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Veerji, Thanks for the advice ems that ur not burdened by baggages... Rgards

A glass of warm water in the morning after you wake up in the morning,secondly thre an indian ayurvdic medicin by Kayum churna aailable with the chemist.

I think that there is some lacking in the parenting in the generation after partition.We were so engrosed i materailistic achievements that we forgot to give the right spirit of sikh virsa to present youth.I forsee and m really frightened to see the anticipated future the amnt of false dowry cases,shying away from the basic esponsibilities of grasth,respect to elders and seva to community...it pains that these are getting eroded..if these wud have en maintained our future would have en in control..but TV,media,fashion and mall culture ..left no time for these values to get imbibed and those who have are struggling to surivive and gasping for breath..

Dear Veerji, I need to discuss something which is not related to this thread.As i can recall we communcated through orkut and at that point u were abt to join airforce.I dont have ur scrap on orkut so i request u to give email. Regards i dont know what "lynx" is but im gonna go out on a limb here and assume that its something like gel to help you tie up and press ur dhari to ur face like its plaster...if not im sorry...BUT on that note, pleasssseee spare humanity of the sight...tying up ur beard is sooo awful, it looks really really bad and i mean really, plz just stop for the sake of humanity for real it looks so bad...might be my own opinion and those who i know around me...but if u havent started doing that, stay that way ! dont start on this it looks sooo funny, it makes ur face look liek that cat on "alice in wonderland" u guys know what im talking about ? lol no offense, but i mean i understand if u work and u have to for ur safety etc etc, but wen ur at home and have nothing else restricting u, please restrict of this act as well lol "lynx" is deodrant, not gel. You could of just typed it in google to find out what it is. But actually that might come up with a picture of a big cat. lol, naujawanidotcom was right then. come on guys, good personal hygiene is not antipanthic. so you have no excuses for being smelly. *i'm looking at you hardkaurwarrior* lol.

Dear Sangat Ji, I am an Indian Sikh and an MBA in Marketing with 5 yrs of work ex.I am in touch with consultant who deals in immigration to denmark.He is charging me Rs 20000/- inclusive of his fees.The whole process will be through embassy as communicated by consultant.My Query is: 1. Is denmark looking for skilled immigrants as there is lot of advertisement in this regard? 2. Is there sikh population in Denmark ? And how are sikhs treated? 3. Is there possibility of me getting job on my present qualification? Any other suggestion from Sangat Ji. Regards

Hi, I cannot help you..but just wanna say CONGRATS on the new beginning. Regards

Dear Sangat Ji, To add to the latest update i went and visited my wife who is living with her parents .I did all i could even said sorry to test whether i can shed my haume but all these efforts doesn't seem to soften my wife . am surprised that after 4 yrs how can suddenly a female be so emotionless.Am i living in a society where father/husband is only seen as a mode to suffice the needs of the family and the females only consider a father /son a needed relationship in their lives how can my wife keep herself restrained from talking to me,if i call up then she responds well otherwise she is cold and i feel that i am unwanted in her life.Is doing job and earning well by my wife be the reason to destroy my family and devoid me of my daughter. Pls pray to God its been the test for almost six months.How much low is sufficient to bring back my family.Will i have to live with my wife without self esteem.What can be the psyche of such families who treat their daughter as equal to sons and even not bother whther she is deleivering the resposibility as wife or not.When did the society which wanted the girls to study so that they might not be helpless after their husband and father changed to a society where a ladies profession has become more important than running the family.I s it the start of an end of family in India. Should i do to bring back my family despite cold responses /disinterest.What actions related to this will make my Guru feel happy in this phase.Frankly i am not able to do path /simran. Rgds

Dear Sangat Ji, I want to know the prospects of migrating to denmark.I am a sales professional in FMCG working in ERP for past 1 year in India.I also want to know the living hazards and status of indians/sikhs in Denmark... Thanks

I thank from bottom of my heart to all Sangat ji...that they have tried to hold me and infuse strength ....I will try my best ...to feel presence of GURU.. Waheguru ji ka khalsa.. Waheguru ji ki fateh

Fateh, Pls help me..My wife has left me and playing in hands for her parents and her ego .She has taken transfer to different city and on and off gave me a feeling of cheating and mistrust( took away all the jewellery and kept with her). She doesnt share with me anything,and smallest of the happenings at home flows to her parents in a sec.She is in a Managerial position in a bank and as per talks with her parents it seems that the professional success only matters to them and their daughter.They are palying mind tactics by forcing me to come home at the pretext of seeing my daughter.As my dad is heart patient i cannot ask my wife to live with them as she is very short tempered.Moreover i cannot get transfer to thet city as it will pose a greater risk as they have pressurised and took in writing that i will not manhandle my wife( instead several times she had been very aggressive.Its almost two months,initially she used to call me now she seldom calls me.I cannot even think my life without her as she was the first girl i loved,similarly i am depressed by the thot of seeing her with other man that if it goes wrong to divorce.Her mother is all behind this game as she wants that she shud dominate at home.I regularly feel down in spirits and tired.Help in breaking me free from their mind tactics and get my family back.I never imagined that in marriage which is of souls such dirty games are played. I think if this continues i will be in deep state of unrest mind and health which nobody seems to be concerned off apart frm my parents. In short right now i am deeply shattered with the treatment from soulmate. Is materialism and freedom to women destroying marriage ,families and mutual respect .If yes then why people who beleive in this are effected the most..just because they are more emotional than the previous lot. I want my family back but i also want not to be treated this as my weekness for mind games and used as doormat. I am sorry if the above doesnt link up very well during converstion.It might be diffficult in understanding..but i am waiting for blessings of sangat in the form of advise...LUV

Dear Sangat, I am passing through a very difficult phase of life, for that i need ur support. I am married for the past three years with a one year daughter. Me and my wife both are working .Though the choice is of her's to work. My in laws have interfered in my marriage because of which there is no trust between both of us .She has left me for her job in other city where she is living with my daughter in her parents house.She doesn't feels to be attached or seems that my in laws have poisoned her mind more against me and my parents. I am feeling disturbed as i think that marriage is based on trust.I am having sleepless nights. I dont want this relationship to break.How can i make her understand .Or just tell me how can i make myself strong as it seems that its a one sided effort from my side. My parents are also passing thru difficult phase as they have threatened me agsinst false dowry cases.Also her mother told that she will not allow marriage of my younger brothers.hey say that all this was spoken becuse of situation.But i think there was nothing as such its al there ego and unnecessary discounts jus because their daughter is working She has not visited my parents neither allowed my daughter to visit them.After so much insult they are expecting me and my parents to talk to them. Pls guide ...

Dear Sister, I am proud that i have met a person with views like you in my life time.Till Lioness like u are there Guru's army will be there. kEEP THE FLAG HIGH. Regards me too! <3 they totally inspire me! (thanks for the sweet words. )