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1 minute ago, InderjitS said:

Ehdhe vargee koi chust te bibi labhni pehni, tusi hun vacholan dha kam karo.

Na veh na, eh kam nai karde asi. Ehnu koi hoor pari apay lablugi ?

1 minute ago, MrDoaba said:

I am Brahmachari Baba. Ik number da Saadhu.

More like ik number da gappi ?. Tyagya kuch hega nai, ithe bheta Internet te, sadhu kida bangeya? Lol. 

4 minutes ago, sikhni777 said:

What did you draw bhenji?

Me? Did you quote Doaba paji or me? If me, it was confused emoticon. 

22 minutes ago, sikhni777 said:

I am a bit confused on Which one of them will use contraception against pregnancy on their honeymoon. 

Hain ? Confused.com ?‍♀️?

1 minute ago, MrDoaba said:

108 Pandit Sri Doaba Sundaranand Ji Maharaj.

Sundaranand or Sunderland man ki jai ? 

3 hours ago, InderjitS said:

I find them hilarious, lack of co-ordination is an understatement, but every wedding, whether parivaar is rich or poor seem to employ their services.

The best bit is doing the round-round under the umbrella. ☂ ? 

This is the best band baja. 

3 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

Jeez. What besti. One thing I can't understand is how on earth are they managing to play bagpipes while jumping and running around?!

Scottish ft. Punjabi ft. Morris dancers ft Desi fusion Mex. 

3 hours ago, InderjitS said:

Eh taan key paisio paisa thagdha huna, key roop hai, kitey Giani, Pandit, Padri, Imam. Eh taan Maharajah Ranjit Singh vaang Ek Akh naal dekhdha. te choli bhardha. 

The all-in-one handyman ?

3 hours ago, InderjitS said:

Fauji band Jee, can't beat the well rehearsed group, and of course no resemblance in movement to the Duracell Bunny.

 

? oh no, not the band baja ?. It’s a mish mash of Morris dancing and skipping in a playground. Not very synchronised ?‍♀️. 

18 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Hahaha!! Yes!! Although it's not his line! It's the infamous Ghookar who says it!

From: ਜੱਟ ਸੁੱਚਾ ਸਿੰਘ ਸੂਰਮਾ

Oh acha, a few singers sang songs of him.  Yograj Singh was in the movie though wasn’t he? 

6 hours ago, luckysingh99 said:

I know it's confusing, but I did do a detailed post somewhere with many references to gurbani so that it was a little clear to differentiate.

2 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

ਭੈਣੇ

Oh ok, phene, as it penji ??  

3 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Good old mummy ji said it was extremely common in olden goldies.

Yep it was in the court in front of the judge, oldie goldie movies.  

6 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

ਆਕੜ ਤੇ ਨਖਰੇ ਤੋਂ ਮੈਨੂੰ ਬਹੁਤ ਸਵਾਦ ਆਉਂਦਾ ਹੈ!
ਰੱਬ ਦੀ ਸਹੁੰ...ਬਹੁਤ ਸਵਾਦ ਆਉਂਦਾ ਹੈ!
ਜੋ ਸ਼ੈ ਘੂਕਰ ਨੂੰ ਪਿਆਰ ਨਾਲ ਨਾ ਮਿਲੇ, ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਹਥਿਆਰ ਨਾਲ ਜਿੱਤ ਲੈਂਦੈ!

Sounds like a Yograj Singh dialogue ? ?

3 hours ago, S4NGH said:

ਗੀਤਾ ਪਰ ਹਾਥ ਰਾਖ ਕਰ ਸਹੁਗੰਦ ਖਾਓ... ਜੋ ਵੀ ਕਾਹੂਗੀ ਸੱਚ ਕਹੂਗੀ । ਸੱਚ ਕੇ ਸਿਵਾ ਕੁਛ ਨਾਹੀ ਕਾਹੂਗੀ   ਮੀ ਲੋਰਡ... 

My hindi is a little iffy... Also this is like a staple bollywood dialogue. If you don't know it, are you even indian bro?!? @MrDoaba

And it’s “me Lord” at the end ? That kind of sounds weird, as Hindi is spoken at the beginning. ?

Bump

2 hours ago, sikhni777 said:

So you want those too bhenji... I see.

What? No, I was reading about it. 

Is it this one ? @luckysingh99

9 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

Ji pheneh teek ah. Satbachan Ji.

