Fateh Jee,
Prior to receiving Amrit, I went to my prom and it was definitely a night to remember! it was so good to see all of our year group get on so well, mix and be jolly for the last time together. Yes Alcohol was taken secretly, quite standardly for manmukhs...but no one forced it down my throat! I just kept a bottle of water with me at all times!! The main issue is that YES people are going to be doing kalyugi things, but we have to remain out of that and know when to stop. You cant stop socialising with family and friends...Its like a tree in a really bad thunderstorm...The wind will push against the tree, and it will bend accordingly, but if it is in its own EGO, then the wind will snap it because its so stuck up!!!
Recently i've been blessed with Amrit, and yeah I have friends who drink and eat meat...Dont tend to socialise with them tooooo much...still try to find good sangat or even with the manmukhs, start a religious convo...they ask me to go out, but NOW I refuse to, because Guru Jee is much more important that nights out!!! But if its for like a meal, if your keeping Gurmat Bibek, then you shouldn't really eat out! But i still go, take a drink with you, sit with them and have a good laugh and a joke...doesnt mean your eating meat or drinking alcohol if your in that atmosphere for like an hour!!
Baaki, do ARDAAS and do what YOU feel is RIGHT for YOU!!! May Maharaaj guide you and bless His Divine Light upon you :D
GurFateh!
