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why wouldn't they be they were listening to Guru Pita ji ...he said in bani that multiple generations would be infertile if we smoked ...the scientists are now finding out that grandparents are destroying the fertility of grandchildren and onwards... drinking as well ... he told used to eat sarblohi bibek langar to avoid illness and only now the world is catching up on the complex relationships in our bodies and our immune systems with relation to iron, and cooking in iron vessels is the only way you make it be able to absorbed as opposed to tabs.

I think we beat the Times to the conclusion http://www.thetimes.co.uk/tto/news/uk/crime/article4550198.ece?CMP=Spklr-_-Editorial-_-TWITTER-_-thetimes-_-20150908-_-News-_-232769303&linkId=16883415

I have seen it and heard them talking about them ....they admire the morals and gentlemanly conduct of our GUrsikhs not to mentions the good looks of Guru ji's laadle. Remember Hari Singh's Mother ...

my mum pointed out something to me when I was a young girl , don't speak just observe the truth will out of those people you have doubts on, they can't help themselves if they are busy cussing other people they will do the same to you behind your back. Thanks Mum helped so much in married life...

that's why the muslimahs make eyes at gursikhs ....

you came across a little sarky ...sorry

There was a cult in America once which believed that they were going to achieve rapture - go up to Akal Purakh but FBI was closing in on corrupt leader he decided to sort out his problems by murdering all his followers including children by convincing them that the rapture was coming and told them to drink the 'kool-aid' which was laced with cyanide. i.e. it means brainwashing people so much that they will endanger/kill themselves despite knowing the truth of the situation

They were still fighting in the 1700s ...

Bhainji I really know that there is a concerted effort for hindus to hide their shame , and most of the girls who get caught up in the love jihad are from a punjabi background I suspect because parenting is just a case of feeding the body and clothing the kids but not to have a deeper understanding between kids and Parents , the girls know that they are not valued from a young age. Don't think that it is not happening to others just because you don't hear it , the hindu folks probably don't know or care, they are historically well known for abandoning their responsibilities to their daughters....Bollywood is social programming like Hollywood , it is interesting how all the heroines who are sikh but fall for outsiders and end up fighting their folks to marry same ... the two other faiths are ripping us up in between them , the hindus are also going after our girls and hindufying them just as much as the muslims but no-one I know is paying attention...this is Shudhi karan 2.0

The kanga and kara was worn by sikhs of Guru Teg Bahadur ji and by Guru ji himself , I had the blessing of seeing the kara of Guru Teg Bahadur ji in Gur-ka-bagh Patna a while back and Bhai Ranjit Singh Dhadrianwale refers to Guru ji doing ishara of value of Gursikh when he gives kurbani by aara, by running his finger of the kanga's teeth he was using to do his kesh . This was to Bhai Mati Das ji

I think naam and birrass would be many times more effective for dealing with anxiety

they'd have to grow one first .... only shadows and fluff ...but being good lads they don't want to offend any girls ...

you forget the slick on the dhaarda a bit Prem Chopda... jeez 80s punjabi villains were something weren't they... I think they modelled the corrupt policia in Patte patta Singhan da Vairi on them

honestly do you not get conversation happens between people and rumours spread :blink2:

there are talibs in Pakistan as well , those pathans love a good story

not really must have come over with the Talibanis from Afghanistan , all those scary stories about Hari Singh Nalwa must have fired up their imaginations

when a mother gives birth or holds her child she gets a massive oxytocin rush and the kid too , this effect diminishes a little but it still remains , just think about getting hugged by your mum now , you will get that warm loving feeling that's the oxytocin . What you are suggesting is possible but unlikely in the situation where the kid boy/girl feels that deep love from the parents they would be torn to lose that, you will find that the girl's are more reluctant but are persuaded by the badgering of the guy. Dating is NOT Sikh I agree but as I am currently discussing with my lads 'how do you get to know a girl without dating?' . I have suggested observation in natural situations like in amongst her friends: the interaction, the type of friends , the amount of Sikhi , The observed/heard views of her and her friends . you got any more ?

