you see, even when we die and become bodiless, or when parlay and mahaparlay take place...where are our bodies?

    Where are all our temples, churches, gurdwaras....all the creation made from from the lifless and perishable 5 tatwaas, does that mean, that our soul can not devote itself to Wahiguru?

    No.

    That again is maanmat.

    It is our surtee, our soul, our jeev, which has to love and worship Wahiguru, and merge in that Supreme Truth and reality. And our soul is right within us with us at all times. Wahiguru is nearer to us, even more that the breaths we may take in order to live .... .......

    Outside is all maya, is all koor...and within us, is the reality, His Shabad, What else do we need, He is with us all times, but we have to connect / reunite ourselves with Him, because we are separated by the veil of maya, and this veil can only be lifted and torn by His Simran alone.

    So hold on simply tight to His Lotus Feet, by His Simran, then there is no such power, which can hold you back and stop you to merge in Him

    Just as the bani says: Jin Har japeeya, se Har hoeeya. He whosoever meditates on His Name, merges in Him and becomes Him.

    Simple, isn´t it?

    So now just do it, and prove youself to be worthy in your eyes.

    Waheguru.

    Veer ji

    He has said he feels isolated and he needs to be surrounded by people of like mind doing paat, kirtan to boost himself ...there is nothing wrong there even Guru ji has said Sangat is the place to go.

  6. JKVLondon, Thanks for the advice. I had watched some of those dawah videos before sadly, and while I disliked how they tried to convert people on the street, I don't know why I watched them. As for that girl, you're right I had just met her and won't ever see her again. I think I can identify the problem now and how this began. After I went off to university in another city, I stopped going to gurudwara. There were none in that location and even when I came back, I went rarely because I lost the habit. In fact, I've only gone to gurudwara a few times in the past 1.5 years. I need to start going again and get back my beliefs I had as a child. It's sad that I had to do something so bad to receive a wake up call, but in my heart I know that when I die I'll be a Sikh and not Muslim. I just hope God recognizes that I want to be a Sikh. I don't know if I could ever trust my self to take Amrit or if I'm even willing to go that far, but I simply want to be Sikh and hope my status never changed.

    Look I would say if you want to stamp your love on your soul, give your head to Guru ji , yep it can be scary to make that first step but I promise the benefits outweigh the pointless worrying of a lifetime. I was nine when I decided the only place I could call home was Guru ji's feet. I went to Uni too and had those roving gangs of Dawah boys preaching at me ... they couldn't find a way in to start up. Your childhood bhagti is the saving grace I really feel that you will be happy once you find sangat

  7. Thank you for your response Harsharan000. It was really nice to read it.

    I guess I'm just feeling sick right now and am worried about the technicalities and consequences of my actions. I read that typing those lines are sufficient to be a Muslim, and once they are said, someone becomes Muslim, which of course I don't want. There are 2 caveats that I want to clear up which I'm not sure you can help me with. If you can't, that is fine too.

    First of all, a person is supposed to verbally recite those lines for it to be effective, which I did not actually do, but as I was typing, my mind was saying them to me, so I hope that does not count. Second of all, they say that the person has to believe those lines that they are reciting (or in my case typing). But in my case, I did not believe them.

    I know that the recitation "doesn't count" if the person was forced. But in my case, I wasn't forced. I think I was just in the wrong state of mind and lost in thought about the girl and trying to please her. In a sober mind, I know that my faith is more important than some girl

    I just hope that the formal conversion did not go through. I'm really sad right now, and I'm very determined to go to gurudwara and reconnect with Sikhism, but of course,that is only possible if I didn't make myself a Muslim. We do not believe in a paper transaction to show our faith but they do, so how to counter it is the problem. This is why I am paranoid right now, although slightly less, thanks to your words.

    ARDAS ...take hukamnama and LISTEN to what Guru ji Tells you... we are foolish we say we don't need you Guru and leave, but Guru ji is always ready to welcome you back provided you actually mean it from the heart.

    If you get in contact with that girl could she turn your head again? or is your head truthfully Guru ji's ?

    You hadn't met the girl yet got swayed so quickly is that because you were already swayed by all those Dawah vids?

    People who make those videos prey on those who are not fully sure of their faiths but although you have been to Gurudwarey and taking part in sadh sangat something hasn't nourished you fully . I really believe you need to immerse yourself in Guru ji and your kaum's itihaas, watch english katha, and sikhi videos .

    I suggest you spend as much time with real life people in sangat who believe in Guru ji ... listen to kirtan ... do naam japp , be fruitful

  8. Apologies if I meant in that respect, I was coming from the context of them dancing, drinking, clapping on Gurbaani music. Men with open hair rotating their head 360 Degrees throwing hair in all directions.