 

Pheneh ki hunda? 

Its ok don’t worry about adding the serious# note, as I’ll try to figure out the posts myself. Thank you. 

8 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

When people suffer a lot on the inside, they can't always help but to let it out at others. 

I can tell you are strong in your Sikhi. That is a gift that will save you.

Balance in all things. You may have to charge yourself up to be able to spend time. When you're feeling her energy chant the naam and let vaheguru take all the negativity. Then rest afterwards. You may be very empathetic and this type of channeling isn't always easy. 

Sometimes people have a lot of suffering from their past they don't share. Her time in punjab could have trauma associated with it. That doesn't mean she won't open up about things just that maybe she  isn't the most comfortable doing it.

Maybe with a few key phrases from gurbani you can gently remind her to be more positive and more respectful of your father. 

You might be able to ask about one word or phrase at a time. Hey bibi how do you say whatever in punjabi? Maybe be ready to say awe but bibi it would mean a lot to me if you'd teach me that, if she says to ask another or look it up.

Maybe start certain things start with a compliment then question, I bet you were so pretty as a girl bibi, what was this or that like when you were little?

If you have to correct her, do it in private. Start with a compliment, then add positive criticism and end with a compliment. Bibi I love you so much, when you say negative things about my dad it really hurts my feelings, because I respect what you say so much. If you whisper it, it will make it like your little secret and also if you whisper people listen more. Can't whisper too low if her hearing is going but do it whisper like. 

Our elders lived through some horrible times, and it is easy for them to worry too much. Love gets confused that way. Her sabji is a way of saying she loves you. People can be turned off by religion if it is forced on them, or lead to genocide. Brutality of life may have turned her off of religion, but the truth of gurbani can be so simple you can slip it into her tea as it were with a phrase here a phrase there and with love. 

Make the most of your time with her. It goes faster and faster and soon many are dead.

All that being said we only control ourselves and have to take care of ourselves first. To share sustainably we must have abundance to share from. Love vaheguru, love the heck out of yourself as a verb...like how we chant the naam, not once but over and over, love is an action more than a noun. And love the heck out of your bibi when you can. The old school was rough. 

Edit: Remember too sikhi is not the man that mediates on the mountain and loses his cool when he walks back down and the kids throw rocks at him. Sikhi is simran in combat and sikhi is simran while undertaking family participation. So shut off your kirtan sometimes, and chant the naam while you help bibi clean. Not everything is wow metaphysical in life, bibi sustained several generations with her cooking and cleaning and that is it's own type of metaphysical champion. 

I agree with pretty much most of what paji has written. You have to understand that some grandparents did not have much education and have seen hard times in working or bringing up the family. They are set in that way of thinking for so many years that it’s hard to get them out of it. 

The main thing you need to know is that she does have love for you. Try to think of yourself in her shoes through her life, then that may help you to deal with it. The thing is they don’t know how to deal with it or how to adjust to the younger generation, so being patient is sometimes needed. 

My grandma used to be strict at times, as she was set in her ways, but that’s due to the harsh life she had to face. She was also very loving and sided with me on many occasions, I miss her and her hugs. 

2 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Gurmukhi de vich likh de aa karo!

Jad main choti jehi c, udho dekhi c felm. Par hun tha takreevan saria felma ch ohi dialogue hunda. 

Hun teek a? 

Just now, MrDoaba said:

Gurmukhi de vich likh de aa karo!

My writing isn’t as good as my reading. Sorry ji no comment. 

@MrDoaba are you liking your own posts? I just seen the popular contributors list. How the hell did you get 114 likes? ?. Baakian kol ek-dho likes a, ?. 

8 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Tuhadi umar jaade huni ah. Lol

I was a little kid when I saw it ?. Mind you I think it’s in every Bollywood movie. 

6 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

My phonetic Punjabi skills have failed here lol. What does this say?

And nothing but the truth. (Par jad mera jee karega) ?. Felm ch dekhea c dialogue baut saal pela. 

2 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Read about sensory deprivation tank/chamber. Real scary stuff can happen.

It can be scary, it's just like a trip hanna.

Yes I know it’s deep stuff.  But not about the trip trup. 

2 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

ਝੂਟੇ ਇਲਜਾਮ or what?!!

Jo kuch kehungi sach kehungi, Sach ke siva kuch nahi kehungi. 

3 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

Yeah you know it's fun posting on threads like this though haha.

These are our hidden qualities lol.