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Amritdhari stuggling with depression
Guest posted a topic in GUPT FORUMWjkk wjkf Im having a really difficult time at the moment and has been like this for maybe 3/4 of a year. Maharaj kirpa, i was blessed with amrit just over a year ago and in the start it was an unexplainable experience, however slowly i feel like i began to fall in my sikhi. I would look at all people and think with innocence that god resides in each person, but now i just seem to judge everyone and think bad about them. Vikaars have gone really bad and causes me much depression, to the point where i feel like suicide would be better than this suffering. I am a true believer that maharaj works through his gursikhs, and whenever i seem to go to the gurdwara i always seem to get dirty stares and looks from kamaii wale gursikhs and i just know that im not welcome, which causes me even more depression and stops me from going to the gurughar. I try so hard, although i think about doing some of the old things i used to do before amrit (like smoking weed) i have been able to control myself enough to not commit any bujjer kurehit. For some reason i feel like i am being punished or i just dont feel the love from waheguru ji anymore, i try to boost my sharda by looking upto guru sahibaan but my mind even becomes to thing bad about our gurus ? my parents had a breakup not long ago and that seems to have made things worse recently as i just cannot focus on bani and simran, also because of the situation, i had to backup my mom and maybe maharaj isnt happy that we chose for my dad to leave. Im so confused sangat ji, dont know where to go, what to do. I do ardaas that maharaj blesses me with gurmat and gursikhi but im finding it difficult. The reason im writing this is because just today i spent most of the day reading bani, doing simran and it was really nice, and then the moment i sit down to do my university revision im just hit with depression from nowhere and this is an onwards cycle every single time, its so frustrating. Sorry this was so long, I do benti in ur charan sangat ji that you give me your support and help me get through this. Im honestly so stuck and confused i dont see the point of living life without the pyaar for maharaj. wjkk wjkf
Sikh Community Organisations
simran345 posted a topic in WHAT'S HAPPENING?(Admin/Mods - im not sure where to put this, but it would be a good idea to pin it, for quick reference.) Sikh organisations if anybody needs them. Please feel free to add other related organisations. UK Sikh Youth UK: http://www.facebook.com/SikhYouthUK Sikh Helpline: http://sikhhelpline.com/ Sikh Awareness Society: http://www.sasorg.co.uk/ Kaurs Corner: https://m.facebook.com/KaursCornerUK/?ref=content_filter ( I will add other community organisations later) Midland Langar Seva Society: https://m.facebook.com/midlandlangarsevasociety/?locale2=en_GB Swat London: http://www.swatlondon.com/ USA United Sikhs: http://www.unitedsikhs.org/
Whole Family Against Me Doing Bhagti - help
Singh2017 posted a topic in GUPT FORUMVJKK VJKF Sangat Ji, Daas is asking for some help. I'm trying to increase my bani and naam (or even just doing the current bani and naam I am being blessed to do) but I can't do any simran or paath with my family having to say something about it. They are constantly telling me to stop and I feel like I have to wait for them to leave the house for do any simran or bani because they're always listening out for me and judging me and making fun of me. They kick up a fuss every time I was to go to the Gurudwara and I want to become Amritdhari soon and I can't hack them constantly not letting me to bhagti. I've done ardaas many times and I always hold faith and it seems like things get worse but that's not the problem because Maharaj doesn't make mistakes so I can accept that but I don't know what I can do. I can't use that as an excuse to not do any naam or bani. I've spoken to them and everything and they just don't care. It makes me want to leave the house and it's destroying my relationships with people at home. What can I do? Vaheguru Ji
Help Save Jaydan Singh
simran345 posted a topic in GUPT FORUMI’m posting this again, as I feel it needs more awareness. To all sangat, please donate whatever you can manage: https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/jaydan-nerr Thank you ji ?? Waheguru
Help Save Jaydan Singh
simran345 posted a topic in POLITICS | LIFESTYLEI’m posting this again, as I feel it needs more awareness. To all sangat, please donate whatever you can manage: https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/jaydan-nerr Thank you ji ?? Waheguru
French Sikh Looking for Help!!!
TheeTurbanator posted a topic in WHAT'S HAPPENING?Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I have a friend who is a Sikh from France, and he lives near no Gurdwara. He is looking for a sangat and someone to help him out. The problem is that he contacted the Gurdwaras in france multiple times, but they have not responded. Please help!