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I really have been realising this and it's being unhealthy, do check out my new topic where I have asked the sangat too.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh ji. Over this past few months I have realise my weakness. Many friends have told me that I am too humble at times. What I feel is that I don't have any self worth at all. There are times where I feel like I am a really big sinner. I only deserve to sit outside a gurdwara and beg for someone to let me in. I would always think that someone is wasting their time if they were to have a chat or a talk with me.That was my thought, the problem is here that I don't find anything wrong with my thoughts and me being humble. But many of the sangat is telling me wrong. Could you explain a little bit so that I can build a better self esteem. Maybe my entire meaning of being humble is wrong or this humble is too the next level already. Can anyone help and guide me? I believe through the sangat, maharaj comes and answers their help. Thank you sangat ji

Its been 10 days since you posted this I wanted to welcome you too. It's always never late. I am a little new too so welcome to this amazing website where we can talk about our problems or ask reasonable questions. I hope you'll take as much laha and learn something from here. Have a blessed day ahead! ?

I don't know but at times if I have done a mistake, I really feel guilty and bad and I really wish to repent it. I deserve to apologise to you because I definitely have done a mistake. Maharaj kirpa karan sab de upar

You really make me feel like crying because I really wish to be blessed with amrit. I cannot believe the sangat is giving me so much of pyaar. Yeah I definitely try not to rush onto things after a few times I did and it did not turn out good. I'm so touched with this beautiful message. Maharaj always and always bless the true sangat like you.

I definitely am a paapi because I know I have done mistakes and I'm not perfect either. While writing this, I did not have the ego to boast about how gyaani I am but i just wanted to express my disappointment because while walking on the path of sikhi, I wanted many other youths too to be walking too. Anyways, speaking to the sangat, I always get to learn something new and I will definitely not repeat any mistakes that I commit. I'm so sorry if there is any misunderstanding or if there was too much of ego in me. I'm not a mahapurkh to have myself fully control over all vices.

I believe I can never change someone unless they themselves want to change. All that I can do is pray that maharaj does his kirpa and bring back those youths that are running away from sikhi and those who have gone off track.

I agree with you and I am very much disappointed with the youth nowadays. So many of them are running away from sikhi and I have seen some youths take amrit but don't keep a proper rehit. I really look up upon the youths around my age that have been blessed with amrit but it's really disappointing when I see all the truth.

Now I see where its coming from. I am so thankful and grateful to be blessed with my type of thinking. The people are always hyped up about the world but this world is just a few days circus. Thank you veerji for telling me this. I didn't know about this and I only thought it's the nowadays generation.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh ji. Upon seeing a forum, I decided to get the sangat opinion too. I myself am a teen. I am 15. I love to go to gurdwara camps because you get a lot a laha and you get to learn how to be a better person. I am speaking about youths in my country Malaysia. When I go to camps, I speak to many people. They all become my friend. I am not sure of the male gender tho but I have a few guys and girls asking me if I am single or if I have a crush on someone or if I would like to be in a relationship. I always say to them that I am not here to find a partner and I am very very opposed with this type of thinking. I don't like it at all when I got to camps, only to find out the youth are interested in all nonsense about boyfriend and girlfriend and crush etc. ? There some amazing souls too that I meet during these camps. Some youth like me also do sewa and come to camp to build a stronger relationship with guru maharaj. I am very blessed to have met these type of youth too. Probably I have matured thinking. I don't know but sometimes it's upsetting that it's very rare I get the true sangat from going to camps. For an instance, in a camp I would have to mix around people my age ( in the teens) and I can't be sitting around people with the age of 20's above. It would look really odd. But maharaj does his kirpa and I always prefer sitting in the darbar rather than anywhere else because no one can disturb me there and many people avoid talking rubish in the darbar sahib because guru maharaj is watching them.what they don't realise is guru maharaj sees them everywhere, in the Langar hall or in the park. Writing this I have made a lot of mistakes, I am not good,no one is bad. Please forgive me sangat and teach me so that I can be a better person.

Yeah, during this days, i have been closer to my elder sister as she always guides me how to tie a dastaar and she always invites me to rehraas sahib together. Eventough I am a little introvert, maharaj definitely will do his kirpa. Now I am wondering,how did my sister walk through the path because she was the first one in my family to be blessed with amrit. It must be really hard for her. It's easy for me tho thanks to maharaj. Anyways,thank you dear sangat for your advice and support. Maharaj always bless true sangat like you phena ji.

This is so me! I am 15 and by listening to all this, it has made me remember our Sikh itihaas and make me walk on the right path. Tho sometimes I am too engrossed and listen to the same dhadi dharna 10 times a day, I love it and nothing can stop me. My family finds it annoying but I don't. With maharaj kirpa I am also learning how to tie a dastaar eventough it's taking time and there are obstacle but with maharaj kirpa all problems are resolved. Maharaj bless you always.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh sangat. Right now I am 15 years old, my elder sister took amrit when she was 18. Maharaj blessed me with an understanding early so I really want to take amrit. In where I live, it's lockdown again till December. So during this lockdown, I have done an ardaas to be closer with guru maharaj ji. Maharaj does his kirpa and I wake up for amritvela almost every day. I refrain from eating meat as my mother does not cook meat in home as well. Maharaj has been doing great kirpa on paapi like me. I also have been practising to tie a dastaar though it's taking time and sometimes there are obstacle. Like I have one right now. But with maharaj kirpa all problems are resolved. When I first started to keep a rehit, I did not think of taking amrit. Like I did not want to imagine big stuff without moving forward. Now, I am thinking of taking amrit. I am not really open to any of my family members and it's all maharaj kirpa that I have open up to my family of tieing dastaar. My family obviously doesn't know that I want to take amrit next year. How do I open up to them. I always find difficulties to open up topics that are rarely spoken in my home. And any pyaare sangat are willing to give their advices and suggestions or maybe help me improve my rehit or anything at all. Please keep in mind that I also have to go school so any advices for a person who wants to take amrit while still studying in school. While writing this, I have done so many mistakes please forgive me dear sangat jio. Thank you so much.

Usually they sell this in gurdwara but it's lockdown at my state here in Malaysia. So, when the gurdwaras are open I will definitely go to the store and get one. Thank you so much jio and I will definitely try this option as well. Thank you all sangat for your suggestions. I never imagine even one sangat replying to this. ?

Yeah I could only find a steel picture so yeah. The online ones are like expensive tho. Anyways my only option is when Any of my family or me myself visit India, then I'll be able to purchase one. Till then I appreciate that I still have sarabloh kara with me.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh everyone! I'm from Malaysia and it's lockdown again here until December Though I am not an amritdhari, I really want to purchase the simarna beads kara (im not sure if this is what you call it)( see the picture below), I see many steel ones on the internet but I would prefer the sarabloh one.my only option is to buy it online but I cannot find it anywhere in any online store. Can the sangat help me? I found this item on eBay but the currency here is different and I will have to pay quite a lot of money. I am also not sure if they sell it in the gurdwara shop too. If any of you sangat are living in Malaysia, can you guys tell me if they sell it here and where can I get it. Thank you sangat ? I know this website is Sikh sangat UK but who knows there are sangat from Malaysia like mee too.

I don't deserve so much of vadiayi as I'm really a paapi as well. I really hope from this discussion you too will be able to learn something, it's night now and I really hope to wake up tomorrow. May Maharaj bless all those true souls that are walking on the path of paatshah. Have a good night and great day tomorrow!

I'm not perfect either, but if maharaj blesses me with the realisation that I've done a mistake, I take it so seriously. Im doing great but see now, I haven't woke up for amritvela for 5 days! That's alottt, and I completely feel I need to forgive myself. I must wake up tomorrow or else guru maharaj not gonna forgive me and probably take away my wish of getting amrit. I am lucky because guru maharaj without looking at all my sins, put his nadar on me. This is one thing that I'll always thank paatshah for. Hope all of the sangat have a great day!

Though I am very young, but I only know 1 Sikh matrimonial site. https://gursikhsanjog.com/

I did amritvela today so that Maharaj forgive me. I took a hukamnama too. Maharaj did forgive me. I am very thankful to guru maharaj and the sangat because if not I would be feeling so guilty about it. From now, I will always take in control of my thoughts as much as I can. Maharaj will definitely do his kirpa. ਜਿਸ ਪਾਪੀ ਕਉ ਮਿਲੈ ਨਾ ਢੋਈ ।। ਸਰਣਿ ਆਵੈ ਤਾਂ ਨਿਰਮਲ ਹੋਈ।। That sinner that finds no protection anywhere, if he comes seeking your sanctuary, then he becomes immaculate and pure. My intense love for all all the sangat who have taught me, advice me and support me. Maharaj bless you all so much, may all of you cross this worldly ocean ??

Sangat has really opened up my eyes to never judge anyone. Now I really feel like a paapi for judging someone. Similarly I am no one to judge maharajs creations, because directly I am judging the creator too. I am never perfect, I can never be. It's just that I really get to learn alot from mistakes I make because paatshah is constantly helping me to grow. Please forgive me dear sangat, I can never compare myself to blessed souls like all of you.

I'm learning, maharaj kirpa karan. I will definitely refrain myself from having negativity towards anyone. Thank you for your advice dear sangat.

Thank you so much, this is something new that I have learned through the sangat. I will definitely take your advice and learn alot through it. Thank you for replying to this.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. I'm really a paapi but I need the sangat opinion on this. As Maharaj does his kirpa upon alll, I find myself start to prefer hearing gurbani or keertan rather than songs and watching movies. I would always want to listen to parchaar, listen to anything that is sikhi related. I would always walk away if my family is watching a dance show, watching a movie. I really am a paapi but this is me. I like this version of myself that is always in the ang sang Waheguru. I do listen to songs and people dancing but as days comes it's getting lesser. Here comes my question. As me and my family was seeing a Hindi show, a celebrity walked in. She was wearing very revealing clothes. Upon seeing that, I straight away told my sister, I don't like her. My sister said to me back, doesnt mean the person is not like you, you should hate her. Doesn't mean she is not your type, you hate her. While writing this now,I realise whatever my sister said is probably Maharaj speaking to me. Any advices on how to just not have hatred for people that are not on the path of sikhi. It's maharaj testing me and I need to learn. While writing this there are so many mistakes that I have made, please do forgive me sangat.

Thank you for your support, I believe through the sangat guru maharaj actually answers my questions and doubts. I actually learned a pangti today, ਚਰਨ ਸਰਨਿ ਗੁਰ ਏਕ ਪੈਡਾ ਜਾਇ ਚਲ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਕੋਟਿ ਪੈਡਾਂ ਆਗੇ ਹੋਇ ਲੇਤ ਹੈ ।। A disciple who walks one step towards the guru to take his refuge and goes to him with devotion and humility, Guru advances to receive him by taking million steps. This paapi learn alot from supportive sangat like you, thank you so much ?