AvnitK

go to bhangra team forums ..... :angrymonkey:

I feel what your going through, its like you feel that just because you notice people looking at you, you think they are looking down on you basically thinking you are less than them, you think the girls think your ugly, and the white folk are thinking that ur muslim and are scared, and you hate it right?? I went through the same and still do, But by reading gurbani i have realized that it doesnt matter what all these "other" people think of me, I am comfortable in my own shoes, I dont need someone to tell me how good i look or if my turban makes me less good looking, or think that im muslim, because for me the only person who can judge me is waheguru =god . These people who your talking about they keep coming and going, all the time. Does your family have a problem with the way you look?? no. do your friends have a problem? no. Try embracing yourself for who you are at this point. by the way your decribing yourself you seem to like your turban and your kesh, but you havent embraced yourself for being handsome singh with the crown of his guru. It seems as if your looking for a excuse for cutting your hair, and some reason for your psychological disorder as in why is it that bad. Your psychological disorder is not that bad but you yourself are making it bad by thinking that every person that looks at you is just hating on your turban, which gets you angry. I say brother EMBRACE YOURSELF,its your identity, its what makes you who you are. Remember ONLY WAHEGURU CAN JUDGE YOU, no one else because they dont matter, they were born the same way as you and are gonna pass on the same way. hope this helped

thats one of the problems that arised with me when i was in india and called sumone bhaaji they thought i meant grandpa or dad.... and i believe thats the same veerji here is experiencing lol

I know many that do ...and yes i agree on the fact that after hearing it from their mouths makes you change your whole outlook onn the person

im such a moorakh, cuz i didnt do many jaaps plz add 10 jaaps modnote: Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru, Phenji your Jaaps have been added

hey isnt ripdaman singh malik the singh who lives in canada who basically started khalsa school?? the guy who they were blaming for the air india bombing??

waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru wahwguru waheguru waheguru waheguru waheguru

:excited:.... hahahahahahahahaha

i liked the video alot, especially how it tells you the emotions a person goes through after being abused in such a way, and it tells us how, truly alone our community makes us feel about something rather than come and tell you that they support you

I agree with Azaad veerji as well, like yes we know that it is said that '5 vikarran ton bacho" but it doesnt say ki get them out completely, like veerji said they have to be controlled, because too much of any of them can destroy you even as a human being let alone by sikhi perspective. As for examples, i dont think there extreme i just think that there kind of like common sense, those were the first things that came to mind when me and my friend were discussing, moh is attachment and attachment is basically love as in pyaar, and pyaar can be of a spouse, a friend, a sibling, but what came to us first was pyaar of a parent towards his/her children. of course thats why we say these 5 vikarran cant totally be conquered because there still be some sort of each in our daily lives, we only have to control all of them to a point where it doesnt hurt you or your morals in general.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh guru pyareo So me and a friend of mine were talking about the 5 vikaars(vices), kaam, krodh, lobh, moh, and ahankar...and were talking about how if we didnt have any of these 5 vikkars we woudnt be human at all, - like how if we didnt have kaam(lust) then the world wouldnt have population like as in if we didnt have a sexual desire children wouldnt be born, - if we didnt have krodh(anger) then we wouldnt protect protect ourselves like when someone would come and try to hurt your family or rob your house you wouldnt have the desire to go and help, -my personal favorite is lobh(greedy), like if we didnt have lobh then we wouldnt even feel the need to do nitnem or any other type of need to get closer to waheguru, because why do we do all of these things? of course theres a greed inside us to go to sachkhand or please the guru or look good in society. - If we didnt have moh(attachment) a mother wouldnt take care of her child , if u cant love a human being then u cant love gods creation basically stating that you wouldnt even have a love for waheguru himself, - which also leads to ahankar(ego) , look at it this way if you have an ego about the world you are living in then you would have a mind setting that this is my world, basically saying if we werent proud of the earth we wouldnt be concerned about stopping global warming also stoping poverty. ego and attachment to me are almost the same which is why its confusing but difference is more of showing off about something while attachment is more about showing your love for something or someone. this was an interesting topic that i really had to share with the sangat, and would love to see you views on this as well Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh jii

funny how sumone admitted that :wink2: