I'm really sorry but I have to say that I am not happy with what you have said here. Why is it that you feel it necessary to blame us girls, why is it the girls that we have a problem with?????? you must live in a really secluded environmet if all you see is our girls marrying outside because what about the boys. Off the top of my head i could name a guy married to non-Sikh white girl, non-Sikh black girl and a Muslim and I could name loads that are in boyfriend-girlfriend relationships outside of Sikhi. But I could also name a few girls like that too but it's not just the girls.
I'm in my last year of uni, just finishing and from what I've seen the boys are losing touch. . . In high school the Sikh boys and girls all looked out for each other and stuck together, why is it that as we've all got older that has changed.
I've been part of the uni Sikh Soc for 4 years, do you want to explain why it's got more female participants than male? I mean even if we wanted to find our own boys how are we supposed to do it when they don't make the efforts to interact with us. They'd rather sit in the SU and drink all day playing snooker and eyeing up the girls and the AmritDhari's keep themselves to themselves, very few come out and really talk to you.
Soory people, I know I've gone off the topic and I apologise, just rattled my cage a little.
Bhul Chuk Maaf
Guru Fateh Ji