It's not obvious because they don't, reading in other languages is also not good, IK OnKar is known through out the world as meaning there is one God when it doesn't and people think our panth is monotheistic when it's actually panenthistic not to be mixed with panthestic.
I personally think every Sikh has to learn Gurmukhi, and we need to try and get out of do your nitnem and everything is fine mentality. Guru Granth Sahib Ji has 1430 angs there is so much to learn . For instance you want to know indepth what a real Gurmukh is read Sidth Gosht. Also Guru Nanak Sahib Ji explains Shabad is Guru and singing bani is a must because of sound vibrations the words produce when pronounced.
She is a mature student, from here , but she goes back to Columbia every end of term, I have known her on and off past two years and past 8 months I have been seeing her so to speak.
My first option would be to marry a apni suchi gal, but they do not even want to open up dialogue. They play marriage like it's a topp trump game, any stat lower than 10 is not worth their time. Even if they are divorced and have kids. So please do not think this my first choice but I'm 44 and want a family so time is not on my side.
That might be the case, but they have not been indoctrinated from birth, if they change it will be slightly and due to acclimatising to their new surroundings.