I was hoping that the sangat could clear up some confusion. Being proud of oneself, or having ego is not the Sikhi way of life. Putting down others or belittling them is wrong, right? But, what if the person deserves to be put down? For example, a criminal , theif, rapist, *greedy politician* etc. Could you bad mouth them and their actions? Is a Sikh also not supposed to let negative comments about them get to them? In other words, if someone talks negatively about you, should you let it get to you and avenge the comments, or should you remain neutral and not let the remarks get to you? If you remain neutral, isn't that sort of letting the person stomp all over you? Is there such a thing as standing up for your rights? Thanks.