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19 hours ago, NonExistant said:

Ever since i was little I've always been scared of the dark and i still have to sleep with the light on cuz its scary and what  if a monster or ghost is going to get me so i have to keep a look out for them.

What do i do? 

Don't be scared of anything, when Maharaj is with you nothing evil can come anywhere near you. Before you sleep do Kirtan Sohila (or listen to it) and you won't feel scared.

1 hour ago, puzzled said:

Lol my dad used to do that to me too   sometimes I used to choke lol 

It was horrible lol then they used to laugh when you spat it out 

Just now, RajKaregaKhalsa1 said:

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ

Bhai Sahib, how can we say if someone is beautiful or not? Every woman (and man) is beautiful and we shouldn't look at beauty at face value. Look inside lol.

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ

Thats a good point 

Looks are hollow

18 hours ago, jakare said:

So you've drunk alcohol?

Well not by my own will, but my grandad put a spoon of brandy in my mouth when I was about 5 or 6 years old. I hated it and would never drink it ever again in my life.

The chorus is exactly what my mum says to me lmaooo 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oE9Qzhnsbn8

21 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I actually saw him in the same flight as me when i was going india,

I would've given him a dirty look lmaooo 

He's a joke 

Just now, Ranjeet01 said:

Jazzy B is a pendu Canadian. 

He comes from Surrey in Canada, he is what they call a "dipper " in Canada.

He's just one of those irrelevant people that no-one really cares about anymore. My grandad will see him on TV and starts swearing at him 

3 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Jazzy b is gnna go hell lol   he began this stupid "trend"  he has misled do many people.

Look at what honey singh promoted through his music, he misled a whole generation of young people and look at him now    he has ban diagnosed with bipolar and is not well.   That's what happens.

Honey Singh's songs are were so cringey they always will be

Jazzy B is just a weirdo, just look at him

@puzzled Here's another childhood memory:

2 minutes ago, puzzled said:

In punjab, When you see some guy with 12 inch long spikey hair sprayed gold, bright red t shirt, skin tight skinny jeans, khanda tattooed on his arm  with a stuck up  attitude, walking like no man like him has walked the earth,     you really do itch your and stare at him in absolute confusion.  Mind boggling 

*Jazzy B

21 hours ago, puzzled said:

I remember this song! This was so big back then!  Childhood memories lol 

Its shame but I heard he died of alcoholism.  Alcohol is so destructive 

I love that song too lol

Alcohol is nasty I hate it lol

On 2/27/2019 at 8:36 PM, Guest happysingh said:

For those who tie the kenyan style turban, do you always iron your pagh after folding it, or do you just tie it after ironing ?  I have never really ever ironed it, I just tie it after folding it.  Have you ever done both ? Does it make a difference ?  Also I wonder, how long do you tie that pagh until you change it ? 

I've watched my dad tie his pagh loads of times and he's never ironed it (he does starch it tho)

19 hours ago, Redoptics said:

Defo African style

My dad, grandad and chacha all tie their pagh's kenyan style and the point at the top is bare sharp looool 

My grandparents are from kenya tho so it makes sense lol

Just now, puzzled said:

yeah i dont know the exact context of that but it seems he started making his own laws up and the panth got divided! 

Does it say anything about what Maharaj thought of that??

Just now, puzzled said:

Thats interesting I never knew that..

Just now, puzzled said:

yeah i dont think i would want my wife to wear red  lol  something really cheesy about that  haha! i think saffron or like a dark orange looks nice too 

tbh most my clothes are black or a dark blue,  i like white too but its a tricky colour lol 

Most my clothes are actually blue and pastel pink

5 minutes ago, puzzled said:

i have one hoodie but its like a very dark maroon.

Yeah same but I don't think it classes as red

2 minutes ago, puzzled said:

yeah i read that as well!  apparently banda singh bahadir started making his own laws and adopted the colour red. 

if this is true then he moved away from guru jis path!   i have heard this stuff about him before but dont know how true it is 

I've never actually heard that before.. Interesting lol

2 minutes ago, puzzled said:

same, i think i have a red t shirt but i dont wear it, i have one hoodie but its like a very dark maroon.

its odd how the traditional colour for punjabi brides is red, when were not actually supposed to wear that. 

Yeah blue is way nicer lol

I don't really own red clothes anyway so its not a problem for me, I used to own a red cap but I don't wear it anymore either because we're not meant to wear hats etc.

1 hour ago, puzzled said:

In tankhanama by bhai nand lal ji it says a gursikh should not wear red?  Why is this?   I read how red also symbolises evil thoughts and attachment and love for the world in gurbani.

So are we supposed to take this literally? 

I think its because historically, Muslims/mughals adopted the colour green but the important colour for Hindu's is Red. I'm pretty sure the British wore red as well. However Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj selected the colour Blue. This had practical reasons too since in battle if a Singh was injured the blood would just look like sweat (Thats what I was told from a Katha) so therefore would be less targeted. I don't know much about this but this is just my guess.

Bhull Chuk Maaf

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfF8jMN-2CM

22 hours ago, Redoptics said:

How as Sikhs do we actually do it? Do we just make sure we break attachments to everyone? Still love them but understand everything around us going to die?

And has anyone on here accomplished this?

As humans it is near to impossible to break attachments with other people because if someone gives us happiness then we become attached to that person. When my nani passed away I was really upset (obviously) but then I realised that crying is not going to help her. So I did Bani for her. However, I only had one wish to go to her funeral since I never got to say goodbye or even see her before she passed away. But when I went to her funeral I was so glad and from that time since, I feel peaceful and my heart is at rest that now she is with Maharaj. Where we come from we have to go back. Now I live to make her proud of me and no matter what, she is still alive in my heart. 

This is the game of life and death. One day it will be our turn and so its best we don't waste our time hurting other people, slandering, gossiping and doing the wrong things because life is really too short to be wasted on stupid petty things.

I'm sorry for all this Veerji hopefully I answered your question.

26 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Can we vape?

No, Vaping is still bad for you. At the end of the day, smoke is smoke and its not meant to go near your lungs.

Also vaping is a nasty habit too that is hard to get out of.