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Just like to say that I have just come back from Park Ave, from the kirtan darbaar held for the three veerji's that sadly passed away.. And I just want to say that the pictures of Sant Jarnail Singh Ji are still there with Sri Akaal Takhat Sahib.. Just to stop any confusion.. I also want to ask the regular sangat, why is Himat Sohi president of both Havelock and Park Ave - is one gurdwara not enough.? And surely ther should be a constitution that stipulates that one person can onli saty president for so long.. Bhul chuk maaf karna, if i have said anything out of line. Gurufateh Ji

just by walking around wolvs you can see how these veerji's have touched each and everyone of us within the community.. may waheguru ji bless them and ther families,..

WAHEGURU WAHEGURU WAHEGURU WAHEGURU WAHEGURU

Hukam... may waheguru ji bless them...

i herd through the grapevyn from ppl that know tha guys that dun this that 'it was drug realted' and he owed some money or sumat and he began acting hard so they busted him up...

well i think that parents always thiunk that in a way.. i remember giving my best mate some of my parshaad... cus i couldnt eat alll.. (for some reason why do all the gurdwaras in the midlands always give loads) well anyway i gave him my parshaad and for like a whole year my nani was thinkin that me and him was going out.. untill one day she sat ther giving me a lectur.. i had to explain to her in great detail that the two of us are just friends end off.. now shes tellin me to find sumone at uni that i can spend the rest of my life with.. i wish i cud understand these grandparents...

i just want to clear that she didnt come back to her family cus she was pregnant., cus the child is about 3/4 yrs old i aint to sure..

at last a guy that admits he went out with a muslim??? ive had debates with my mates from uni, most of them being from the midlands.. but sum from london sides.. well im not impressed.. a kuri goes off with a <admin-profanity filter activated> and its besti.. but when a munda goes of with a sulli they given a pat on the back.. i dont understand this messed up double standards.. its not right either way end off!!! and as for those people that say we get the <admin-profanity filter activated> back for what they do to our kuriya.. well doesnt that just make u as bad as the <admin-profanity filter activated>??? and as for penji whos come back home, she was neva reali that into sikhi from what i know.. so she had neva taken amrit.. but im hoping that with kirpa from guru ji.. she might understand that right way.. and to the veerji/penji that sed that apniya kuriya dont want a munda with a sikhi saroop its jus the same with guys... there arent that many munda that reali want a kuri with a sikhi saroop... it happens jus as much with mundeh if not more.. i have a mate hu is amrit dhari asking me to help find him a singhni now that hes at that age, but she has to b so tall, hav such looks, a fair complection and realistically he wants a singhni that loooks like a modelk that u see in asian women magz.. i think that many (not all so please dnt shout at me) young sikhs today are forgeting what sikhi reali means... bhul chuk maaf karna fateh ji

umm is it jus my persepetion.. or are they basically saying we becomin like that islamic militants.. im sorry if im reading it wrong!!!

the child goes to the gurdwara and enjoys it.. but no he isnt judged he's completly innocent in all of the this and everyone knows that.. the onli problem they have is with onlookers who judge other peoplel... the child goes to the gurdwara and enjoys it.. but no he isnt judged he's completly innocent in all of the this and everyone knows that.. the onli problem they have is with onlookers who judge other peoplel...

Paji i can live my life as 'sikh' to.. yea i might be finding it hard but i know guru ji will help in tyms when i find it hard like he has been doing..

Now now, I dont think that u can say that its just the girls that are marrying non-sikhs. I know of far more men to have married non-sikhs but the strange thing is they are more excepted where as the girls are made out casted. Its not just like that in the UK but its like that across the world. And i do agree with chandanjit kaur, things happen in life and usually it happens for a reason ( i believe) and I have always been told that anything that usually happens is with guru jis hukam. So hopefully this penji will realise and want to become one with sikhi but this is gonna take time. But often a question plays in my minde again and again, why is it that with muslim's religion is drilled into ther minds again and again. They mess around and go out with whoever or whatever or do whatever. But when it comes to the crunch they sstick with ther religion. Wheras people like us born into sikhi, so pyaari and spiritual. Well frankly theres a lack of teaching to the religion. We're not taught to understand it. In my experience I was taught to do my Jap Ji Sahib Paath and told some stories. But it wasnt untill a certain stage in my life where frankly nothing was goin right and i was introduced to someone who was amrit dhari - but a pure evil person. Because I knew that things hhe did was anti-gurmat i began learning about sikhi. From someone who was so clue less, I try to keep rehat. But its hard when u have a family that says you should live your life first. But with Kirpa i keep going trying to live a pure life as best as i can. Ok kinda went off the subject, but what I'm trying to say is that we need more teaching from our elders about what we are and who we are! (Oh and to the person that said that girls rather chat to muslims or hindus than to sikhs, thats wrong to cause I think its important to get along with all. Cause otherwise we'd all be stuck in one way, not understanding other peoples perspectives. You can be friends with others. And also guys are just as bad as girls with looks, I have known of singhs to say to kuriya that they shud cut ther hair, do ther eyebrows this that and the other. So its not jus one sided, guys are just as obsessed with appeasrences as they girls) Bhul Chuk Maaf Karna Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

use coconut oil or conditioner its helps with nurishing ya hair, and as penji sed dont dry ur hair. let it do so naturally

