Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Ji,
This is something too strange, i dont know about this situation in western world, but in India, this problem is not too wide spread, first things first, i havent seen an Amritdhari girl looking for a non-Amritdhari boy and that is the FACT, and i am sure it is true in western countries too. you guys know better as you live there.
and i havent seen Amritdhari boys and girls getting trouble in getting married in India, again dont know about western countries, it shouldnt be a problem, really, because answer is straight enough, an Amritdhari would only find an Amritdhari partner.
If we look at the 52 hukams by Dhan Dhan Guru Gobind Singhji, it states in straight and simple words.
"38) Sir munae noo kanaiaa nahi daeni. Uos ghar daevni jithae Akal Purukh di sikhi ha, jo karzaai naa hovae, bhalae subhaa da hovae, bibaeki atae gyanvaan hovae - Do not given a daughter's hand to a clean shaven. Give her hand in a house where God's Sikhi exists, where the household is not in debt, is of a good nature, is disciplined and knowledgeable."
Bhul Chuk Maaf
Gurfateh Ji
Daas