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  1. Wjkk wjkk I heard it was based it Leeds this year any furthur info? Amrit Sanchaar info? Dhanvaad Sangat Ji Wjkk wjkf
  2. JustME

    How A Murderer Obtained Waheguru

    I remember listening to this a while ago, thanks for sharing pyaareh-oh :-)
  3. Are you ready to be Blessed by the Guru & Panj Pyare then enroll on to the Khalsa Panth now!!! Amrit Sanchar this Saturday at: Gurdwara Amrit Parchar Dharmik Diwan, Oldbury, UK, B69 4EH on Saturday 3rd December 2012 at 3pm contact 07811330636 - all Kakkars will be provided!
  4. Wjkk wjkf Sangat jeo I'm having difficulties in finding formula for our new born baby, (in the UK) as sma and all other high street brand ALL have fish products in them, I know there are some soya based products but I read that they are not always good for newborns and lack certain nutrients.... Does sangat know of any formulas that are veggie friendly? I am breast feeding soon I gotta take some meds that won't allow to me to continue to do this, I really worried, I need to make sure baby gets the best of what he needs.... Thanks in advance sangat jio
  5. WJKK WJKF...... hmmmmm....you may not like what im about to say here because you so badly want it to work with this guy. But having spoken to many bibiah in similar situations and also personal experiences before dass was blessed with amrit......heres my 2 cents...... Attraction and love are two very different things, lust and love are two very different things and it seems you have confused what it is you feel. When you love someone and something or have a feeling of love, lust, sex, attraction do not come into the equation. If you truly loved this person, sex would be the last thing on both of your minds because the bond of love is God itself and is felt and experienced on a spiritual level. What you are feeling is now desperation, anguish and dispair because, you have slept with someone, now you feel obliged to marry them for that reason alone. thoughts are going through your head such as "how will i marry someone else because im am no longer a virgin, and anyone else will find out on my wedding night." "my parents will hate me and marry me off to some stranger blah blah blah" i hope you understand where im going with this. Also you call yourself and your partner rehat-dharis and you wear a patka, thats fantastic but what concerns me is that you dont even know what the bujjar kurihets where yet you claim to be "into sikhi" before i contine please let me apologize for the harsh words but im just trying to highlight what exactly the problem is here.......... you are no different to any other girl out there, sikhi or not because, you met someone, became overwhelmed, got attracted to them, allowed yourself to consent to having sex with them and then when the happy ending is not coming your way.....you panic.......it happens every day, to a lot of women. a womans vitue, no matter how much we regret and repent afterwards, once lost, is not retrievable...... You need to seriously think about your future with this man..... what do you want? do you want to progress in sikhi together? what about when you both go on to have children? what moral values and teachings will you be passing onto them? are you going to be hypocrits and teach them something, set it in stone, knowing full well you, yourselves didnt follow it yourselves, If your partner is hesitating now? where were his parents when he decided to have sex with you? can you depend on this person for the rest of your life? you need to do some serious growing up from now onwards and think how best to move forward....... please forgive anything that may sound offensive, ive just heard this story so many times and when these questions are raised, girls dont realy seem to know what to say.....but to move forward in a postive light and learn valuable lessons means facing some harsh realities and truths about ourselves.....again i can say this from my own experience and im a paapi as it is.... bhul chuck maafi WJKK WJKF
  6. JustME

    Whats Going On?

    I was at my local gurghar yesterday and was horrified to hear from a younger singhni im close to about how she went to a sikh camp in wolves recently and was punched in the face by another singhni because she was questioning and debating about some sensitive issues in the panth. to add insult to injury they are now hounding her and threating in case she presses charges (which we have all told her to do) WHY WOULD YOU DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE? Where was you Guru when you raised you hand to hit someone innocent??? SOrry to rant here sangat jio but im sooooo dissapointed with the downward direction that some of our youth are taking and yet they thrush themselves at the forefront of camps and sewa to teach others about sikhi....... What is happening to us as youth.....we are supposed to love and respect each oether, be equivilent to charan dhoor and keep unity and pyaar amonsgt the panth? something we all (including myself need to think about) RANT OVER :BL:
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    Bibis Looking Like Muslims

    Just to add two cents to this topic, I was listening to some katha about our beloved Mata Sahib Kaur Ji, and Mata Ji's height was around 6ft tall and she wore a huge yellow dummalla with two chakkers in it. When we mat were privalidged to speak to gaini ji he also told us, that singhs/singhniah were very hard to differentiate on a battle field.......he told us that singhiah were built like towers....this was also because some very special souls took birth as singhniah in Guru Gobind SIngh Ji's time to recieve mukhti....... But behind the dastaar was some SERIOUS KAMAAI, i say this because this is where i too am failing in this jeevan,,,,,,,,,we may look the part, tie smart dastaarah/dumalleh/chunni/patkeh whatever......but what gives all this value is our value and keemat of rehat....... The disapline and obenience that women had in their lifestyles, raini/baini in puratan times and some even today is amazing....... Are we getting up for Amritvela regularly? Are we making efforts to progress in our knowladge and understanding of sikhi? Do we still remember why we took amrit? Do we understand what amrit even is or its value? A re we looking at the panj chor within ourselves before we seek to judge others? I can truly look in the mirror and be disgusted with myself as on the outside i look the part, but the inside.....well....thats whole new topic to discuss in itself.....but lets just say....it aint pretty... :|
  8. yup to add to that when you have the avasha of a sant/braimgyani mahapurkh Guru Gobind Singh Himself comes to get you :waheguru: :L:
  9. JustME

    Dudley Gurdwara Update

    The point is the hall was established and funded by gurdwara money, simply separating it in name and deed does not automatically make it separate does it? Separate committee or not theyare still going to be asociated with the gurghar....and if sangat come through the gurghar to making bookings for the the hall.... i.e. exactly the same situation we are in now, can pulling this stut still leave them unanswerable to the akal takht hukamnama and the conditions the hall was initallly established under the carity comission? Because if its just a hall thats being hired out for parties, how would it still remain under the charity commission even if its a separate number etc etc? Could anyone from Satkaar clarify what the implications of this would be? or even someone from a legal perspective....
  10. Hanji i remember this sakhi it comes in the Japji Sahib katha i think, i remember giggling to myself, how His own hankaar was his give away......lol :lol:
  11. WJKK WJKF I dont think think Giani Ji has made a recording of Asa Di //, if you go to http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/downloads.php they have the largest collection of Giani Ji's Gurbani Ucharan, I couldnt see ADV there If you find a copy please post up here, would love to hear it :-) WJKK WJKF
  12. JustME

    Dudley Gurdwara Update

    Mod Note: Thread has been cleaned up and restored guys. Please be responisble when replying and posting responses and refrain from personal attacks whilst keeping the in the spirit of the discussion. :-)
  13. JustME

    Dudley Beadbi Thread?

    Mod Note: WJKK WJKF. The Dudley Beadbi Thread has temporarily been taken down and the admin team are discussing how best to proceed with getting it back on-line minus the personal attacks. Each one of you can help by refraining for making such attacks but at the same time show your support and voice opinions on the Satkaar of Dhan Dhan Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj. Remeber guys, we are all on the same team here and Sikhsangat is 100% in support of the Satkaar of Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj. :-)
  14. john john lets hope for peace

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