Jap Har Har

I think some mature bhai or bahen should talk to this girl asap, try to understand and asess the whole situation, if possible sit down with her folks, as her friend ofcourse. Shes 19 guys, dont give her pointers on how it can be done. First find out everything and try something else like sitting down with her family in gurudwara sahib or at her home.

Well..that is kinda true, but add to that the emotional attachment, he might think hes falling in love (thats the first girl he ever went out with right), or she might be doing draame etc..crying vagera...we cant just judge like we know the whole story. Or she may even think she loves him.,..very very much, dreaming about their inter-religion true love..lol...until she or her parents find a better match etc. Tell him it can go downhill anytime especially when her parents find out, if shes like the conservative muslim family type, then BIG BADA BOOM. But take it from me..they just wont listen...until something happens.

lol....well, it seems like the short way to safety...dont it I agree with Dhanna Jatt, meri manmukh di soch says it doesnt work that way. A lot of pakhandis have shak amrit, they going to be forgiven?..Umm...I dont know...we cant say...who will be forgiven and who wont, The Lord decides that. Naam simrin and..and doing Paath to understand the teachings of our Guru Granth Sahib Ji. These things will help you in Self realization and Guru's Kirpa. Speaking from my experiences and I think the mature sangat will agree with this: Dont lie. Just dont, it all comes back in a bad way. We can fool ourselves or others into something but not the Lord. Paath, understanding Guru granth sahib ji's teachings, and Naam simrin from the heart. Nothing else. VJKK VJKF

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mod edit: please mind your language No way at all. 3 years weren't enough for him to understand the so called love of his life. 5 years weren't enough for someone I know. And the case I'm referring to; the guy had known the girl from 10th grade to almost the 3 rd year in college. People change, you cannot be sure about anyone, If you think you know your partner inside out. Your lying to yourself. Bani says ...man was made in a way where he cannot be totally trusted. You just cannot completely rely on your so called loved ones. The Lord is the only one you can rely on, rest all are stories. Baki, karma di khed. And on top of it all the Lord's divine will. Vaheguru.

Akal Ustat `Guru Gobind Singh Ji ਕਤਹੂੰ ਭਿਖਾਰੀ ਹੁਇ ਕੈ ਮਾਂਗਤ ਫਿਰਤ ਭੀਖ ਕਹੂੰ ਮਹਾ ਦਾਨ ਹੁਇ ਕੈ ਮਾਂਗਿਓ ਧਨ ਦੇਤ ਹੋ ॥ Somewhere becoming a beggar, Thou beggest alms and somewhere becoming a Supreme Donor, Thou bestowest the begged wealth. ਕਹੂੰ ਬੇਦ ਰੀਤ ਕਹੂੰ ਤਾ ਸਿਉ ਬਿਪ੍ਰੀਤ ਕਹੂੰ ਤ੍ਰਿਗੁਨ ਅਤੀਤ ਕਹੂੰ ਸੁਰਗੁ ਨ ਸਮੇਤ ਹੋ ॥੧॥੧੧॥ Somewhere Thou workest in accordance with Vedic rites and somewhere Thou art quite opposed to it; somewhere Thou art without three modes of maya and somewhere Thou hast all godly attributes.1.11. ਕਹੂੰ ਹੁਇ ਕੈ ਹਿੰਦੂਆ ਗਾਇਤ੍ਰੀ ਕੋ ਗੁਪਤ ਜਪਿਓ ਕਹੂੰ ਹੁਇ ਕੈ ਤੁਰਕਾ ਪੁਕਾਰੇ ਬਾਂਗ ਦੇਤ ਹੋ ॥ Somewhere Thou becomest a Hindu and repeatest Gayatri secretly: Somewhere becoming a Turk Thou callest Muslims to worship. ਕਹੂੰ ਕੋਕ ਕਾਬ ਹੁਇ ਕੈ ਪੁਰਾਨ ਕੋ ਪੜਤ ਮਤ ਕਤਰੂੰ ਕੁਰਾਨ ਕੋ ਨਿਦਾਨ ਜਾਨ ਲੇਤ ਹੋ ॥ Somewhere being a poet thou recitest the Pauranic wisdom and somewhere Thou comprehendest the essence of Quran. He does as he wishes. You can pray to him and ask for materialistic things and he will will bestow. However, if love is not felt for the almighty, the one who keeps on giving more and more, every sukh will turn to dukh. You should recite bani, if you wish to understand the power of Naam.

Edited - No personal attacks allowed. No attacking Khalistanis without any evidence.

