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Hanji fancybanana Paji , and Singhbj paji its khanda. Sant ji explains at 5.47 onwards:

Very good post kaur02 sis. Very practical and good explanations.

Waheguru

U need to be comfortable and relaxed when doing paat. Don't put pressure on urself or time limits. Start off slow as much as u feel comfortable with, then slowly build up. Try listening to the audio and reciting along with it whilst reading the translations. Then try doing it urself, do with love and for nothing in return, Guruji will grace u as u carry on it will relax ur mind, don't set time limits as u are going into a panic to get it all done as quick as u can and that is stressing u. Waheguru.

Yup Im worries too please let us know ur ok. Make an account, u don't have to give personal details or names. and don't worry about anything, there's lots of brothers n sisters u can talk to here who will help. Waheguru

Did he give a reason? I don't understand how can an ustad stop due to the say so of youth? And as for qualities, u probably have qualities that they don't have. If they talk to you nicely reply back nicely otherwise don't waste ur energy of them, spend it on Guruji instead.

Paji dontcallmebhaji, the OP paji cannot get over it as Dyslexia is part of him, and it's nothing to be ashamed of or that can be rectified so easily, it affects people in different ways. Again to OP paji they may not know enough about ur condition, I have shared information on it, as I feel as Sikhs we should be aware of different health conditions, forgive me for any wrong wording, but I hope they read it and then will be aware of how they treated you. Waheguru

Dear paji, plz don't give up on urself, I know wat u are going thru as the similar thing happened with me too. A person with a health or learning condition has enough to cope with thus Waheguru is their trust n faith which makes this easier to cope with. It was same with me, people used to love talking to me and appreciate and respect my company, and I was a humble person, and treated everybody equally. I also was made to feel unwanted and picked on by a group of amritdhari brothers n sisters. They made sure any bit of faith I had in God was completely washed out, and also making out I was a bad person to others, so they too would turn away. Please don't do anything stupid, for them to treat u like that they are not Sikhs, but making out on top they are. I would just keep away from them. You will meet many people along ur spiritual journey, good and bad. Some you will find peace from, others you will not. You have done nothing wrong, plz don't dwell in it. If there is anybody u can talk to ? Try one of the Sikh helplines. They are the ones that are weak and have the insecurities and you have a pure soul from the sounds of it, people tend to harass the good ones in this Kalyug, as they can't be like that. So it's their loss not urs, have faith in Waheguru they will help u, if u fall get up again and again and again and do ardas to Maharaj ji to keep them at their charan, until ur mind becomes strong to deal with it. Do simran and don't fight the hurt, God is with you, always has been always will be, just there are some phases that come in life that may doubt ur progress. And don't worry about the pronounciation, or abt being like others, nobody is perfect, that's why we are in this world. Sehaje sehje krna, don't take on too much, pace ur self but do paat with love, Guruji loves u, stay in their hukam, it's hard but it will get better, maybe Gods showing u they were not good company, and saving u from something worse, don't take it as they hate u, other good company will come, and u are not alone God is with u. Time will heal. You can message me paji, or the other paji/penji above if u need to talk. Waheguru...

Sorry paji, meri mat thori a. Could u explain to me why they do it in some gurdwaras as I don't know? I thought is was normal, maf karo je galat likea hove I will delete that bit.

Ur welcome penji, if anybody else wants to add something I may have missed please do. Sada Jai Bhagauti, nice post, sorry I didnt make it clear, by tea I meant, samoseh, pakoreh, etc for bhog, any food that is made.

Hi penji ask the gurdwara they will advise as to what to do. Some things that may help: 1. Clean and vacuum the house 2. Good ventilation, open windows doors to reduce the newly painted smell. 3. Clean bathroom toilets, place soap and clean towels. 4. No shoes in house, if there is access through back of house to garden allow sangat through that way, so the shoes don't get in the way near the front door if there is not space. 5. No obstructions in the room where Maharaj ji will be, we had some vases of flowers near them, but that's ur choice. 6. No meat, eggs, alcohol, cigarettes. 7. Make sure all cover their heads. 8. Make sure sangat listen to Sukhmani Sahib ji instead of being in other rooms. 9. Be present yourselves too as much as you can in presence of Maharaj ji. And be there for ardas, as sometimes one forgets trying to prepare langar. Don't take tension, but do in accordance to gurmat. And enjoy the day, Maharaj ji will be the best guest you will have, King of Kings will be coming to ur house, so make the most if it and listen with love and to their blessings. With Gurujis grace all will go well. Sukhmani Sahib ji , consoler of the mind. These links may also help: http://www.sikh24.com/2014/10/09/ten-protocols-to-follow-when-bringing-guru-granth-sahib-ji-home/#.VSfFcRh4WrU http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Sukhmani Waheguru

Hanji I was thinkin this too, they spent years doing bhagti. Waheguru

Hanji paji I understand what u are saying, that's why I deleted the high avastha Gurmukh post. But I'm not to judge I can only use th bit of logical sense and be protected from wrong path with Gurujis grace. I've just seen another very young pracharak video too, so I won't really comment on this topic. Suppose it will come down to ones own experience. Hanji may Waheguru protect the little one, and keep him at their charn.

I don't know his history or situation, all I saw is a young child who is praising God. Any person that praises God has my respect as long as it's not misleading. Thankuji. But Hanji u do have a point missedAsingh as long there is no diversion from the right path, and for own benefit. I guess only time will tell.

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It is called Dohra: "Agya bhai Akal ki tabhi chalayo Panth Sabh Sikhan ko hukam hai Guru manyo Granth Guru Granth Ji manyo pargat Guran ki deh Jo Prabhu ko milbo chahe khoj shabad mein le Raj karega Khalsa aqi rahei na koe Khwar hoe sabh milange bache sharan jo hoe." Translation: "Under orders of the Immortal Being, the Panth was created. All the Sikhs are enjoined to accept the Granth as their Guru. Consider the Guru Granth as embodiment of the Gurus. Those who want to meet God, can find Him in its hymns. The pure shall rule, and impure will be no more, Those separated will unite and all the devotees shall be saved." Source: http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Guru_Maneo_Granth

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You should not be frustrated at others fashion as one cannot change the way the world wishes to dress, but one can maintain themselves and thus will create awareness which will make others notice. Maybe from looking at you, they will have different view and think about changing their ways of dress. Noise, Hanji people do talk too much in diwan sometimes, but it's different atmosphere of sangat at different Gurdwaras. Yes go at times when it is quieter.

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Thanku paji so u put on wet hair or dry hair?

Is baby oil ok to use, I read somewhere it's not?Don't like conditioner, would oil give th same effect, should it be put on after shampoo or before?