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http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/51477-how-to-make-degh/

This has been posted before. The southall one is old news. They are meditation chairs, but even I would not be able to sit on them as they are too low down. So not sure if they are suitable for disabled people either

How does dahi help the hair plz? Also don't wash with very warm water, luke warm. And try to comb hair before washing it as will loosen it up so its not tangly too much after washing and less falls out. Pat dry gently after, to keep moisture in.

Ur welcome ji, sometimes a simple search on the forum brings up queries.

Yes, but y use deception to get what u want? That's not right, to make out or convert urself to something u are not to please somebody is not wise either. Just say to them u don't believe in caste. Maybe they don't believe in caste marriages, there main concern should be the qualities of the boy, if he is the right one for their daughter rather than have bad habits. Caste is seen by some so there is no ancestral blood relations, they probably won't even care for caste, as long as their son in law of good character.

As u can see Mehtab paji is busy. Lol sirh khandh ch marda busy a....so I will give my opinion, if I may. So u decided to get married after few wks? So u realised caste would matter after few wks, but didn't before, and to confirm it she is going to ask her mom, coz she don't know if it matters and has remembered her family now? And if the mom says no, then is she going to dump you? And you want to lie to ur future in laws about ur caste, yeah great idea, they will respect u for that, " leh putt Sadi kudi Teri a, baut Changa jwai a sada, Sach da saath dinda, par ik gal ni Samj Ayi. Viah te putt jattan de gaiyi janda c".. ?. ? ? ?

If u don't want to go then don't. If u know you won't feel comfortable in that environment, then please urself only not friends, even if birthday. If he is a gud friend he will understand and won't mind. Weed alcohol all these things are no gud, there are other ways to celebrate, don't get distracted by peer group pressure. Be strong and stand for wat u believe in not follow others. If u follow u will be following for a long time, if u stand up for right things and goodness, people will learn from u. So ask ur self, do u want to be a follower or a man of pride ? U will get ur answer.

Which MP3? There is nothing there.

Found a previous link to this , hope it helps. http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/41771-ardaas-when-eating-langar/

Only the amritdhari brothers and sisters can answer this and share their experience. I feel it's very hard to be amritdhari and admire them for it. Some people say Guruji takes cares of all their problems, and life becomes easier. Has this happened with anybody? Full respect for amritdharis, of course they gain something otherwise they would not take it. Blessings maybe? My Mann says they are very lucky and this opportunity comes very rarely. It's probably the best gift one can have in life. As we on this earth are suppose to praise God, and taking Amrit is probably the closest one can connect better with God, but mehnat v karni hundi, jisda phal v mil sakda. I can only imagine as i am so far from taking it. Karma Walea nu Amrit milda. Anmol aa, it being priceless, precious, invaluable. Koi keemat ni payi jandi, Just like Waheguru. It can not be measured., as thinking y should it be taken for wat gain.

Wowwww just found it, it's Ravinder Grewal not Diljit Dosanjh. Thanks Simran penji..myself lolz

Finally got it uploaded, anybody know who sings this or have the full audio please? Volume needs to be put up to hear. PS: I don't work for Sangat TV, just want the audio thankuji..

Hi, I like a shabad or song on sangat TV advertising 4th anniversary, it goes like Bole so nihaal, Sat Sri Akaal, WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH... Does anybody know who sings it or have the audio link, can't seem to find it, thanks ji... Did video of it but can't upload. Sounds like Diljit Dosanjh but can't find it.

Oh ok thanks paji. Sorry Mehtab paji my misunderstanding.

Mehtab Singh ji I don't fall into any of the categories u mentioned, but thanks anyways for categorising us all as breeds. If she has come to the wrong place for advise why didn't u just lock the topic when u knew that instead of us wasting our time thinking we are trying to help somebody. And as for the OP, do what u want we only can advise not decide on ur life. As I said talk to ur family, and ur friends as they know u better. And yes Mehtab paji is right u have come to wrong place that's y I said don't make any decisions u will regret. But please paji come on we are all not as intelligent as u, some people do give good advise on here, I have received some good advice from people on here so would not class all same.

I forgot I didn't reply to OP. So where did u meet this guy? U only met a few times, thats quick to make a life long decision. Also a 30 min interview is too to decide too. I think it's ur first relationship and u have fell in love with him. He has no knowledge of ur background and cultural values or Sikhi. Ur parents thought they knew u better and trusted u would say yes as they chose who they thought is best for u. But they didn't know about this guy, and u should not marry somebody for the sake of it, u will be ruining the guys life too, and will end up in divorce. I'm wondering u do nitnem and attend sangat then wat made u divert from that company ? Looks like u have made ur decision, and a lot of people will be hurt, but think it through properly, think about after marriage, will he support u in ur hard times, and is he enough for u to leave ur family for. Don't do anything in anger or thinking u have no choice of who to marry. Explain to ur parents as it's not fair on them either, and sit down and talk it through, that u can't marry just anybody after 30 mins after knowing them. Maybe u haven't met a Sikh guy, that's y u are going for first choice with that guy. Don't make any decisions u will regret later in life.

Yes u are right paaji.

Instead of saying goreh this that y can't u be happy for jkvlondon? Her husband has accepted the Sikh faith and look how passionate he is about it. Actually Sikh guys r fussy too when it comes to choosing girls. It's both ways. Je Goria memaa nu Gursikh pasand aunde, gore mundea nu changia Sikh kuriaa kio ni pasand a sakdia. Why is it one rule for the guys n another for the girls. Even guys want the perfect wife, not just to say to girls is right. I noticed this if a gori Marrys a guy no big deal they are welcomed but if it's a gora marrying a girl then the girl is belittled. why? Where's the equality? btw you look from london and I don't think I should tell you what sikh girls are getting over here......."name and shame" both.. Not just London, India too. Girls from punjab don't exactly want to get to turban guys, they are probably same thinking as uk girls. I also seen a lot of girls from punjab that don't care wat their husband is just to go abroad. It's happening everywhere not just London. We can't say only one side is when faults are on both.

Sorry to hear about ur friend paji, the gurdwaras should have helped. I guess it's real hard to find a saint.

Good ways to deal with it Usernametaken penji. Thanku for those ideas, I could do with using them.

I am not who u should be asking about hospitals for the poor. I don't know why. Like MokhamSingh paji says maybe somebody could tell u where they are. Nris do as much as they can to help poor people and I'm sure u will get the answers.

Well this world is a big place with a lot of people, not thousands, millions and more. What u are saying would be very difficult to organise.

Elders sometimes forget things, it's not their fault, it comes with age and cognitive problems. U have done right by the system of giving them to her when she needs them. When u have all of them, maybe u could also sit with her and do paat together. When she sees u joining in with her then she will feel not alone, and my help her to take care more. Maybe listen to her as she reads. Don't get angry with ur grandma, persuade her with pyar and gentleness. Elders become like children when they get old, so hauli hauli respect nal.

Thanku for ur blessings Drummer paji, u are right I don't know much. But have experienced the bitterness of it.

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