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Vaheguru Jee Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Jee Kee Fateh "Kaur 12345" bhenji you're doing the right thing by covering your head and not doing any kurehat or beadbi of kes. I know a lot of Bibia who goes to Sikh camps, be counselors, do speeches, presentations for the young kids at the camp but not follow what they preach them. You think if they cut their hair themselves, do their eye brows and tell the kids to keep their hair, not to shave or do their eyebrows, Is that really gonna make sense to the kids. In my opinion if you call yourself a Sikh, you have some responsibilities such as to look like and live like a Sikh. If you say I am covering my head for a Sikhi reason then you must represent Sikhs. It really does not make sense to continue doing eye brows, trimming hair & wearing make-up and still trying to say I am covering my head for a "sikhi"reason. I wouldn't comment on the bibi who just want to cover her head for a guy or to make his family happy. However bhenji I also started off with covering my head with chunni & pathka while learning nitnem & how to take proper care of kakkaars. Since Everybody is different. It will just come to you when you 'll feel ready to wear dastaar too. Some people change inside first then start changing on outside. May Vaheguru jee forgive us & give us sojhi to follow His Rehat properly

hahaha awww veere.. if you had already made your mind up you should of gone to the hairdressers not this forum however think about it.. is love a one way thing? is it a deal.. i do this this and this good thing, then god will love me even if i dont keep my kesh ? jin prem kio thin hee prabh paeo.. if you truly want to be get to maharaj then you must keep true prem.. be ready to do everything.. keep the inner and outer rehat which includes keeping kesh the things you mention are very very very important..they might make you a good christian or a muslim or a hindu.. but for me atleast a sikhi is a hukmi person tries to listen to every hukum of guru ji of which keeping kesh is very primary.!

No offense or anything but how old are you?