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did it hav a khanda on 2??? i think it says sumthing about the youth of sikhi...that they almost feel obliged 2 go out & proove a point... esp at this time of year.

parwinder singh ji...THANK U!!! lol naaa b4 we offend any1...not aaaallll guys do that, some genuinely believe thay are doing sumthing gud... such a goood point, i had never even thought of that. :wub:

good stuff, excellent :e:

vaisakhi's coming up....... which means i will definately b seeing t shirts/hoodies designed by crews- emblazoned with the khanda & the AK 47 etc.... just wanted 2 know if everyone agrees with this.... its one thing wearing theses tops, i dont mind that at all, they want 2 represent sikhism... but...i dunno do u think its a good idea to hav guns all over them and then "fight" in them (like some do), like they are sum kind of war costume.... maybe im just being a silly killljoy!!!.. what do u guys think??

..... ... :'( ... i cannot f*****g believe this...wat th.... nooo waaaayyyy...this cant be...shudn't be happnin!!!!! soooo wrrroooonngg... sumthin definately needs 2 b don...but how??? &hardy kaur penji i agree wiv most other ppl here, i no its gonnna b hard, but tell sum1 close 2 u, tell sum1, do it 4 urself and ur sisters. this is messed up man...im pleased 2 say i hav never encountered a...how shall i put it..."corrupt" gianni/pathhi i pray i never will, but the giannis/patthis u speak of in this thread r givin all th other giannis & patthis a bad name, and dishounuring the name of sikhi ....i cant believe it .... shockin stuff... how dare they...read from he gUru Granth Sahib Ji & then forget th teachings within it... unbeleviable. :wub: they will get wats coming to them, Vaheguru will see 2 that!!!!!!

i feel 4 juu! mannn i get angry all th time- sumtimes i can feel th artery goin on the side of my neck & its like its gonna explooooddde! lol but then...i jus go 2 my bedroom where it is nice & quiet, i close my eyes, & i medidate on the Name. ur effectively turning all that negative energy in2 positive energy :wub: ahhhhh that makes me feel relaxed & so much better, & then u realise that it was a really dumb thing u were gettin workd up over! try it :TH:

:cool: @ wooow..wat athort provokin issue...penji u r right... they shudn't b lukin @ appearance anyway, it shud b the inner beauty that counts,ur jyot, ur jeevan .....i can see y ur sooo frustrated!!! man y r guys lyk this??/ okk u myt wna real fit wife, but wa if she turns out 2 b th bigges B!*@$ eva?! ...dont men (not all guys, sum of u r okkk!) want a nice chungi kuri wiv morals, n faith? a wife that wil help their husbands faith 2 gro stronger?? but hang on in there, ur kismet has already been written by Vaheguru Ji & wat is destined 2 happen WILL happen (im sure its a gud married life He's got planned 4 juuu!) i mean if things aren't gettin any better, y don't u try the getin 2 no mr singh???u say ur parents r quite liberal & so hopefully they may not hav a problem wiv this...n atleast the guy will then hopefully judge u on ur personality huna, cuz u seem like a rllly nice girl, without takin luks in2 account- which don't matter anyway cuz sikhi teaches tha the body is EXTERNAL!!i dunno mayb it'll giv him a chance 2 go on sumfin other than ur luks & u may even b surprised 2 find that he's not a FAKE,MATERIALISTIC,MAYA LUVIN PUNK!!! & i no ur concerned about goin down the hole bf gf route, but it duzn necessarily hav 2 go down tha path if u dun wanit 2...if the guys a gud RESPECTFUL SINGH he'l understand...thers nuffin 2 lose don't giv up hope, always hav faith in Vaheguru, tek care & i hope evryfin works out 4 uuuuuuuuuu :wub: u will b in my prayers this evenin n all my other sisters hu share ur plight. let us no how u get on ye? x x x ermmm plz dun shout at me : i no ur angry LOl, sorry if i'v annoyed u even mor.sorry

"The Taboo still is with untouchables, something that needs to be addressed. :wub: " hmmmm... thas soo truu Randip Singh paaji ( & btw i wish 2 big u up 4 marryin out'v caste ) i agree wiv wat balait da sher is sayin 2, arranged marriages have only added 2 divisions in wat shud b a united community bcuz its tru, 1st thing mommy n daddy luk 4 is CASTE. they worry to much "haaaw wa will so n so think bla bla bla " they need 2 wake up 2 reality that we r all 1, hopefully this will happen sooner rather than later (plz plz b4 my weddin LOL) i dun think arranged marriages r wrong at all, there's evidence 2 suggest they r more succesful than love marriages (as long as there not forced) but i disagree with caste being a "criteria" tha needs 2 b assesed if u get me. i mean, goin bak 2 wa randip singh was sayin, ye th issue wiv th so called " untouchables" is ridiuclous, if th girl is chamaar then often her parents r afraid 2 let her marry in2 a "higher" caste, cuz they worry how the saas ji will treat her they dont wish 4 any1 2 luk down on them. did u guys know tha Guru Arjan Ji had actually tried 2 marry out'v the khatri caste???i think wen his marriage was being arranged he had requested it 2 b a girl frm a diff caste, it was his way of promotin equality, but it caused such a public outcry it was not allowed. the sad fing is tha this is goin on 2day...lukin down on 1another is stoooooopid, I am PRO "OUTSYD TH CASTE MARRIAGES", i think tha is th 1st step 2wards the fight for caste eradication hawww iv gon on 4 2 long agen!

haaaaw the bachaara didnt do so well in his IQ test hahaha naa onk kiddin, it will be gud 4 him 3 learn u cant b right aaaaalllll the time.

soooooo truuuuuueeeee!! i think, that sez it all! :nihungsmile: