I am totally against arranged marriages. My cousin had his marriaged arrange but it didn't work out in the end. They did the traditional thing of going to the girls house etc etc and they both said yes. After about 4 months of talking on the phone/seeing each other they both realised that they weren't meant to be. At this time both sides had made all the wedding arrangements like the hall, dj, wedding cards etc. At this stage neither of them wanted to tell their parents because of how far the arrangements had gone.
The marriage only last 1 year before they got devorced. Now this isn't going to be the case with all arranged marriages, I know that, but I do feel that everyone should find their own partner.