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Don't make it worse, you state to raise the granths to a higher shelf, when he already had said dasam bani was at the top shelf. In no way we're you referring to dasam BANI. And you quoted jacfsing2 where he referred to the Gita Vedas and Ramayan as books and you corrected him by saying they are not books but granths. BTW, they are books never equal to sri Guru granth sahib ji.

Very suspicious for this site to stop operating without warning. I have an idea, but I'm hold off till I get a concrete answer. Last few weeks they changed operation to another member without reason and then shut down??

Two birds one stone. Why so quick to suggest the gita Vedas ramayan should be kept in ramala? Did you not see the comment of the original poster keeping Sri Dasam Granth Sahib on the shelf? Doesn't Dasam Granth Sahib ji deserve to be attended to and tell the original poster to keep this Bani of the Guru in a ramala? I was waiting to see your response on this topic, hoping you would say the right thing but as expected you never surprise me to not stand up for Gurus Bani. You only use Gurbani in the wrong way to prove your Lord Vishnu didn't fall victim to ego. As long as I am on this site and Guru Sahib wills, you will not be able accomplish your goal.

Some preachers tell women they can't read Chandi di vaar because it's too powerful. Where does this stop? Who has the final word of when and who can read Chandi di vaar? Doesn't Krishna Avatar have Bir ras in the Bani? Where is the stipulation for this Bani?

And I am giving you the teaching I received from Sri guru Granth Sahib ji. Sitting or standing repeat his Name. There are no time restrictions on when Gurbani is to be read. A person can go through Sri guru Granth Sahib ji or Dasam Granth Sahib ji and will find nothing stating time restrictions. Understanding Chandi di vaar is the key to eliminating doubts on it taking a person into some odd experience after sunset. It's the person's short coming and not the Bani. Some get sexually aroused after reading stories from charitorpakhyan. Whose fault is there aroused lower instinct? Surely not the stories. They are there to learn from and advance the mind from the attachment of lower animal instinct. Not to make decisions based on lower energies. Look beyond the physical. Similarly many believe Chandi is being praised in Chandi di vaar. They are stuck on the physical aspect and have not gone into search the power behind it all. The one who raises them up and them destroys them and raises others only to destroy others in their ego.

Then, the last Ardas should take place at sunset and no more ardas till sun rises. What does Chandi Di Vaar have to do with the Sun? What will you do in areas where the sun doesn't rise for many days? Satguru puts no time restriction on Gurbani. Remember Satguru any time in any form, whether Chandi Di Vaar or Sohila Sahib or Rehras Sahib or Japji Sahib or Jaap Sahib.

Sleeping around with random guys hopped on drugs after getting married is not idealistic. The UK boy marries a UK born girls and she goes on her girl trips with friends. What do you think these girls are doing? Doing paath on these trips! These girls never change, they go to clubs, get free drinks for grinding and making out with random guys and go back to a hotel room with bunch of random guys and sleep with them. Ever heard of the story of a Punjabi wife taking her husbands sister out to vegas to meet up with their boyfriends and it was all caught on video by a private eye. Who ever thinks this is a rare, is living in the 50s when it comes to western Punjabi women. These western Punjabi girls go on their stag/Bachelorette parties to hook up with random guys. They are not sitting around in hotel rooms playing monopoly. And these girls excuse, my soon to be husband will do the same or my husband is doing the same, so why can't I. This is how intelligent these girls are. And you call them idealistic. Sitting on a beach half naked is ideal for you? UK or any other western girl never tell their husband or future husband about what they have done in these settings. So, they tell you they don't want to live with their father and mother inlaw. and you praise them for being rude and selfish? Must be a giddar of a son who will accept a woman in his life that doesn't want to live with the inlaws. That is such honesty, you should give these girls a prize, maybe a trip to Vegas for four nights. These girls can't make their father in-law 3 meals a day, but can walk their dog and pick up the dogs cr*p to throw away in the garbage? Talk about messed up morals. What was the reason you praised them, because they tell you straight up, I will not be living with the in-laws. You are the man in the house forsure!! Guys who have rishta in India from good families who took care of their daughters never have an issue of plotting and planning against inlaws. The girls come here, get educated and attain good jobs. They have no desire to go out clubbing or boozing and grinding on random guys. They don't have a past in regards to dating or going around with a guy. They have manners and get treated with respect as well. Not like the western Punjabi girls, they have put fear in the in-laws and demand it even though she is dressed half naked in front of her father in-law. Having drinking competitions with the husband and his friends, she's such a good girl, made me breakfast after a year. I just got to get her a little more drunk and maybe she will make me dinner. I have stories regarding the dastar wearing and jora keeping western Punjabi girls as well. I call it the biba putt syndrome. Let's see how thick of a blanket you want to put on these western girls misdeeds.

