That youtube link was great
Anyway if people want to get into a relationship let them. I personally don't give a damn what people do it has no concern of mine, If it effects their spirituality in good or bad ways. that ain't my problem either its theirs.
People may make mistakes, some might not, at the end of the day we should learn from these things.
How many of us have gone against our parents to do or try something were not meant to? Most likely all of us.