Mukhraj_Singh

Wow looks like it should b great :TH: i'll b there.... n some of the posts on this topic are jus tooo JKSSS... ..... ........... ................

Wow!!! i can't believe some of the posts in here....i can't believe what ppl are saying....first of all....who are WE (ANY OF US) to judge any other person in this world....who are the ppl in this commity to say who can get married in a gurughar or not...i thought every1 was supposed to b treated equally in sikhi?...what happened to that?....i totally agree with wha sony, Daasn Daas n Princess are saying....this is NOT goit to bring ppl toward sikhi...its gonna drive ppl away....i mean think about it...wha brings ppl to sikhi...the luv for the gurus the fact that we don't pressure ppl into it...we give them their own time...because not EVERY1 knows in their early years about the luv for guru ji...i mean jus because we haven't found that luv yet...does that make us any less SIKH then any of the ppl who have found that luv?....i'm mind mind NO it doesn't...and as for myself....i have not taken amrit yet...because i believe i am not yet ready...but when i do become ready i will....we shouldn't pressure ppl into sikhi...because if u want to take amrit u have to know that u will follow everything n u will NOT break it....because in my mind....its better that i wait now...then rush into it n break my amrit....that in my mind is wayyyyyyy worse....so to the ppl sayin this is a good idea....you really need to think about it.....and 1 last thing...i AGREE with what Daasn Daas veerji said....we have alot of bigger issues to worry about...and he really did mention some great ones... thas jus my view... Bhul Chuk Maph!

I'll B THERE... :umm: The poster looks really nice...to who ever designed it...its AWSOME :TH: .. and good work on gettin the ride from Dixie Gurughar...helps alot for us Toronto ppl:D...

When people go on picnics or camping do they not sit on the floor on blankets ? The sangat will give respect to the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji as they would in the Gurudwara if the wedding were outdoors and they WILL sit on the floor and not on chairs etc. I AGREE... :TH:

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!! This is something that is a very big issue in many lives...and i agree that it is a delicate issue... Advice....i guess the only thing i can say is that you both should stay true to eachother and your parents.....i know i know...that seems impossible....don't worry veer ji no parent bashing here...they jus want wats best for both of u....although it doesn't seem like it rite now....i think that as you get older and closer to marriage they tend to relax a little bit more...welll thas wat i've seen....but i can't say that that ALWAYS happens.....but in the end i believe that since parents always want whats best for children they will give in....and i agree with what the veer ji said before me....that you should try to show them that finding someone else who is so caring, loving etc is going to be really hard....and ofcourse ask guru ji for his blessing.... .....i hope this helps a little bit...if not... sorrry :wub: Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!