I'm not surprised you see things this way, after all you call water impure and alcohol as pure. You praise the slander of others and justify it, but hate the slander of your forum husband harsharan after he praises false teachings. Your like hitler, I hate/killed everyone else, but I'm a vegetarian.

Are you sure your name isn't Joginder Bassi?

Open for the girls who are born to these families, but not open for girls born in the family, who are first generation western born girls. There parents barely can speak English and don`t know the culture around them. They still hide what they do outside of the house. Also I know of white families who don`t allow their daughters to date and go clubbing. Yet their daughters hide what they do from the parents. This has nothing to do with what their parents have done in the past. It`s what the parents want now and what the western culture is telling their girls to do. So they hide their behaviour. Which girl goes home and tells their parents, she just got plastered and passed out at some random guys house. Not even the most liberal girl in a white family will be shameful enough to tell her mother or father.

Girls from Punjab are very much different than girls in the UK. Girls in the UK hide a lot from their parents. Changing at gas stations into promiscuous clothing, sometimes in the back of a cab, so they can go have a night out boozing, taking pills, and grind up on random guys. Then comes the excuse.....mom im stay at my friends house.........which means, I met a guy and I am going to go sleep with him for the night. Get up the next morning, change back into clothing their parents accept and back home to act like the best daughter any parents will have. Parents know what goes on, but they rather not confront the demon in the room. What's the excuse these girls use to hide their past from their husband...that's right....you are getting married to me and not my past. And like a good puppy dog the western guy rolls over and takes it like a good boy. This is the reality everywhere in the country. There are a few good girls in the western world, but their demeanor is rude and stuck on extreme feminist ideology. Who wants the Hulk as their partner. Girls in Punjab are not all the same. The one`s who live in big cities are more likely to be stained with a similar brush as the UK girls. Girls who leave for university outside of the family unit will be in a similar situation as the girls in a bigger city. Unless she finds sangat in this manures field who does not also prescribe to the promiscuous lifestyle. But girls in the pind that have their family and brothers and cousins to watch out for them have not indulged in this behaviour. They had no chance and their moral compass does not allow them. There sangat never existed of girls who were promiscuous and if, ever they befriend a girl who is. The brother makes sure that friendship does not last more than 2 seconds. Can we say the same about western brothers or cousins, never!!! Instead they party with their sister as their best friend feels her up as her boyfriend. And the Punjabi girls who live in areas where there is less Punjabis. They should be saved from this behaviour. Nope not true at all. Instead they date guys from other cultures and races. These are the girls who will mostly like marry a person of a different race. Parents in the western country have no control over their girls. Some have been saved because they know better themselves. Yet in Punjab, more girls are under the control of their parents and will not even attempt to go down the road of looking at a boy. The consequences are too high. If some backwards western minded person finds this as controlling. Then tell me how much control your daughter has when she is drunk and on some sort of pill that was prepared by a crackhead. I ask this question because this is the reality. Unfortunately, police respond to a lot of cr*p they never want to see. A girl from America who believes she is following Sikhi says she will not be ashamed to be naked in front of Vaheguru when discussing what is moral to wear for a girl in public. She runs the blog Kaurlife. Don`t believe me, go read this cr*p for yourself. This is the crazy mind of a western Punjabi girl. There are 100 times better rishta in india than western countries.

You keep putting up these 3HO peoples videos. How are they in anyway noble. They get unmarried people to perform tantric sex positions and play Vaheguru simran. They perform worship of idols. What can they teach others?

You are preaching to the wrong crowd. No one can help these folks. They will continue to aim the axe at their head repetitively. It's like a drug, they know it is hurting them, but they continue to use because it's an addiction.