^^Some true great words Bhai Harinder Singh Our souls are all soulbride's and MAHARAJ, Vaheguru, the Lord Har Har is our bridegroom. Only that is the TRUTH.

satori, besoft, khalsa, bhen jis and bhai ji's - Just a point that I have learned from life and bani, you just cannot be sure what ANYTHING is (hell/heaven) We dont know anything, we just comprehend and try to guess so that EVERYTHING makes sense to us. And then we try to stand by that point which we THINK is right until someone contradicts it..and someone always does. Whether hell is physical or of a spirutual torture state, bottom line it is a place where you DO NOT want to be. Simple as that. As per the jamdoots, lol..everything is the lord, the lord is everything, those who deserve to be scared by jamdoots, the lord scares them as he wishes, those whom the divine lord wishes to sing his glorious plraises and thank him for everything, this life etc, they sing, we all dance as he wishes us too. In Aarti we recite Ese Chand partaap tey devan vadeo partaap Teen lok Je Je kare Rare naam sat jaap In Jap ji sahib, it is said there are countless planets, countless galaxies with his beings, we just dont know about them because we dont need to know. His creations are spread throughout the universe and he takes care of them all as he wishes, as they deserve, Great is his way of justice. How and why..we dont know. We have been given the instructions on how to obtain him and what will happen if we dont, and also if we follow the five demons in our body, kaam krodh, moh etc. The deep details our human minds cannot understand and we dont need to know, we can keep arguing like fools, but everything we need to do has been clearly defined and proved again and again.

HAHA :wub: Dhaddi's r a joke..most of them...hillarious. +1

It means religion DOES NOT MATTER AND ISNOT GOING TO GET YOU DARSHAN OF THE LORDS COURT, good deeds and love for all, the fear and love for the almighty is whats going to help along with Naam simrin. Be it Vaheguru or Allah for the muslim's.

.. ..test it is brother, sometimes breaks u everyday...Hang tight in there, you cant see Maharaj, but he's right there. I d seen the world...half of it atleast, I had seen guys cheat on girls, and girls cheat on guys, and I never ever...through the whole experience of my life could ever imagine she would cheat on me..lie to me...I made mistakes too..I flirted and cheated once...but backed off within 2 weeks coz I felt so guilty...but I never thought she could do it...but she went a step further ...tortured me with accusations..things I didnt even do..ultimately I got hurt too deep just coz I didnt wanna let go..kept trying to save it...my mistake. In my case, she used to do chaupai sahib (and i didnt even know what it meant) on the phone at night and I would listen, I didnt do path at all in those days. When we would fight, she would bring in the photo of harminder sahib hanging in her room to manaa mee, these things just make it very hardd...but all you can do is try to get closer to god...try to love him so much....try to get him to love u so much that you just dont have to come and go in this world anymore. The work of karam's cannot be understood by us manmukhs, all we can do is, beg...beg and beg for his mercy..so that he may do kirpa and save the honour of our souls. Just dont attatch yourself to anyone else emotionally except the true lord. Recite banis bro.. Jap ji sahib translations-along with the path ofcourse I listen to this, its not too fast and you can read translations from searchgurbani.com or allaboutsikhs.com along with listening to the path. http://sikhsangeet.com/albumid707-Ravinder...raas-Sahib.html Theres also a software at www.allaboutsikhs.com (Search gurbani desktop version, it has translations of all the Guru's Banis, and Dasam Granth. Charitropakhiyan-Now you can research on that, theres even a translation of it online in pdf format, the onl;y translation in fact, but it has a lot errors. And I wouldnt exactly recommend it to you at this stage. It is a part of Dasam Granth said to contain the viles of women, the character, the good, the bad, the worse, well mostly bad and worse, getting a lil deep into this discussion. Umm..I was trying to get a hold of SS.S kohli's translation of it, since he is one of the best or if not the best scholars of sikhism, however he is against charitropakhiyan and believes it will just send the wrong mssg to our community which is why he excluded it from his work of translating Dasam Granth ji. He did translate it, but I believe he as asked shrimni akali dal not to publish it, and its lying with them, and they didnt publish it. I too think that Guru Gobind singh ji didnt compose charitropakhiyan, rather some poets of his court did (Shyam etc), but there must be a reason they were included in Dasam granth in the first place. Who knows, nevamind, went offtopic, pm me if you need the error filled translations. Rest, just Love vaheguru, Recite bani, atleast one everyday, at the least. ANd read translations along. Baki...uthde bethde simrin Vaheguru, Har Har da; and you'll be fine in no time;)

Happy birthday, best wishes.

