kullykhalsa

anyone can perform seva, who are we to stop people from doing seva! next its going to be only people with a certain type of dastaar can do this seva! do u actually believe guru ji said hey "non amritdharis you can only do joorian da seva" ridiculous :wub: bhul chuk maf people :D

fateh well said hardeep, some things are not in your control as has been said before, be thankful to an extent that your loved one are getting closer to the waheguru and leaving kaljug :wub: im sure we will all do ardaas for u 2 :D

AMAZING INTERVIEW! :wub:

kulpreet singhs "rant" pretty damn amazing! well nice and informative! as for narinder singh keep it up veer ji :wub: bhul chuk maf peepz :D

fateh in reply to super_singhni and the guest, whove said we sdhould look @ our past to learn, i agree with you but my point is that we shouldnt let the past mistakes hold us back frm what is right, guru ji has said that we should wear a dastaar once we have taken amrit, im sure people have done bad things and then taken there dastaar off but dwelling on it does not help! i agree with the comment above about the kara,kirpan being the same as the dastaar! bhul chuk maf peepz :wub:

fateh "Also I don't know if this is going to sound offensive but I thought a "ideal" couple would be more like have the husband who goes about with the chodhar, you know he calls the shots" watch the feminist jump on your case nw lol! i think your right to an extent the community wud like to think only men make the decisions but it should be a compromise by the man and woman not just 1 persons say! as for the age gap negligable to be honest, who says hw old you have to be? or hw old your wife has to be? if you want to marry someone 20 yrs older go right ahead! lol u also say the man needs to be older for his children to be scared of him that must be a joke right, so u wudnt be scared of ure dad if your mum was older LOL bhul chuk maf peepz :wub:

fateh i think what veer ji is trying to say is that once you have decided to take amrit, that the decision should also coincide with the decision to wear a dastaar as guru ji has told us! we are not judging anyone but if you do decide to take amrit surely you would have thought about the age old patka vs dastaar question. also id like to stress malkit singhs point about gurdwara needing to step up there game, dastaar tying classes whatnot! bhul chuk maf peepz! :wub: edit(by me): its not unacceptable as veer ji said above, because its everyones choice but on another point as super_singhni said above people have taken it off in the past, it does nothing to dwell on peoples past mistakes we should look forward and encourage people to go towards gurus word, dwelling on scenarios where people have messed up is not a correct reason to tell people to nt do the gurus bidding!