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i think a relationship is forming between geo and HSD

^^ the post isn't even about conversion. its about girls deciding they want to marry a non-sikh and think its ok.

i would rather not disclose where i live on a public forum the singh knows and chooses not to do anything

^^ where i have grown up this is the norm, since i can remember i have heard stories in the playground of how one of my muslims friends Aunt 'used to be a sikh' etc etc. alot of my old sikh friends at school dated muslims one is even married to one. i myself with guru sahebs kirpa never went down that path. put honestly as a child i just felt it was normal for sikh girls converting to islam. nobody talks about it nobody questions it, its only now people are getting pro active and going to gurudwara and doing talks. which i personally think isn't as affect as i hoped, although it helps it doesn't target the actually girls who are out their being converted because these girls don't go to the gurudwara. i know a singh who wears full bana shastar walks into reinsbhahee dressed head to toe in guru sahibs shastar, yet his sister is dating a paki who is seen frequently kissing, hugging him etc by other members of the sikh community. its disgusting and nobody does anything about it. i really think the UK sangat are not doing anything (including myself) very sad

i got a BNP leaflet through the post the other day..bashing muslims to the max and blaming them for everything lol idiots

this is quite common, my Aunt is a receptionist and said that a girl came in with a hijab and said her name was Iram Khan, my aunt couldn't find her record anywhere and asked her date of birth, when my aunt searched records for the date of birth only one name came up which was gurjinder kaur. my aunt told her the only name we have for this date of birth is gurjinder kaur. the girl said ohh you guys still have my old name and casually walked out. also a girl at my college is living with her muslim DJ boyfriend and recently just had a baby boy which they named some muslamaan name. he hasn't even told his parents he is with her. i know alot of girls who have fathered musalman mens babies, they walk around with prams thinking they have such a great life. yeah right i could sit here and tell you loads of stories i have witnessed first hand.

hopfully they will have more group work as i have noticed at khalsa camp their is not much interaction between everyone. people just stick in their own groups. :umm

nice to see the girl use the excuse of 'forced marriage' to justify her running away and getting married, i know my dad would kill me if i ever did that so i don't blame them

confusingh your reply doesn't really have anything to do with the topic! what you going on about? lol

i knew there was something dodgy about her from the moment i heard her annoying voice. personally i think she sounds like she sat on the toilet when she sings. its nice to see dr_mani getting his priorities right..why are you on a sikh forum if you don't care about your guruji? go and make a dera for miss pooja then.

i said no to a singh for rishta because he believed a bibi could not be in the panj

any new developments? is he still on jail?

i don' agree with people who are saying let your parents decide. what if your parents are monai and want you to marry a mona? doesn't make sense if you like someone and think they would be good marriage material then get in touch with someone who knows them and ask them to ask if that other person is intrested. if not ask elders to look for suitable match parents only look for money and status, no offense end of the day you should be happy with your partner in every sense

im not going on about monia attending it! OFCOURSE we want them to come to the events. what im talking about it monis actually running it. don't you think its abit two faced sitting their giving lectures on how boyfriends are wrong makeup is wrong etc when you do it all yourself. unless that makes sense in your head singh_bling? if your not willing to follow guru sahibs path then why teach it to others?

speaking of kaurageous i was wondering what sangats views are on 'monis' running it? i mean i know a few places where its not singhnees who are running it but girls who have boyfriends cut their hair etc. not exactly setting a good example to other girls is it? or is it ok because they come to gurudwara dressed simple? but guru sahib see's you everywhere not just when you come to gurudwara so who are these girls kidding. i agree with the poster think you should complain i might jus complain myself if this continues. bhul chuck maaf

@ having feelings is PO this is a bad situation. im sorry but i don't think this girl likes you because if she did she would have given you some kind of hint. your either attracted to someone or your not. if she does not like you in that way and you tell her you like her she will freak and run a mile. if you have deep feelings for her just tell her and if she doesn't feel the same just break contact. that actually is the best thing to do regardless of what other people say.

British Lad you do have a point,i have seen a lot of ''''sikh'''' boys and girls,wear these Islamic Yasser Arafat Style Tea Towels around their necks,what really takes the biscuit is when Paks wear them on Eid ,and then you see apneh wearing them as well. The hindu element to this is these new rakhari style strings with beads,that girls wear. These and other fashions make us look like Hindus and Muslims,especially Yasser Arafat Style Tea Towels which girls wear,one you say your Sikh the next they got these things around their necks and dressed like the Mujhahadeen,this goes to Sikh Boys as well you have a point but not all the scarves are like that some are totally different like mine is not like that its black and blue checks. wearing that style of scarf pictured above is abit dodgy i mean its ok for gorai because its a fashion thing for them no one will question their intentions. but apneh would look like islamic extremists or something or supporting their cause.

lol have one lmao but its dark blue n black i know what your going on about its nothing to do with conversion its just a fashion thing. there will soon be a new trend. alot of white girls wear the white and red coloured ones i tried finding a pic but couldnt