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thats just silly!!!!what will u eat seperately aswell?not go out 2getha etc . they are a married couple. and she deserves to be loved like a married woman shud be. its unfair on her to change everythin. yeah uve taken amrit but its well unfair to turn ur back on her. what does she say???shudnt u have spoken 2 her about the reprecussions b4 u took amrit???

we cud blame the last generation 4 everything. 4 violence on teh streets, there kids dating etc. yeah its so easy to blame the gudwareh!!but cum on when we gonna start taking initiative and learning for ourselves. internet we are all on 24/7 so thats a great source also how hard is it to set up programs??a few posters ur done. and if u think lectures are boring u do one. its wicked when kids get up on stage and talk about sumfin.!!!

did u speak to ur wife b4 u decided to do this??? can i be honest bro...... if i was her id feel more uncomfortable than how u feel. like its changed things. personally i believe u cant be amrithari if ur partner is not but i dnt think i marriage shud be sleep 2getah in seperate beds. i think its a reli difficult decision. but i suggest u talk 2 her openly and honestly. but all i can say is dnt turn ur back on her/change ur relationship 2 her just coz ur amrithari. u married her b4 u took amrit. ps- this is just my opinion i cud be wrong. futeh

i kinda dnt agree with that. 1st they are gonna say do the katha in english but i still dnt think they will come running. yeah it will help but sumtimes i dnt understand a single word of gurbani when i go to the gudwara but it still helps. i sit there listen and it helps so much. its up to the ones that understand the realism of sikh the strengths it brings and help every1 enjoy it too

original poster r u ok???

yeah thats gonna go down reli well isnt it?? 'mum im going out with a muslim can i marry her?' or mum/dad im going out with a sikh guy can i marry him'. lol no chance

i kind agree sum peopel take amrit dnt reli change but yet they think they are untouchable. if u r genuine and wanna change urself i think god will 4give u 4 ur past

its not about us vs them or there view vs ours. the point is this 'singh' is clearly doin sumfin wrong. so is the muslim girl. thats the issue here reli nothing else.

you take everything that happens to you as a gift from god what even reli bad stuff???thast easier said then done yeah god in control but sumtimes u just think why???!!!like why hurt a good person suicide is desperation not cowardice. i think. im sure its reli hard 2 kill urself

the guru's had moghuls telling them not to wear kirpans. karaeh etc. if they cud handle that onslaught im sure u can handle ur mum. just be calm. take a deep breath then talk. just say its u it makes u happy. if she dnt listen just shut up. shhel undertsand 1 day

ive been there things were not good at home i hate cumin home. i wont go too much in2 it now but i just werent happy. i wanted to run away. i dunno what stopped me. althgh my family didnt respect me and i cudnt feel there love i still loved them. i was in a reli bad way, self harming, suicidal....but things change. yeah i feel like an outsider sumtimes and lonely as hell but im trying. and so r they. sumtimes i dnt even talk 2 them but its nice sumtimes to know that they are like sleeping safely and that. look sis im not gonan comdemn u 4 hw u believe. or what u wanna do im sure ur mature enuff 2 make rite choice. but u never know whats round corner. i was out of it so close 2 the end....yeah sumtimes i wana run away too but i reckon my probs will still follow me.

of course if u take amrit for the right reasons u will repent. god 4gives ur cumin 2 his door and starting life again. thats teh way i see it. ive made mistakes pre amrit and taking amrit was a way of moving on, a way to say yeah ive made mistakes but god will 4give me and i will be a better person frm now on.

firstly dont think about girls when u go guru ghar please/. cudnt agree with that more. i cudnt give a damn about ur situation people go gudwra to pray etc not be gorped at like people like u, makes me sick . if u want to get married here sort it out with ur family back in india. frankly it sounds like u just want a visa;

thats a reli immature comment! this so called singh is making excuses for sumfin that s very wrong. u need to sit down and talk with him man. if u look at it the other way what tis muslim girl is doing wrong too and i reckon the whole thing cud get messy. just sit down with him sis say u r concerned or get a older guy to do it

well i dont live in toronto :jamdoot i have 1 4 sale if u wantt if ur from uk well i dont live in toronto :jamdoot i have 1 4 sale if u wantt if ur from uk

hahhhaa ..my question is why did u even bother telling us alll this ???? n by da waii ^^ u seem to know wt u wannna doo, soo go ahead..still i dnt get it why have u posted all this eree :gg: lol valid point hes decided its his conscious thgh playing tricks with him lol using rugby as an excuse thats so lame.

Hmmm firstly, you need to get this girl out of your head; tarandeep kaur..........thats kinda hard to do. i was in a serious relationship b4 i took amrit and its not easy getting over. its taking me over 2 and a half years and still sumtimes i break down. ok original poster u need to give urself time. just take things easy and dnt put pressure on urself. things will work out. i didnt think things wud work out 4 me. but slowly im getting better. but it takes time. i wudnt wish this pain on ne1 and all i can say is just accept it. life doesnt make sense sumtimes........but just have faith in god and everythin will be just alllllllllllllllllllright!

if u wanna cut ur hair at least have the decentcy not to use rugby as an excuse. i used to play rugby for school we enetered tournaments and i used to play 2nd row and later on thw wings. yeah my patka slipped off once but its never restricted me!!!!!!its rugby for crying out loud. to say ull refind sikhi later is taking it 4 granted. it takes people years and years to grow enuff confidence to grow their hair etc. so u cant just say yeah ill cut it now and late ill grow it its not that simple.

how good was slugh rehnsbhai????? hapreet singh killed it. superb peaceful kirtan. but how amzing was the khalsa school?i have never seen anything like that in my life. i wanna take my kids there. reli was astonishing to see it.

what an <banned word filter activated>!!!!!why take amrit then??taking it for advantage tatoos are gay!

without trying to sound gay u look a lot better man!!!!!reli look smart wicked man well dne

absolutely hate it this to be honest!!!worst poster i seen the others are so natural and this one like sumfin from the matrix

hey everyone, i came on here with my probs a few months ago when things started going bad for me. anyway things started looking up 4 me recently. i took on every1s advice.............did exercise, went gudwara more, more phaat and it helped for a while. but why MOD EDIT is life so hard?for the first time in years the other day i was happy. i went out with my mates had such a laugh it was nothing bad just we had pizza and had a laugh. but a few days later sumfin happened that hurts so much. im just sick of everyfin. i keep putting a brave face on but seriously whats the point in trying to do right things if u just get hurt after?! ive tried so hard to be happy and it just aint happening. in the last 2 years ive been happy on just 3 seperate days. ive started eating painkillers just for the hell of it had like 8 the oher day, started harming myself again too. i know i sound like a freak but im not. life is way too hard. is having painkillers like breaking my rehat??? thank u for reading seriously hpe no1 gets upset by reading this. futeh ji

thats disgusting!cousins r like sisters/bro's even more distant fam is blood dnt be so disgusting bloody hell.

look how much seva they done fair enough they shudnt be ina video with that dirty cow (you all know who i mean) but hopefully its a 1 off. sort it out lads