I suggest you watch tapes of the programme 'Dispatches: escape from ISIS' in those homes ...they will hear first hand accounts of how women are treated by true Islam . Don't panic them just say they will do what they did in India 1. try to flatter you to turn you their way 2. buy your attention with gifts next 3. trap you by getting dirt on you 4. keep blackmailing you to keep under their control. and if that all fails then destroy you and your family's happiness and life. REMEMBER THEY CAN ONLY BLACKMAIL YOU IF THEY FEEL YOU ARE SCARED OF THE CONSEQUENCES OF DISCOVERY .

kids are kids not parents ...don't worry I've had moments where I've been told by an irate littlie 'I don't like/love you' to which the answer is 'that's OK I'm your Mum ' ...a little while later I get a sheepish apology ...kids need guidelines and boundaries to function. My Mum's ones were policed by 'the look' I prefer explaining with love and discussing the truth and logic, sure I've had to let them learn the hard way a few times and they have now realised I rarely tell anything but when I do it is good advice . And they love ALL their veggies ...just needed to take the time ...

humans cannot develop properly without love , e.g. would be those orphans left in those horrible conditions in Romania ...because no one would spend time, talk, have human contact with them they grew up mentally and emotionally stunted ...what I see is we have good intentions as parents but the job and the day to day routines become a barrier to that necessary bonding and development , if a child feels unwanted it will internalise that and feel inferior as a human and that is what is the foundation for their exploitation. Sikhi is about love so our Kids should be superhealthy ...we have just got to repriortise , our future generations deserve the treasure of Gursikhi and the internal strength to know they are right to be children of the Perfect Guru

But the point is all those hormones you mentioned are released in platonic love between child and family too , when we read bani , jap naam , if Girls and boys were hugged and praised for being worthwhile humans whilst you are training them in Sikhi it would be more than enough for them to realise that there is so much unconditional love from Guru ji and Sikh family that they wouldn't feel inner lack . I think the biological arguments are fine but we have intellect and internal morals to counteract that, there are many girls I'm sure in the past who may have felt something for someone but then dropped it without actioning anything because there was no point and they've gone on to marry a suitable person and had a happy loving life. So it's motivation to stop that needs addressing in our kids .

wasn't intending to exclude the sikh guys from the mix , but I am sure that the guys see it more of I should have the right to choose whoever I want, often they will use the dumb excuse that ' you cannot pick who you fall in love with' ...and then after a couple of years that love has dissipated totally and regrets set in.

That is not the initial image they portray , they come with the patter, flash the cash , have a nice ride (which is probaly paid for by saudis) , they talk about being 'business' men (the business is not what they claim ) even show the girls 'businesses' they 'own' so the impression is he is loaded and unfortunately current values in life means that is the only thing that counts , I mean think about our compatriots they would rather marry their kids into wealth than faith. Girls heads are filled with Bollywood love stories where the partner is not the same faith and then they have a big blowout with their families and then abandon them for the guy. any wonder that this is modelled in real life

it happens but they hide it ..the pakis abuse their own figures have it at about 30-50% of muslim girls have been abused prior to marriage , afterwards God only knows . The christian girls try to get help but get labelled slags by the police possibly even getting abused by them too, Hindus hide the disgrace ...Then there are those who fall hook line and sinker that Islam is better for them than the other 'corrupt' dharams they came from ...Self-knowledge and greater self-respect are the cure and more attention and love from family from a young age means they wont look outside for attention so much. We also need to make our daughters see that they are a vital part of the sikh family and valued just as much or more than boys rather than treated like afterthoughts as the PUNJABI way is ...

1. you will sacrifice the best gursikhs to get rid a handful of paedo/perverts who will be replaced within days ..different tack is to cut off supply of easily misled girls by raising up moral values and knowledge. 2. sangat are sleepwalking they sound like recreational drug takers 'my daughter is a good girl it wont happen to me '' yeah that was a bad tab wont happen to me, i wont die' they need proper education about what the real world is like and how their kids are pulling the wool over their eyes , in how to develop close but not controlling relationships. 3. given that the govt has shaken hands with Modi to defame and destroy sikhi by labelling us in press and to hand lists of names over of strong gursikhs don't play it naive but smart.