I am sorry this happened. However, you are not the first to go through this. Many others have walked the same path. Please go through this thread as it relates to your issue as the sangat would give you the same advice as well. Recite the banis, try to understand what message they portray, and fall in love with maharaj's feet, he s just testing you. Attatch yourself to no other, except him. (Kis naal kee jay dosti, sab jagg chalan haar). Enshrine true love for the true lord only, rest everything is false. Please go through this thread: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=38964&st=0

^^See, there are some awakened souls in here who know what 'Har Har' means:) And I was starting to think ' how most of the people here dont even know what HAR HAR means when they recite guru bani's everyday?' Vaheguru, Har Har:)

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It would work the same way Israel Georgia Kosovo were formed they had nothing but they are still here working away at survival. The reason farmers committee suicide is because they have been manipulated by centre government and are tied in to contracts and been placed under huge debts. This can all change once everyone supports the issue. Everything is there that the country would need. The only problem is the Sikhs are not ready for an independent home land yet. Independence struggle's take hundreds of years some times. The foundation has been laid we should work towards that goal and contribute what we can. The fight is not all about arms and war. Educate the future generations to come about our history in time all will fall into place. As it has done in the past. When we were down to less than ten thousand Sikhs and gurdwara's had been blown up( first and second Sikh holocaust) things must have looked bad but true Sikhs fought on and look what we achieved and what we have made to date I believe these are achievements to be proud of and yes there are people who will look to the negative rather that achievements these are the people I believe who are worse than open enemies of the panth. lol...a big sigh!! Moorkh naal na lujiye. Your thinking doesn't matter. One alone is always wrong unless a whole collective agrees, even then a collective can be wrong, however whatsoever happens, is because the Divine Lord wants it to be. Everything is as the Lord wants, so just some advice to you, dont think too much about your own state...instead Jap naam. lol..these meaningless arguments are just a waste of time, which is what you will realise, when HE himself does kirpa. Are you under 19, 17, 15 etc (just asking)? Get a degree first, try to go around the world, atleast a few other countries except india england or n.america. You'll learn a lot of things. Try thinking OUT of your "OUR OWN STATE" mindset and you will find that its really not needed. It is already ours. And Mitr pyaareo, we know whats the state of Israel and Palestine, now dont we...actually you dont, go spend a week over there or better in baghdad and you will get SOME idea of what you spoke off in the above post. baaki, naam japle, jada tension na le, BP high hojuga:) Vaheguru

sunny... :6 you can do it from real player itself. Take a look at the attachment below: Theres an option called "convert media format", Ive got Real player 11, i think u can do it with previous versions too, but you may have to unlock it. I dont know about the site rules, so I wont provide any links on how to do that. PM me if you need to know and I'll see what I can do. Vaheguru.

Punjab in no way, would have been able to survive if Khalistan had been founded. Get out of your fraking closed walls of imagination and bloody THINKK ABOUT THE RESOURCES REQUIRED BY A STATE. Do you even know how much loan Punjab has acquired from the center government to survive and do u even fraking KNOW THAT EVEN TO THIS DATE punjabi farmers mostly jatts are commiting suicide because they have NOTHING to payback their own loans. Do you know how many power cuts there are ..even in the big cities in Punjab? Stop acting like stupid illetrate kids.

You are just about to ruin your life, if you decide to run away. There are some things, that once done; cannot be mended back. So, take advice from the proper ppl (mature sangat, not ur kid girl friends). Stay home or you might keep wandering for the rest of your life. Try praying, understand the Guru's message. It will help you. Vaheguru.

well...u just made a point and gave your advice on a pointless thread...now why would u do that :gg: I dont think its pointless, because then this whole site wouldbe pointless. Poeple arent gonna change by discussing on an open forum now. Hmm.. I beg to differ. People learn...People change.. by HIS command, it may happen through anything. They maybe very few in number, but it does happen.

this thread is funny. lolz

lol...batteries...I feel like im back at dell tech support. Well, its considered a so called consumable product. Google it for details. Bottom line. It has a warranty of one year. Usually is only good for 1.5 yrs or so..may go longer, but rarely. BEST thing to do- If you bought the laptop around a year ago, especially dell(HP might work), call tech support or contact them via chat from their support site. Say that the battery only lasts an hour or half an hour. They will make u do a couple of steps, prolly check quickset or check a couple of lights. If its under a year, they should replace it. 6 cell batteries are recommended for future buyers. Edit: For the new systems that are not giving out enough battery time, you might wanna change the power settings from control panel, from maximum power use, power mode down to power save mode- uses less brightness on your lcd but should give out more time.

dont worry engladias and knedda vasis.. ..our girls are not yet on par with whatgoes on over there.. butthey sure are trying. LOL..Come to chandigarh, in some cases its worse than the western countries. A nice sikh family. Dad has a respected job and the girl fools around with 3- 4 different guys, goes back home and pretends to be the usual parent-abiding daughter. Cliche.