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hey thank u all for the advie i had a think about this and tested myself. the exercise does relax me/makes me feel good no it wasnt that. it was teh football we were playing poorly have been all season so i let it get to me. i wont let it now!thanks god bless u

um i used to shave my dhari before and used to feel guilty afterwards. but the guilt is a good thing at least ur not shaving like hell and not caring about doing it. use the guilt and pray thats what i did......do ardaas. also when u grow ur dhari u get a lot more respect trust me. i thght i was respected b4 when i used to shave but when u grow ur dhari its looks beautiful. need any advice pm me.

its stupid. u cud go ur whole life chasing girls like this and teh only guarantee is u'll be hurt. look man a girl cud keep u going for ages saying stuff like this but dnt be go gullable and take it. if it was gonna happen it wud but why wud u want to get involved with 1stly an amrithari girl who is using 2 men and 2ndly ur amrithari. luk concentrate on sikhi ur life dont go wasting ur time on sum1 elses words. i know ive been there i fell in love with a girl and she too kept me going on words. words .'liek i love u but im not redi, lets just wait......or its complicated'. she didnt hesitate in using me when no1 else was there thgh!i belived her every word and after a year she said she didnt love me anymore!after all of that. ur being used man sorry 4 the hard words but i dont like it when sum1 takes 4 granted sum1s heart/emotions

this is what they replied to me,,,,...........................(its not good enough).......... Dear Mr Singh Thank you for your email regarding 'File on 4'. I am sorry you were unhappy with our File on 4 documentary on Sikh militancy. The programme was presented by an experienced and respected Sikh journalist and we were at pains from the outset to make it clear that we were focusing on the activities of a minority of people - so I would hope that nobody would be tempted to draw any broader conclusions about the community in general. However the issues we reported are of obvious public interest both to Sikhs and to the wider public. I therefore think we were justified in raising the questions we did and in reporting information based on good sources both here and in India. As we said in the programme, the idea of Sikh militants being linked with Islamist groups is ?particularly surprising given the traditional animosity between Sikhs and Muslims which was accentuated during the partition of India.? However the various agencies and experts that we spoke to, both on and off the record, are adamant that this is what is happening and we had no reason to doubt them. Thank you once again. Yours sincerely, David RossEditor, File on 4

'but because they been together so long, she cant end it wit him. she says if they werent together we would be' that is the biggest amount of crap i have ever heard!u r obviously being used. if she liked u that much no1 wud stand in her way no matter how long she had been with sum1. i hate it when girls says this stuff just to keep a guy close to them. buck up ur ideas singh u r clearly being taken 4 a ride.

coem on he's ur dad. my dads no where near perfect dnt even see him anymore but i dnt wish he died. look u shudnt worry about the marriage thing if people wanna judge u 4 ur dad thats their prob. its u there gonna marry at the end of the day not ur dad.

i was at teh gudwara once and a man was having a full blown ocnversation with his kid. 'do u want langar@do u want rice?shall we go downstairs?etc i was getting so annoyed. but i knew if i had said anything the guy wud have flipped. my solution sit at the front

hello all, ok im amrithari and recently ive been doing a lot of exercise. press ups, sit ups, weights and jogs etc. my question is can exercise effect ur hormone balance?the reason im asking is recently ive just been getting so angry. i was playing football the other day and got sent off for swearing and starting a fight. but this really is not me and im ashamed of myself. i used to have a temper prob but when i took amrit that was sorted out so im just a bit lost with myself. any help wpuld be appreciated so much thanks

wow 1stly well done!!!thast amzaing, diet theres loads u can get from supermarkets iceland r suppose to be good. as for phaat just upload or is it download...hmmmm...well u know what i mean some on ur phone. so when u have some spare time u can just play it. simran simple too thats how i 1st got into sikhi.

check this out people for anti sikh sent to me by my friend. ive found a lot of it really really biased have a listen! futeh http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio/podcasts/fileon4/?focuswin clik second bit and dwnload it woopps just seen that this was already posted sorry!

it hit derby hard lol!!i woke up at 1 coz my dog kept barking just as i got up to beat him up the whole house shook. though the windows were going to cave in!!!

excellent post. this is a real issue at the moment and needds to be looked at. thanks for the info!!!

it takes guts to stand up foryourself teh way u did. u seem to have a good head on your shoulders , everyone makes mistakes i know ive made loads. but along as though u learn from them u will im sure be forgiven. just cancel him out ur life. your family and sikhi are way more important good luck sis

the way i see it is iraq and afghanistan were run by dictators. look how badly women were treated in afghanistan. public excutions, whipping etc took part their. the army has gone it and done what?offered these people a say by democracy. a government being set up there which is amazing. in iraq saddam hussein persecuted the kurds exactly like the sikhs are persecuted in india. my point is yes there may have been some more agendas but surely giving people democracy is a good thing! (this is just my opinion)

good point!!!!!!!!

thats teh stupidest thing i have ever heard!we should have our sikh courts then?

are there any places where girls/women can get advice about this stuff?help etc?

i wore a ptaka untill i was 21!!!!yes 21 and looking back at myself i looked bloody stupid. id say while ur a kid wear one but when u turn 15/16/17 wear a dastaar

1)KHALISTAN Mothers, Fathers, Brothers and Sisters lend me your ears For this is not just about Bhinderwhale and his spears It’s about the right of each and every man Its about our beloved Khalistan People are confused about this land that could be But I say to them this is our chance, our chance to be free They say to me what’s the point or what’s the use? I tell them its about putting a stop to our neglect and abuse The army officials do not want us to have our way, But the bubbars will help us, they will help keep them at bay Our Lord is our Commander-in-Chief He will help put an end to all of our grief’s Support our brother Sant Janail Singh Bhindranwhale And remember the courageous stories of Sikhs like Baba Aluwhalia This is our new motherland................This will be the Khalsa rule at hand. 2)Mums And Dads Mums and Dads this is a message to you You guys make me sick coz you haven’t got a clue Your letting your daughters and sons stray Instead you should be encouraging them to come to the Gudwara to pray The state of a Sikh girl nowadays It’s a reason why our Sikh identity is in such disarray With the boys what can I see? Mobs hanging around on street corners being gangster wanna-be’s So what’s the cause of this and who’s to blame? I think it’s the parents and the kids who should hold down their heads in shame So what is the future for Punjabi’s over here Does it revolve around that drink-beer? I see a better future than this I see a life of eternal bliss 3)NEVER FORGET 1984 Where were you in 1984? Where were you when dead Sikhs lay on the floor? When we received shot after shot, And Singhs were tied up with their turbans in knots. Where were you when Kaurs were raped? Where were you when they tried but failed to escape? How was Kuldip Bra allowed to come in? How was he allowed to do such a hideous sin? Why was our holiest of temples attacked? Is it because the Hindustani’s unity with the Sikhs lacked? Why on that day? When more Sikhs were expected to come and pray? Is it because the Indian government did not want us to have our say? So now us Sikhs maybe treated like the poor, But we will not live on without the memory of 1984 anymore…

thanks for the youtube advice ill check it out. ive just got over depression took me over 2 years!im only in my 20's. but why get depressed?whats the point. yeah people hurt u and things happen but people move on. when things get tough u have to work harder. do phaat, exercise etc. also talk about ur problem. i find that so hard but it does help it doesnt have to be anyone close(sometimes that doesnt help) but a friend or whoever. message me if u want. futeh

look on youtube!or sikhnet. i watched video of how to tie different dastaars there. i asked loads of people to teach me...every1 said yeah sure wel do it. but they never did. i had enough one day i literally taught myself. it looked bad at 1st and was fat too tight but its gets better

hey dude/dudette! ive been thinking about this a lot myself recently. id say its wrong. if ur amrithari it does looks bad being in places like that. ive stopped going myself. also ur surrounded by people drinking etc dnt think we shouldbe around people like that

firstly sis i find it cool come of the stuff u do. veganism is something i tried but failed to do. not eating out i like the idea of..at least you know whats in your food. and the otehr stuff u say is cool too. but im a bit lost as 2 why u would not hug your husband when married without him having a shower first?im a guy and when im married i dont see a prob with showing affection like that. moving on.....i dont go to clubs/pubs or anything either. so im left out from even my apne friends!but it doesnt bother me, i am what i am at the end of the day.

So if a "Sikh" girl is dating a Muslim, the Muslims have an agenda, and when a Muslim girl wants to marry a "Sikh", she is blessed? excellent!!!!!look if you really like him and he really likes u then waht can we say?we have no powere to says its wrong/right. to be honest im not a fan of this stuff all i can say if dnt hurt your family and his family. then things get messy. if u genuinely like him then u and he must respect each others beliefs and cutlures.

when u have bad thoughts do something that will tire your brain out. often kaam thoughts come to ones head when your mind is bored and not active. i tried doing lik press ups when i used to have these thoughts. just burn yourself out. itll use up all those bad hormones.!!!!