    I request not to have a 3HO debate on this thread please, I am sick and tired of their Kundalani Yoga, Tantra Mantra and what all the Indian Govt. agent Yogi Bhajan has taught them. And Oh Dear, the best breed's of chip on the shoulder guy - Gursant Singh who is on my Facebook friend's list and has a new agenda daily :).

    I did read his book on my kindle and I'm sorry to say he came across as a typical want to get an asian 'obedient' wifey to tend to my every whim which I found offputting apart from his 'wide-boy' attitude and past .. I'm curious that couple of gorey singh who do kirtan are they still 3HO or are they now guruwaley ...because I did see a vid of them doing jaap sahib to some yoga based idea to mata tek on every namastang in Jaap sahib ...it did look hectic

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFNnrZw5OH0

  9. Just wondering, but why are Sikhs fighting other people's war? I mean we have our own issues with Modi, like the issue of him trying to evict Sikh farmers from Gujarat, let's focus on that. But why 2002 Hindu-Muslims riots that have nothing to do with us? When was the last time Indian Muslims fought for the Sikhs to get justice on 1984? far from it, Indian Muslims are hardcore supporters of Indira Gandhi and congress party which conducted the Sikh genocide.

    When 1984 Sikh genocide was happening, the feelings of Indian Muslims is written by Dr. Salman Khursheed in his book "At home in India: a restatement of Indian Muslims"

    Salman+Khurshid+on+1984+riots.jpg

    We have a bad habit getting involved in other people's conflicts and making extra enemies in the process as if we don't have enough enemies as it is. Let's stick to our own agendas instead of making other people's agendas our own.

    veer ji read the post again it was an objection because violent treatment of sikhs , christians and muslims by Modi in Gujarat

  10. Veer ji ,

    All kirtan is Gurbani and one shouldn't do nindia of the kirtaniya ... I know 3HO have their faults but in this scenario if they are doing kirtan they are doing good.

    Bhaine ji was mentioning a Surma Raagi passing any ideas who she was talking about?

  11. It is clear from the players that this is not a jihad but energy and resources grab which Gaddafi warned people of before his death . WIth oil / fossil fuels and rare metals, uranium resources set to finish within the next century everyone is scrabbling to grab the remaining untapped reserves.

    I say it is better to stay free-floating and train up on survival, medical, botanical, physical craft, skills because land masses are going to change, wars, anarchy, food shortages, world wide. But then that being tyaar bar tyaar anyhoo on the kaum level .

  12. shouldn't this be all free with no money involved? who volunteers and who does sewa free of cost? and who doesn't want to make a living out of this?

    otherwise we have already seen which direction all this is going to. golaks with locks, managements figting, people not ready to leave their prestigious committee seats.......even the dumbest creature on planet earth can tell you that this is not what sewa or religion is. why turn a blind eye to all this?

    respected elders and young people should come together. the question will be "who wants to take sewa of the electricity bill or repairing the toilets etc?" NOT "who wants to be the president? or chairman? or secretary? THEN we will see whether the old committee heads or people who shout all the time would come forward or not.

    Nothing is free...the golak is supposed to be used for this work unfortunately the committee start thinking that money and property is theirs ... I've heard too many stories about members clearing our bank accounts , selling property and pocketing the money... that's why we need TPV type initiatives

    Nobody would put their hand up unless... they have their names acknowledged somehow, plus it makes people feel if they did do something somehow Guru Ghar is theirs. I vote for ALL donations being labelled GUPT as the first order of business, and the next to refuse to list out donations , whether of time, money , or effort Guru ji is Antarjami he knows so that should be Good enough for a Sikh. jaroor Haumai no patte paune?

  13. The west invaded afghanistan not to defeat cia asset osama bin laden or his group of useful <banned word filter activated> jihadi's

    they invaded for strategic land and resource reasons

    1) Oil pipe line from caspian sea through to afghanistan to sea ports for easy transportation unto ships

    2) Heroin and other drugs made from Afghanistan is a very lucatrice trade, remember the british went to war with china over opium during the days of the british empire. They wanted the chinese users hooked and taxed on the drug they were pedaling to their intoxicated victims. The british traders grew very rich from abusing many nations. And to this day they along with NATO nations are not about to give up this covertly controlled trade.

    3) Thorium a radioactive element that afghanistan is rich in. It is cleaner than uranium and it can make afghanistan rich or anyone who controls afghanistan.

    And guess who else is rich in thorium? INDIA! which has the largest resources of it..... and so will the west want to invade / break up India in the near future or will they use their swiss bank account brought proxy puppet politicians to ship out the riches to the west?

    Afghanistan is sparsely inhabited whereas India is totally jam packed with folks . Don't see India being an easy target too much land and population to do a full frontal assault it's probably gonna be done by stealth through trade etc.

  14. Imagine and analyse this 2 weeks of war between Palestinians hamas and israel and 500 palestinains are dead over 20 israeli soldiers. We have seen the horrific pictures and videos of israeli zionist jewish terrorism and we give our solidarity with the suffering and victimised palestians

    During operation blue star in 1984 2-3 days of fighting in darbar sahib left over 1,000 Sikhs dead mostly civilians (some estimates say over 30,000 due to number of pilgrims that visit on special days) yet no moral outrage from uncaring immoral mass murdering western nations or any nations come to think of it

    Then in oct 31-2 nov 2-3 days of Indian congress party govt mobs murdered 5,000 innocent Indian Sikh civilians on streets of the nations capital and rest of india and no moral outrage from western nations Instead we had evil witches like Margret thatcher that blamed the Sikhs who were the victims of Indian state terrorism of non-sikh majoritism terrorism against a small sikh minority (only 2 % of the population).

    Before dynamite and high explosives were invented by the Europeans the killing of innocent kids was a huge cowardly repulsive act, a moral outrage, was considered an act of pure evil. Nowadays the secular atheist western nations freely go about killing innocents and set the precedent for others to follow suit. Instead of being bastions of democracy, human rights and civil rights they resort to type using covert false flag terrorism and open naked illegal invasions for financial gains and unjust wars of aggression not defense.

    Maggie thatcher and her generation of govt officials in europe , Canada and US were busy ensuring their promised defence supply contracts didn't get cancelled that's why they said nothing and did nothing , otherwise they could have done sanctions. Even today India is one of the biggest arms buyers on the globe so don't expect anypne to pay attention or even speak for us. Apn haathi aap hi kaaj savareya

  15. O_O

    I wish I was a lefty.

    O_O

    I wish I was a lefty.

    why you have a twin ? lol My daughter is not a twin and never had one but she is a leftie , true she has older brothers who are ident twins. She writes perfectly in mirror writing like da Vinci . To make sure she doesn't feel odd and to understand her struggles with writing I am trying to learn to write with my left hand, so I can give her tips to make it easier.

    If she wanted to learn tabla would it be OK to swap them around to suit hands ?

  16. How did the Jews become so powerful since they emigrated to the US, they are running the media, banks and film studios??. It is through the media that they have successfully demonised the Muslims the world over including Palestinians.

    They have always insisted their kids be educated to the highest levels, be professionals, get involved in politics and media know their virsa, know their religion's values , their people's shaheedi, keep their religious values and stay to themselves not marrying out only become 'tilay' in the past fifty sixty years under influence of west

  17. The worst part is, if this was a small village Gurudwara, it would be equally bad, but the fact that this is one of the centers of the Sikh faith adds extra salt to the wound. Is nothing left sacred? Dark is Kalyug.

    Personally I would have left them standing there mangde ...and seen how long they would have stayed doing pranam to Guru ji ...

  18. So what you're saying is that souls were taken from Vaheguru and placed into the creatures that existed before humans. This doesn't make any sense, in a previous post you are essentially endorsing evolution by stating that all the life forms and conditions leading up to human existence may have been planned for a prosperous environment for humans.

    'TAKEN'? nah they are still with waheguru( Sabh meh jyot, jyot ha soe, tis de chanan sabh meh chanan hoe, gur sakheee jyot pargat hoe jo tis bhave so aarti hoe) its our egos that create the False veil of seperateness. Waheguru is rameia in His creation, never seperate.

    Yet, you are failing to recognise that if you endorse evolution we began as bacteria. Does that mean then you beleive that bacteria has a soul?

    My position is All lifeforms have souls wasn't that clear? that is why our bodies are referred to as 'jio pind' village of living creatures

    When and how does their Karmic cycle begin? How do they earn karma to attain a human body when the chance arises in the distant future?

    Our souls are the same stuff as Waheguru therefore timeless so these cycles could take many, many thousands of years to get to the human birth that's why it is 'jewel-like' in its value and why you wouldn't slip back into the cycles again. From what I can understand the cycles start point vary according to the karmic earnings of this life and the focus in our last moments. That's why we cannot hesitate to install naam in our hirdae... we never know when death will take us.

    Lastly, in Anand Sahib it states that "The lord blew the breath of life into the instrument of the human body" Does this not endorse a creationist view?

    Creationists believe in Adam and Eve and that the universe was created for them ...Sikhi doesn't, the universe existed before us this acknowledged, and will expand and contract many times each time everything is destroyed and then starts again from scratch so that indicates for now we are the lifeform on this planet who can do bhagti. This does not mean there cannot be another planet somewhere in the multiverse where someone else is doing bhagti. Yes Waheguru created the organised mass of cells (chemical 'clay') that forms our body and once it is ready the heart starts beating and our consciousness comes into being that s the jot is installed in the clay.

    I hope i have not offended as my questions are being put forward with the purest of intentions for my own development.

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