Tarrandeep Kaur

ok then lets not have ishnaan then anymore, because were not gonna get anywhere. its about bein pure on the inside AND outside. we have to make sure our bosdy is clean before we do certain seva etc. http://sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=1152 of course whilst having our ishnaan, we are meant to be japping naam aswel.

Its like sayin is there a rehitnama for sayin you must wash both arms for ur ishnaan, or can u just wash one :6 Hair is part of u, just like u wash the hair on ur legs and arms, u wash the hair on your head. Just because its longer, it dont matta. Full ishnaan including washing of the kesh should be done everyday. Ishnaan should take place as soon as one wakes up, then seated naam simran and nitnem should be done. Gurfateh jee

vahigurooooooo

edited. reason: being hypocritical :sad:

mÚ 1 ] First Mehla: glNØI AsI cMgIAw AwcwrI burIAwh ] We are good at talking, but our actions are bad. mnhu kusuDw kwlIAw bwhir ictvIAwh ] Mentally, we are impure and black, but outwardly, we appear white. rIsw kirh iqnwVIAw jo syvih dru KVIAwh ] We imitate those who stand and serve at the Lord's Door. nwil KsmY rqIAw mwxih suiK rlIAwh ] They are attuned to the Love of their Husband Lord, and they experience the pleasure of His Love. hodY qwix inqwxIAw rhih inmwnxIAwh ] They remain powerless, even while they have power; they remain humble and meek. nwnk jnmu skwrQw jy iqn kY sMig imlwh ]2] O Nanak, our lives become profitable if we associate with them. ||2|| vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroooo

You know what, grow up. Gosh first of all u send posts sayin 'woohoo' then u start to have a little rant and rave. now ur postin stuff, and no one evn asked u. If u dont wanna go to either programmes then good for you. Stop tryin to start unecessary arguments. Practise what you preach.

KKV using Akhalee Nihang Baba Hardeesh Singh Jee Velling Vahleh's account Vaaheguroo Jee Kaa Khalsaa Vaaheguroo Jee Kee Fatheh!!! You tell me Bhenjee? Tell you what? I asked the question. It dont matter, forget it.

KKW, I dont get it, you asked for your account to be deleted. Now you just post from someone elses account instead. What was the point of that. Oh well. Gurfateh

Listen its common sense really. there are prgrammes in london, thats fine because it means that the london sangat can go to them programmes. Now leicster and coventry are quite close to each other, so would it make sense for eveyone to just go to one programe (the coventry one which has been goin on for ages) for all the sangat to be together?? Of course it does. But if its gona go ahead, then let it continue. Its all good. gurfateh jee

My approach may have been harsh because i was shocked at the question - (the same as other members!) but i did not 'put him down' u guys r acting as if i swore at him or something? ahh i cant be bothered. gurfateh jee

To BaBa G; Calm down, all i sed was its the most stupid post ive read on sikh sangat- whats the need for putting the comment saying im attacking another member? Do explain how thats attacking someone? I dont want to show disrespect, but other members have said far worse in the past, yet you seem the need to pick on me? The poster didnt say long disatnce or far related, he sed FAMILY, so if u veiw them as a FAMILY member, u dont marry them. quite simple.

kal kaathee raajae kaasaaee dhharam pa(n)kh kar ouddariaa || The Dark Age of Kali Yuga is the knife, and the kings are butchers; righteousness has sprouted wings and flown away. ( WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! why on earth would you want to marry a member of your family! they're related to you!!! erghhhhhh

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mweI siq siq siq hir siq siq siq swDw ] O mother, True, True True is the Lord, and True, True, True is His Holy Saint. bcnu gurU jo pUrY kihE mY CIik gWTrI bwDw ]1] rhwau ] The Word which the Perfect Guru has spoken, I have tied to my robe. ||1||Pause|| inis bwsur niKAqR ibnwsI riv ssIAr bynwDw ] Night and day, and the stars in the sky shall vanish. The sun and the moon shall vanish. igir bsuDw jl pvn jwiego ieik swD bcn AtlwDw ]1] The mountains, the earth, the water and the air shall pass away. Only the Word of the Holy Saint shall endure. ||1|| Vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguroo :pray:

good posts from hau apraadhi. You need to find out what TRUE love is 1st. The love ur tlkin about is maya- attachment for this guy.

Omg that is absolutely disgusting! Firstly why the hell was a 59 year old woman and a 71 yr old man, given IVF treatment in the first place! Its baaned in the UK for a reason! How selfish, so their kids would be ten and there mom wound be like 70! She wouldnt be able to take care of the kids properly! I hope a dedicated couple adopt these little girls and give them the upbringing they deserve. This whole 'I wanna boy not a girl' thing gets on my nerves, who cares! As long as its a healthy baby! Be thankful! vahigurooo...

the bibi shudnt be dressed like a 'hindu' with all red and gold jewellery. simple is best. Obvioudly both singh and singhni should be wearing kirpans. Not sure if it matters whose holding one or not, just for how really. I think it should be left as singh in front, bibi behind, this has been done for years, also in bhai sahibs time, why change it now?

Good Post.

'Hard to fit into society' I hate this phrase lol. At the end of the day were different its something to be proud of, if we wear a dastar we dont 'fit in' anyway, so what, we wear the trendiest coolest clothes to try and look like everyone else? I agree with what sumone sed above, baana doesnt mean that you are a spiritual person or whatever. If we wear baana, we wear the khalsa uniform, a good number of baana can last you for ages, no need to buy more clothes and keep up with ever changing fashion trends, al that money you save can be put to good use. I wouldnt look down on or think bad of someone who didnt wear baana, and i know baana isnt everythink.........but yeah lol. gurfateh jee

Vahiguroooooooo!

If you dont want to get your parents involved, at least tell an uncle, aunt or an older person. So they can advise you best, its not a good idea to be sorting these things yourself.

kbIrw jhw igAwnu qh Drmu hY jhw JUTu qh pwpu ] Kabeer, where there is spiritual wisdom, there is righteousness and Dharma. Where there is falsehood, there is sin. jhw loBu qh kwlu hY jhw iKmw qh Awip ]155] Where there is greed, there is death. Where there is forgiveness, there is God Himself. ||155|| vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooo

Thats why you shouldnt drink coke. seriously its nasty stuff, full of rubbish.

Nope, he will be staying birmingham, he wouldnt be able to travel to coventry everyday-would be difficult. Stop being spoilt sport, and just come over to bham its only 25mins drive! :rolleyes: