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Bhai Kanhaiya (16481718), was a Sikh of Guru Tegh Bahadur and was requested to establish the Sevapanthi or Addanshahi order of the Sikhs by Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Bhai Sahib was born in a Dhamman Khatri family of Sodhara near Wazirabad in Sialkot district (now in Pakistan). His father was a wealthy trader, but he himself being of a religious bent left home when he was still very young and roamed about with saddhus and ascetics in search of spiritual peace. During his youth he also spent a lot of time in the company of Nanua Bairagi,[1][2] who was also a disciple and comrade of last three Sikh gurus. Nanua Bairagi was a renonwed poet-mystic of Punjab [3] and he left a deep imprint on Bhai Kanhaiya' spiritual and humanitarian outlook in his formative years. His quest ended as he met Guru Tegh Bahadur (162175) and accepted initiation at his hands. Kanhaiya established a dharamsdhal at Kavha village in the present Attock district of Pakistan which he turned into a preaching centre. His special mission was selfless service of humanity with no distinction of nationality, caste or creed. In 17045, he was on a visit to Anandpur when the city was invaded by a combination of hill troops and the imperial Mughal army. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhai_Kanhaiya

This Bhai Harinder Singh is great. I didn't used to listen to him properly when he came on TV. But this time I seem to be understand wat he said in his diwans on TV today. So weird, I loved listening to his diwan today. He has so much knowledge and explains so well, so that u understand. Great guy.

Simran721 Thanku for that, wow so nice.

From 1.27 onwards, lovely voice. He actually starts singing it from 1.17.

To Amtoj, did ur therapist not ask where th paper is? So u still have the paper with it written on? I'm not sure wat to say, but if I write something on paper that confirms something for me further, so I used to cross things I wrote out and rip up the paper and throw it away. I'm not saying thats wat u should do, but I felt better after and it helped me to think less about wat was on it. But u should go by wat ur therapist says, wat did they say about it, should u keep it or get rid of it? Did they give u any relaxation techniques? If u are having problems still, go back to ur doctor and tell them. Doctors have so many patients and so its up to us to go back and give them our feedback if something is not working so they can help with some other method. Also get ur bloods checked that may cause some of these symptoms. Hope it goes well. Ps: there is one paji on here that knows about this field and is very helpful. Maybe talk to him?

Penji is right it is infatuation, a crush, lust. You don't know him apart from seeing him at work. You have to think he is not yours, which he is not. Tell ur heart to be strong, do ChaupAi Sahib ji path for strength. Jealousy, (irakha ) is taking over. Think with ur head not ur heart. You can do it, don't give up every time ur heart feels that. Waheguru is seeing your control and commitment. Yes that u won't be with wrong guy and also you are being vunerable and letting feelings emotions (bhavna) take over. It's not ur fault you are young and at that age where u go through all these mixed emotions, and u have to show yourself you are strong and will not be led astray as people can take advantage of you also. Put ur trust in God, every time you get those feelings think you are a human being and so much more to think about and do instead of thinking about a guy. Have u tried doing Seva? If u put ur mind in other activities and talk to friends about other interests that will distract u from him. The thing is penji you are spending a lot of time thinking about him and her and u need to get out of that. What u are doing now is idolising him. It may not sound nice to hear but u got to think about yourself dear. You have a job and see you are doing something with ur life, focus on ur work, it's not easy him being there, this is the test though, you can do this, u can make ur heart strong, u have nothing to lose. Why worry over what isn't yours in the first place? Why do u feel like this? Maybe it's a blessing in disguise that's why u feel jealous, Gods showing you, giving u red flags so u don't hurt later on. Don't worry and relax, you have to learn as u grow and u will do it.

This is aarti. But I was looking for shabads or songs about them. Found few now.

Hanji penji, I seen it, but I'm looking for shabad as in singing one. Thanku for that thou.

Saw this n like it. Can't find any shabads on them, anybody help?

That's ok penji, calmed down. Thought u was havin a go at me. I'm sorry to for misunderstanding on my side.

And why even make a big deal out of wat I wrote? Why extend something that I did not write penji? I only tried to correct th country, so wat. It's like u are implying things to make me look bad. I don't even care wat u wrote coz u are trying to extend something which is not there and to upset me. So thanks for that penji.

And when did I say what u wrote? All I wrote was its Canada, when did I ever oppose the OP or agree with the contents?

My phone gone mad, keeps writing many times. I did wat penji? Wat do u mean by cut it? Wats that suppose to mean? I hope u are not implying something that I think u are.

It's not Uk Sikhs. Read it, I'm think it says Canada. It's not Uk Sikhs. Read it, I'm think it says Canada. It's not Uk Sikhs. Read it, I'm think it says Canada.

Publicity they did for. It's th entourage that made th fuss. And all th people when he was bathin cheering. How pathetic was that. Other videos of actors I seen visiting didn't create that much fuss.

If anybody knows any Sikh organisation that can help penji with her problems or any Sikh carers group please put details on here. Sorry I don't know them. But life with any disabilities and coping for ur loved ones is hard. Don't give up, I am sure there is help out there that would make life bit easier for u. Ur husband should not blame u. Have u tried Sikh helpline. http://www.sikhhelpline.com

Thanku SinghBj paji

I don't want anything, I'm just wondering why some people oppose families sitting together and how th separation all started, like th original poster.

Maybe, but I feel only families and those with disabilities or elders that cannot sit on their own should be allowed to sit in their groups if the kids cannot sit on own. All else should sit separate coz then there is risk of sitting next to strangers and can cause problems between males and females sitting together. That would be uncomfortable stranger girls and guys or men and women sitting together. Isn't this normally wat happens when families go together they sit together, but get divided into gender. If a family wants to sit together then why not? If they are to sit in there own group then how does it harmful? Has this always been from the Gurus times or when was it created?

If they could sit with their husbands imagine wat. It would be great, they should sit together and pray together, wats so wrong in that. Wat etc etc, ha ha u don't want families sitting together u don't want husband wife sittin together. Maybe this is why nobody absorbs anything, if they sit with their husbands wouldn't that stop th talking. I can't understand y people opposes to families sitting together, that should a gud thing right if a family prays together.

Penji is right, th more u split up kids to sit on their own, they won't want to go gurdwara. It's probably coz guys have it easy in our communities that's y women talk so much. I agree u should not talk in darbar sahib, but if somebody comes n greets u, it's very selfish to totally ignore them too. I see nothing wrong in that as long as u don't sit there talking for ages and doing chuglian loudly so it affects others concentration. They can talk in langar hall if they want to. Also men also do it not just women. I guess It is a social meeting place too for th elders, as they have nowhere else to go. Some people go for th social atmosphere as their lives are lonely or don't have families. Better than sitting at home and getting depressed.

I never said it was a social meeting place. Actually I do watch Sikh channels. No u are wrong, as there are people with disabilities who cannot sit on there own, like me now, so I would need somebody to sit with me, and no we would not be talking about home affairs. That's ur thinking only. Why can't a family sit together at the gurdwara. Nowhere does it say they can't unless u prove it. Next u will say if u can't sit on ur own u should not go to the gurdwara.I'm talking about people who r unable to sit on their own, not those that are able to.

Not all kids are th same and are hard to control. Kids r kids, obviously they r going to run around when they see big open space they probably think its is a play area. They cannot be educated until they are a certain age. Ok u have kids that will sit quietly but wat about th hyper ones. U can't force a kid to do something, only pyar will work at that age when they have just discovered how far they can get, and see their cute faces when they r smiling and laughing thinking they have achieved something. Some kids don't sit at home and run around Lots. Kids r kids, it's their growing up process, they don't know how until they get to that age where they can understand how to sit quietly, so it's neither parents fault. Even if they sit together I bet they will still be restless. I guess it depends on which part of punjab or India u are from, as I've never seen families sit together either. But if u go to visit the historical Gurdwaras, it's more likely seen there where families sit together when goin from abroad.