ok .. paji i fink u made a mistake my calling her a gf... but then again a gf can also be a every gud freind.. the way most people in here are thinking is probably the english way of hving a gf and im sure paji being religious may not be having that type of relationhip with the gal. emotional attatchments to other people are allowed.. we are still human beings this is our way of learning from out mistakes therefore instead of ctritising we shuld help paji to make the right choice. so before everyone laughs at paji we should be helping him to take the correct path thats our duty as fellow brothers and sisters.
like i said i do not believe there is anything rong in having an emotional attachment to another person, and if you are considering marriage with this girl then do think that when u marry a gal or boy you sometimes marry the family.. this gyal may be the right one for u however she may not. therefore do not make the mistake of ruining your path to guru over an emotional attacthment. If this girl is not religious and her family is not either then mayb that is guruji tellin you its not the right decision. i always say believe in kismat the one will come to you and if that happens to be her thn guruji will make you get together in the end.. dont make a hasty decision consider what i have just said...
sorry if i have spoken out of term and no disrespect to anyone this is my view. u have chosen a gud path which is sikhi guru will always be here for you but will the gyal??