Yea that's true, I guess it mostly happens overseas? Like in my country in Punjabi school I had a Mona friend who despite knowing about Sikhi and knowing that I have a rehat to follow, he kept trying to convince me to cut my hair so I broke my friendship with him. Many of our apney overseas are following western culture. Many Sikhs in my country neglect Sikhi. Whenever they see people who keep rehat, they will mock them by talking amongst themselves and saying fateh,( they won't say fateh to the Gursikh) they mock the Gurfateh and call those who keep the Rehat Desi Baba. This trend occurs in Punjab too, many of our apney may soon get influenced by western influence if we don't get Quality leaders who can pull crowds towards the Rehat and teach them to be Tyar Bar Tyar.
Some of the Gurdwara committee members are drunkards! They have those big stomachs and are not Tyar at all and neither do they believe in Rehat. There is absolutely no Gatka Practice in my country or archery. It's up to the individual to find ways to learn. We need to strengthen our quality of people.