Speak to your mom about moving back in with them. Your dad is doing the typical brown dad thing. He may think you are being weak and are giving up too fast on the marriage. They have a very different definition of tolerance than the modern Punjabi, who runs away from every difficulty faced in life today. They tolerated a lot of cr*p from white people and maybe your mom faced some of the repressed aggression from you father as well and he thinks, why can't you face some of it and continue to live in such an environment. His frame of reference is not right, but understanding where he is coming from may help him open up and accept your hell as reality and accept you back into the house. Maybe try to get one of your dad's best friends to sit in with a conversation about you moving back in. Let your parents know, you are willing to try again with your husband, if he changes (stops abusing you and stops drinking, and stops messaging other women) after you move back home. Your willingness to work it out may help your dad see the problems as real issues. His best friend/relative may help your dad understand the reality of your life. Also stand up to your husband. I don't mean go toe to toe with him. But stand your ground by showing him, you are not scared of him. These cowards work off of fear. Once they know the other person does not fear them, they actually develop a fear of you inside. Right now, he thinks you will not do anything to stand up for yourself. The way a person holds themselves, walks, and speaks can make you a victim or a dominant person in the house. Act like you are suppose to be there in the house and are an equal member in the house. I don't know the dynamics in the house, but if you are still doing things for him. Stop, doing things, like cooking meals for him, cleaning, laundry, etc. When he doesn't have clean clothes and a hot meals, something will click in. He will go to his animal behaviour of trying to force you to do it, but say exactly why you are not doing it and stand your ground. A dog doesn't get a treat until he shows how to sit and not move till told too. But the best thing you can do is move out and move to your parents house. Also don't show to him you are miserable. He feeds off of it. He knows you are vulnerable and takes advantage of it. Fake happiness and he has nothing in his power. Subtle changes can make a huge difference. Right now, he thinks you have no support. Find someone who will stand on your side and blatantly present it in his face.

When she believes Krishna is being praised in Dasam bani, she takes the words out of context. When Dasam Bani shows the true colors of Krishna, she disregard what is said and trust a story over Guru Sahib Bani. She went to the extent of changing the meaning of kaam to save her Lord Krishna. This is why never too attach yourself to a person. Only Guru Sahib.

Firstly, gurbani is saying Vishnu is attached to reincarnating himself. This should tell you Vishnu is not akaal Purakh or the True Guru. But how come you are not satisfied with gurbani truthful assesment on vishnu? Does this Shabad of gurbani shake your beliefs in Vishnu, if it didn't you have not understood the depth on gurbani. According to you, Vishnu is Akal Purakh. If Vishnu was, hukam would be under him and not as you say, "they are only going upon as they do as hukam." Vahiguru has no hukam to direct him, so how come you admit your Vishnu Lord is under hukam? Plus Sargun and nirgun doesn't help your case. Vaheguru/Guru doesn't become lower than hukam when in Sargun saroop. He's always thee Akal Purakh. He's never attached to reincarnating like Vishnu. He has no desire to put a nose ring in the nose of a cobra and claim he's powerful like Krishna. Yet vaheguru is all powerful. Vaheguru made Vishnu reincarnate himself as he gave Krishna false bravery. Both were puppets in vaheguru creation. But Guru Sahib is Akal Purakh. No higher no lower. Never can Vishnu or Krishna be seen as equal to Guru Sahib or akaal Purakh. You are not even satisfied with what sri Guru granth sahib ji is saying, how will you ever understand Krishna avatar. There is more Gurbani to come on them. All in small doses.

iksnu sdw AvqwrI rUDw ikqu lig qrY sMswrw ] kisan sadhaa avathaaree roodhhaa kith lag tharai sa(n)saaraa || Vishnu is always busy reincarnating himself - who will save the world? gurmuiK igAwin rqy jug AMqir cUkY moh gubwrw ]3] guramukh giaan rathae jug a(n)thar chookai moh gubaaraa ||3|| The Gurmukhs are imbued with spiritual wisdom in this age; they are rid of the darkness of emotional attachment. ||3|| ang 559 Satguru is saying, even Gurmukhs are higher (know the way to Akal Purakh) than Vishnu (Krishna as well since he's an incarnations of vishnu) because they are not tied down like Vishnu to emotional attachment of reincarnating himself.