Fateh ji, thanks for the advice, i'll be sure to speak to my mate once i get back to uni. but i supose i'll have to wait and find out if his sister even wants to go back to sikhi huna.. hopefully she will have realised.. fateh ji

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waherguru Ji Ki Fateh, I wanted to ask others that have better knowledge about sikhi than I do about apneh that convert. The thing is my mates sister left home around 5-6 years ago cause she was supposedly 'in love' with this muslim guy.My friend and his family tried reali hard to keep her away from him but one morning when they woke up she was gone. Well anyway, may mate always said that he was a onli child and lived his life with just him and his mom his dad became shaheed in 84. So like he's the onli person in his household that takes responsibilty. Well anyway, his sister turned up on ther doorstep a couple of months ago with a child. And she said that she wanted to come home because she found out that the muslim guy got paid to corvert and have a child. He wanted to kick her out of the house and not allow her back in cause of all the pain that she put ther mom through. But me and one of my other mate convinced him to let her stay, cause no matter wat at the end of the day she's still his sister and she should look after her. Well they all living very happily at the moment, with guru ji's kirpa. But what reali confuses me is that he wont let her come back to sikhi, hes telling her to stay muslim. He says that if she can turn her back sikhi once then she can to it again. But my argument with him is that she wasnt in the correct frame of mind at the time and that she was brain wahsed. So my question is, if something like this happens to one of our brothers or sisters is it wrong to accept them back into sikhi? Bhul chuk maaf karna Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh I was having a discussion wit my mom today about this. And we kinda of came to the conclusion that around the Southall and Hounslow area many blokes that do ther pooteh kam exchange money in such places as the the gurdwara carpark. I have on an occasion in Hounslow had an argument with a bloke until my mom told me to leave it. So I reali think it falls down to the commitee of the Gurdwareh and they need to do sumthing about it. And those commitees that allow these ongoings shud be struck off.. and the sangat need to make sure that when it comes to elections they take part so that these issues have a less chance of occuring.. If any of you are in the Southall or Hounslow area look around the car park to see what's goin on cus theres always some andaa ther waiting for a pick up. Bhul chuk maaf karna Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

veerji i understand what u are sayin.. but the thing i reali dnt want is if my family start sorting out a rishta - they will most likely find sumone - who is a mona, eats meat, enjoys clubbin and drinks and that.. thats jus a main worry.. not that theyd do this on purpose but they trus people to easy. and im not reali into all that i rather get a buzz from goin to the gurdwara doin simran at 4am. im jus very different from my family.. strange thing is my mates mom always asks me if id be her daughter in law. so now i jus stay out of his area.. lol koi na, what evas written in me kismat it will happen..

i fink im jus gna stick wit him jus being me best mate.. and wateva happens happens huna.. the whole things jus a headache

well of cors the family wud b the ones sorting things out, but im still at uni so im takin it easy. and hes like one of these nah u aint gna go out and munch cus u dnt know how they make things.

im 22 and like my family are telling me to find a munda, cus we have had many mishaps in our family. thing is im like the onli one in my family into sikhi in huge way. my love will always and forever be wit waheguru.. thing is i see this guy as my best friend, and we're both into sikhi we go to programs together (Sikhi ones that is). but hes gota be one of the strictst yung singhs that i have come across. and as for arranged marriges i dnt reali agree wit them i dunna if thats a good thing or bad thing. but all ive eva seen is bad things happen with em.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, Do you realy looking around all sikhs across the globe that Khalistan will be made? My mates and I have this discussion all the time, esepecially amongst the youth that go to June 84 Majareh and voice 'Khalistan Zindabaad'. These people don't even understand the basics of sikhi, so how are we ment have Khalistan. Most youth are more concernedx about showing of that there Khande saying that they are sikh, punjabi. The ones that get to me the most are, when they try and big up what caste they are. Is this Sikhi? I feel that the only way for Sikhs to get remotely close to Khalistan will be; to educate the youth about Sikhi, teach them history before 1984. Cause at the moment the burning of the India flag is completly dissapointing. I strongly feel that the shaheeds are disgusted by the behaviour! And if anything is to be done the first step to be taken is to take that step forward to sikhi. I apologize for saying anything out of line, but at this present moment in time I feel that we dont deserv Khalistan.

omg im disturbd by that video i have friends that still hav a go at me for listnin to bhangra, im not reali into it much anymore. but omg!!! and im not on abt sexual relationships! gosh im not even like that

we just friends. but dont u think in this day and age u need to get to know someone and before anyone says im questioning sikhi i'm not. just like to know of people opinions

well truthfully we're gettin more into sikhi together but we jus like help each other on stuff we may not understand but we aint like together or nufin but we just like best mates. but my mate has issues cus i dont call him paji or nuffin. ehmi he jus jelus he dnt have friends like me. and im not the one that has issues with castes, i dnt reali care as long as i get on wit the person im kool with them huna..