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    3 hours ago, Jassu said:

    Wow, shame on you for saying you have played with a lot of women in your jawani. Yet you say there are Punjabi women who are slags and bimbos. How about you look in the mirror first. If you want Punjabi women to stay pure you should also be pure yourself instead of tarnishing their image online. Of course you are single, you are really bitter. Try to have some empathy btw. The Dutch guy said he admires I’ve never been in a relationship before and that he wants to help me go to uni in the Netherlands and help me be successful. Maybe you should practice kindness to women in your life then you can find a loyal one. If you can still apparently get it up then you should find a good bibi in her 30s to get married to. But you won’t because you’re bitter. 

    I think this forum is heavily dominated by old or middle aged males who put down Sikh women every chance they get.  

  2. https://www.outlookindia.com/newsscroll/sikh-man-alleges-muslim-wife-inlaws-forcing-him-to-convert-moves-court/2121216

    Sikh man alleges Muslim wife, in-laws forcing him to convert, moves court

    Chandigarh, Jul 15 (PTI) A Chandigarh-based Sikh man has filed a civil suit in a local court here, seeking directions for restraining his wife and his in-laws from allegedly forcing him and his minor son to convert to Islam.

    The court of Civil Judge (Junior Division) Rasveen Kaur on Wednesday issued notices to defendants on a complaint filed by the 36-year-old man and fixed July 20 as the next date of hearing.

    In a civil suit filed through counsel Dixit Arora, the man said that he was Sikh by religion while his wife and his in-laws were Muslim.

    The plaintiff through his counsel submitted that he met his would-be wife in 2008 in Chandigarh. He was working as a store in-charge of a jewellery store while the woman was working as a sales girl at the same store.

    After they became friends, the woman proposed marriage. He initially refused the proposal as he belonged to a different religion while she was a Muslim.

    But after she assured him that she would never create any hurdle in his religious feelings and values, they solemnised the marriage according to Sikh rituals in 2008 at Amritsar.

    The plaintiff alleged that from the day one of their marriage, his wife and his in-laws started forcing him to profess Islam.

    When his in-laws continued to force him to profess Islam, he decided to stay away from them and shifted to Delhi where he stayed for four years from 2008 till 2011.He later shifted to Amritsar where he stayed for four years.

    In 2012, his wife gave birth to a boy. His in-laws started trying their best to convert their child to Islam, he alleged.

    On the persistent request of his wife, he shifted to Chandigarh in 2016. Since then, there had been active interference of his in-laws in his matrimonial life, he alleged.

    He further alleged that his in-laws used to instigate his wife to enter into heated arguments with him as he was not ready to convert to Islam. He further accused his in-laws of insulting him numerous times. 

  3. Sikh numbers need to be high in Punjab, the percentage there is decreasing day by day. The percentage of Sikh population in Punjab has registered a decline from 59.9% to 57.69% (even though the total population of the community has gone up). 

    Sikhs will soon lose majority status in Punjab too, which is the only Sikh-majority place in the world.

    https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/comment/punjabs-exodus-without-an-end-19414

    https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/archive/punjab/migration-may-have-led-to-decline-in-sikh-count-125038

     

  4. 2 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

    I know for a lot of people from the 80s generation; they would be warned not to get too into Sikhi, anyone who was wearing a pagh or even a Kara would get picked up and be missing forever. 

    A lot of people from this generation find Sikhi discussion "boring" and prefer to gossip instead. 

    They tend to be more materialistic than the grandparents generation and pass on the "watered down" version of Sikhi to the children which led to the present generation. 

  5. On 1/7/2022 at 11:02 AM, SikhKosh said:

    Yes, we've overall become more panthic over the past few years. Our community was a lost cause in the 2000s. The divide between pappu Sikhs and panthic Sikhs will become wider in the coming years. People used to criticize me for speaking out against Ravi Singh Khalsa Aid helping mostly non Sikhs saying we're all about sarbat da bhala, but today many are doing it. More and more Sikhs are aware during the Christmas period about the Chotay Sahibzaday and so on. The Dhadli thing is true but then again for every one Dhadli you have a thousand hoes on insta, tiktok and snapchat so things need to be adressed from within our homes. Sikh parents need to start focusing more on anakh, honor and a panthic mindset than just getting a western education and 'sarbat da bhala'. Also an emphasis on Sikhs marrying only Sikhs.

    I agree, we're becoming more panthic. 

  6. On 1/6/2022 at 10:13 AM, Jacfsing2 said:

    Most Desi films are based on star power rather than any storyline.

    I think one thing the Panjabi industry does right is including main actors with turbans (I know they cut their beards). I knew girls who weren't into men with turbans but started being much more open when they saw Ammy Virk, Tarsem Jassar and Diljit Dosanjh take over Punjabi screens. 

     

  7. On 1/6/2022 at 6:17 AM, Not2Cool2Argue said:

    Another approach could be to have really good panjabi media. Many girls even Sikh girls are able to understand Korean from watching Korean dramas. 

    I knew a Sikh who started learning how to write Korean due to interest in their music and drama industry. 

    Television has the ability to influence people in good and bad ways. Panjabi entertainment industry needs to start producing good content that's relatable to Sikhs around the world (not just ones in Panjab). 

  8. On 1/6/2022 at 2:55 AM, proudkaur21 said:

    we also need to find out why our women are so gullible? Parents are weak and dont tell their daughters to set boundaries? i have been always close with my mom and always tell her about everything. Could it  be these kids are not close to their parents and cannot discuss things freely with them and are scared of repercussions.

    Some kids in general have the tendency to "rebel". Some parents can be way too strict to the point where the kids don't feel comfortable sharing anything with them. 

    So when they get into something dangerous (like grooming), they feel scared to tell their parents in fear of punishment. 

    One thing that's desperately needed is Parchar in "Sikh" homes. Many Sikhs don't know anything about Sikhi apart from love all humanity, all you need is a good heart and occasional visits to the Gurdwara. So a very liberalised and simplified viewed which they use to justify their bad habits. This can make the kids confused about their religion as well. I've heard of a parent who didn't tell his daughter about Sikhi thinking it would mess up her ability to understand science at school!

  9. On 1/5/2022 at 9:05 PM, Premi5 said:

    I think a lot of the new arrivals and the ones I've seen in Italy (on TV) don't seem to care much for 'bhangra' (maybe non bhangra Panjabi music though) - they also seem to be into Sikhi and attend Gurdware often (don't know if that's mainly for Langar)

    By casually racist, I mean they would say something offensive and not think much of it. Not jokey like your above example. 

    Saw this docu on Australia and the Lebanese immigrants where they made it look one-sided against the Aussies

    https://www.aljazeera.com/program/featured-documentaries/2015/2/23/once-upon-a-time-in-punchbowl

    Btw , which city are you in/close to ? Melbourne was a 'non-penal' city, I think, compared to the other major ones, so wonder if less racism there?

    @Kaurr, what do you think of racism in Aus ?

     

     

    The riots were definitely not one sided. We were taught both sides had fault, they had tensions with each other which eventually broke out into a big riot.

     

  10. 3 hours ago, justasking said:

    I never even heard of this untill i learnt about it online, and i think Khatris are the only Sikh group that intermarry hindus and does that no meat on tuesday thing. I dont think any kharkus were khatri either majority were Jatts  and founder of khalistan  movement were Jatt and Rajpoot Sikh. 

    Intermarrying with Hindus is more accepted among Khatri Sikhs than other Sikhs. I know a Khatri Sikh family with both urban and rural roots, they marry Hindus and their elders are alright with it too.  

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