Thank you for your honesty. Maybe say the beginning of chandi di vaar. This way you remember Akal Purakh, Sri Sahib, and ten forms of the Guru.

Who are you remembering when saying, Dhan Sri Bhagauthi Ji Sahib" ?

You fail to recognize the identity that bhangra gives to Punjabi youth. This identity is obviously negative. You want to minimize the actual damage bhangra has caused to the Punjabi youth. Bhangra gave them an avenue to misbehave. Every generation holds bhangra as there identity. You can keep denying reality. Bhangra changing to attract a bigger demographic does not mean it's not bhangra. It's like a 1950 youth saying 1980s bhangra is not bhangra.

Punjabi youth born in the West understand bhangra music. Whether they need bhangra music is not the issue. In there cars, house parties, school dances, reception, etc Punjabi youth go extra crazy when a bhangra song comes on. The effect of bhangra music is similar if not more on Punjabi youth. Since they are Punjabi, they hold bhangra as their culture and have a special for it in their ways. Countless times have Punjabi youth got upset because a white guy is making fun of bhangra. They take it personally, yet the same is not true for rap, hip hop, rnb. Punjabi youth make fun of it themselves and could care less if some white guy is making fun of "black" music.

The Punjabi youth in the West understand very well what is being said in Punjabi songs. These Punjabi songs have taken the youth away from the Guru. The culture built on bhangra is about drinking dancing and if the person is lucky, he gets himself a girl to mess around with for some time. Today the youth are taking many drugs. Bhangra music sets the atmosphere for guys and girls to mix in a promiscuous manner and it leads to take hard drugs. Gone are the days where alcohol is the only drug fueling them to misbehave.

Have you guys listened to his instructions? Do paath and listen carefully to what Guru Sahib is saying. Start applying the teachings and Guru Sahib will do his kirpa on you. Don't go to so called sants, babas, Brahmins, pandits, or practice any type of black magic, fasting, wearing certain things around the neck on wrist or fingers, etc. Don't worship at certain babas place or anything. Your only protector is Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji and no one else, no matter how much someone says, so and so has a high avastha, don't go to him. All are frauds only Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji is the true giver. Do paath of Sukhmani Sahib and afterwards do ardas with a clean heart. Incorporate a shabad in your ardas. Repeat the shabad with attention when your mind is doubting Guru Sahib and feels the need to utter the true words of the Guru.

You have no desire for the religious side because right now Vaheguru has given you the worldly things that keep you happy. But to get more worldly things the hair has to be cut right? I can ramble off a list, but I know you know exactly what I am referring too. I was 17 once and knew exactly why kids around me wanted to cut their hair at this age. What you are going through is because of the buddies you keep around you. Ever seen a horse with blinders on? Well that's you right now. Your buddies and sangat is filling your head with filth and taking you into the wrong direction. You should ask a Gursikh in your area to show you back to reality. Ask someone to help you with how to tie a dastar better. If you are tying one dastar more than twice in two days, it will be loose. Also do you stretch the material and sprinkle water before tying the dastar? This helps wonders to get a dastar on your head with the right amount of pressure. Maybe try a different type of material. Let me know which one you tie. it's very easy to get rid of the hair, but ask that person who cut his hair and then wanted to grow it back. How much they regretted cutting it in the first place and how much the guilt inside of them kills them. Also what good is seva if you are not going to follow the Guru's instructions of keeping hair. You are doing seva for some other reason, maybe it makes you feel better, maybe it's what you do or it's what your crowd does. I don't know the exact reason why you want to cut your hair, but if it's for a girl. You are the biggest fool in the world. I know people who did this, and they got nothing from it. Instead their social standing went down a couple of notches. More people made fun of them and they were still bullied by the same manmukh (the dogs who have leashes around their necks and are being dragged by worldly pleasures) peers. Listen to Gurbani in the language you understand it the best. Listen to the Guru's words. They are full of bravery, love, compassion, and joy. What you see around you is all false. It will all one day fall down back into the dirt it came from. Now is your chance to rise above the lower self existence and feel the heights only so many have gone by the blessing of Satguru Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji.