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http://www.nihangsingh.org/website/mm-santa.html By: Baba Santa Singh Giani Mehtab Singh Giani Shere Singh Baba Nihal Singh Baba Maan Singh Joga Singh Jogi Baba Tarlok Singh

http://www.nihangsingh.org/website/mm-mehtabs.html Das Granthi Sri Jaap Sahib Akaal Ustat Bachittar Natak Chandi Charitar Chandi Di Vaar Shabad Hazare Patshahi Dasvi 33 Suvayie Kalaki Suvayie Baarahmaha Misar Parrat Karninaama Bhagauti Astother Barahm Kawach Khalsa Mool Mantar Khalsa Rehitnama Shastar Naam Mala Ugardanti Naseehat Nama

To add... Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Tandewale Sant Baba Karam Singh ji Hoti mardan Sant Baba Mihan Singh ji Siaar wale Sant Baba Beeram Das ji (Guru Gobind Singh Ji's Mama ji) Sant Baba Puran Das Ji Sant Baba Harnam Singh ji Rampurkherha Sant Baba Sukhdev Singh ji Alhoran wale Sant Baba Aaya Singh ji Sant Nand Singh ji (Tibbi Sahib) Sant Baba Jassa singh ji (Tibbi Sahib) Bhai Sahib Bhai Veer Singh ji Giani Ditt Singh Bhai Raghveer Singh Bir Bhai Kahn Singh Nabha

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^^ with no hard feelings waheguru ji.......apne maa peo te rishte nu khuleaam bina kush jaane bujhe tukean naal likhna koi sikha vali gal nahi.......kine k lok honge jehrhe apne sake ma peo ya apne te apni wife de personal rishte nu khuleaam dasange...............te ethe ta aapna Guru sahib di gal kar rahe yaar...... I am done ....this might not be sensitive for some people.....but for some it is......

I hate to write this....coz I am nobody to say that....but after reading comments on this I feel really out of everything......feel like something inside me is tearing apart...... All Guru ji's never had a normal materialistic type "husband wife" relations......all Guru ji's were born because of "simran" and "sewa" done by mata ji's.........and the physical body was created by "maya" and Akaal purkh ji's jot entered the physical body after it was born............ all Guru sahiban were above maya or all gun/avgun of maya.....For eg. Guru Nanak Dev ji gave ilaichi parshaad to bebe Nanaki ji after she asked for a child for Mata Sulakhani ji....then Mata Ganga ji did sewa of Baba Budha ji for Guru Hargobind Singh sahib ji......then Guru Gobind Singh ji asked Mata Sunder Kaur ji to do sewa of sangat to get "laal"..... .......now there are no proofs on whatever is posted above ....but it's upto every individual how much they know their beloved Guru ji.... Mods please do lock this if it turns to negative side... bhul chuk maaf

waheguru ji the way your posts are coming on this topic is very hurting.......that women did not get attracted to Guru sahib.......that was Mata Sahib Kaur ji.......her Gursikhs parents wanted to surrender or submit (whatever word) to Guru sahib from the time she was born....... and Mata Gujri Ji and Guru sahib could not deny the rishta because of the Gursikhs love and faith... Mata ji had spent their entire life for Guru ji ...doing path, sewa and simran and Mata ji was treated as Guru mehal even in their peka ghar as the parents had already surrendered her to Guru ji from their hearts and respected her as Guru mehal not as a normal daughter.....and in those days the character of Gursikhs was very very high.....ik baar jo Guru sahib layi bachan kita ya jo Guru sahib nu bhent kita....(for sue sikh can't give anything to Guru ji, but in materialistic sense) they followed it their entire life.....not like todays sikh aaj haan kehti kaalon chal shad.........................................please please please do watch your language as this is a very sensitive topic.......

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I know it's a serious topic....and emotional one.....but there's a limit to a limit......I hate to write this but you do their danda pared, your mother in law (if you know he won't repent or give you happiness the rest of your life) ......and then get divorce if nothing improves.... what danda pared would do is.......your sorrow and heaviness on heart would get poured out..they'll realize how much you have been tormented that you have taken this step....and lastly they won't do this with any other girl......I know it's very easy for me to say..and hurting for you.my apologies for that....but you already have been toutured to more than extent...... a true relation is where anyone of you can't see even a tear in others eye......

It should be ok....there are cases eher 2 brothers marry 2 sisters or a brother sister marry another brother sister......talk to your parents and he should talk to his(if they think it's a good match)..... savinderpal ji....the guy is her bhabhi ji's bhua's son...not her bhua's son......different blood stream.....

^^ waheguru ji......if you wish......2 parchia paalo....yes or no....you can be together or not......and whatever is the outcome just follow it.....because God is watching and nobody knows why this happening, if it's right or wrong......only HE can help you....if HE wants you two to be together, no body can seperate you.....but be ready for the other option as well...... do parchia thing only if you have strengh to follow, otherwise keep doing path and ardas.......HE will do what HE wants......no jaadu tona can stop HIM......

^^ waheguru ji don't push sikhi or religion on yourself......sehaj naal....... no true mahapurkh take money.........they are just the light of God.....it's an individual journey,,,,,,,, but from my personal experience to have a mahapurkh as a back up is a must must thing in kalyug.......but it should be true from your heart.....some people are so against mahapurkh...that don't do matha tek......why. why not...... now lets take your example...I assume you don't do sangat of any mahapurkh.....correct me if I am wrong.....and you are pushing sikhism on yourself very hardly.......aa ni karna...o ni karna...all these do don'ts at some point will make your mind fed up from sikhi....... now one of my friend...don't do path or anything but just love a mahapurkh from heart, can do anything for him.....does sewa whenever he meets him and obeys his bachans...that's all.....dukhs do come to him, but he manages to get through them just because of mahapurkh ji as he is taking care of him..........now mahapurkh ji never say menu matha tek, paise de, mein guru aa.....no no no.....he always paraise Guru sahiban and says "guru bhala kare or satgur ne karna"......they actually bring you closer to waheguru ji....... life totally change.....i personally feel people not having any mahapurkh ji's sangat as anaath.....no offence to anyone....because mahapurkh rab de puttar hunde ne......je mahapurkh na hon te rab aut ho jawe..meaning barren.......because relative don't care....and like you and other people keep doing path but at some point get fed up because they don't see any improvement...now question is where do you go....you go to mahapurkh because they are already connected and resolve our problem because we can't talk to God so conveniently because of low spiritual level.......mahapurkh are here for nothing more than to help us reach higher levels...... two options available - mahapurkha di charan doorhi mathe te laake bure karma nu door karna......ye tablet lani te ikele rona.......... I'ld certainly prefer the first and the easiest option,,,,,,mahapurkha kol jaake tension koi ni hundi...rakhe ya maare onu pata....odeyan di onu laaj....dharamraaj kol jaake bas ena hi kehna "kindly deal with my lawyer"

waheguru ji.....when we sometimes give suggestion or advise to people specifically about religion or humanity, 99 % thinks "oo...I know everything, who the hell are you to tell me......"....you can actually see their face expressions and figure out that you have just ended up wasting your time.........and it had happened to me several time always eneded up looking like a stupid...people actually don't want to talk about th religion.....if we visit someone on lunch or dinner...they'll do chugli, ninda, mazaak everything...as soon as someone starts about religion....noboby jumps in positively ..but pour in ninda, ninda and ninda of sants or anything that THEY think is not right.....even though they know nothing in reality.... so I have now stopped offering unwanted suggestions with relatives....coz in real life all realtives are jealous of eachother for some reason or other,,,,,,,,, I've no seyane in house waheguru ji (with aspect to religion) these seyane want you to be sikh but in limits "oh you can't have dastaar on, and khanda on it ....no way.....just wear patka or something...oh you donated this much...tenu pata future ch ghar kiwein chaluna...etc etc"..they don't understand ke Guru ji will do everything.......... so I just listened Giani Thakur Singh ji, Bhai Guriqbal singh ji and mahapurkh deewan..........the best sangat....

waheguru ji....pehli gal ta je kise nu bina mangeya hi slaaha deyi jaoo....ona ne karna katrana kuch ni hunda ni....upar chi kehnde ne eh apne aap nu jada religious samjhada......kai loki ta ehi soch ke chup kar jande ne..... is layi syanap ise vich hei ke je kise vich koi gun dikhda hai te chup kar ke usnu grehan kar lao....don't wait or complain.....

yes waheguru ji......keep it going all te time......it'll change the environment of your sorroundings first..... For example.....when there's a sick person a room....the room and patient smells bad due to the existence of germs.......same here.....the positive waves of continous path will change the atomospher to the positive side.....same liek the sarovar in the gurdwras can cure several diseases due to the continuity of the path and keertan,.,,,,,,, some people says it's beadbi if you won't listen to it...I personally don't think so...we are kalyugi jeev....not very spiritual who can concentrate fully...odan vi tan saari kayanaat waheguru da naam literally jap rahi hai par aapan nu nai sunda kyonke othe tak paunche hi nahin..... ...is layi je 24 ghanteya vichon...ik pankti vi mann ne sun layi....waheguru ji di kirpa naal oh apne aap hi hor sunan lag javega te sab kuch badlan lag janda........don't push it on yourself otherwise your mind will try to run away from it....take it easy but do ardas........another benefit je kise hor na sun leya oda bhala ta hona hi hai..you'll get the commission as well.....punn ban jana jehrge bad karma nu saarhde ne..... If you can read books......apart from this playing.......read Bhai Guriqbal Dingh ji kaulsarwale's "Sukhamni sahib diyan visheshtayiaan" or it has a recorded version as well....if you want to try.....below is the link.......I am not asking you to act on what Bhai sahib is saying...just listen to what he's saying..so many today's real life incidents.......Guru bhalla kare http://www.sikhsangeet.com/albumid447-Guriqbal-Singh-(Gurdwara-Mata-Kaulan-Amritsar-Wale)-Sri-Sukhmani-Sahib-Ji-Diyan-Visheshtaian.html

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we all are very relieved to see that you have left it upto HIM.....HE will take care of you......Dhan Dhan Baba Nand Singh ji de bechan han ke sikh ardas kare ke Guru ji kade parcha na paun....kyonki Guru parcha pawe te koi paas nahin ho sakda.....sirf oh apne aap hi sikh nu paas kar sakda hai...sikh ch koi himmat nahin....sometimes....a little bit of ego makes us go through sufferings.... and you don't have to be sorry......waheguru ji hamesha sab de ang sang hunde han.....

OP...keep doing path and do ardas but not for black magic or getting her back or anything else.....but pray that waheguru should keep you in HIS bhana and do what ever is good for you.....and only HE knows what is good for you.....neither you or pandit nor the rest of us here know that.......

sorry if that was rude waheguru ji...no intention to hurt you........ there are people who only eat once a day......there are people who beg everyday......then there are people who are orphan....no parents........ there are people sleeping on roads............there are girls who get rapped everyday......there are handicap or disable people on roads and in houses who have become a burden on other family members .......personally I know a family where an old man is over 105 of age and 6.0" height and does everything like an infant........his son and daughter in law...go to work and take care of him......their laundry is going on 24/7........their life is miserable ...... If you think of these people and compare with yourself...your heart will automatically thank God and be in peace for not being in one of those situations..... Guru ji has provided us with loving parents, house, money, good health - koi hath pair ni tuteya......food and more than enough for us........instead of thanking HIM for these gifts...we keep concentrating on some unwanted stuff that we have got due to our own karams,,,,,,, what if HE takes away any of these gifts......coz we don't appreciate them......what will or can we do then? And jaado-tona....some people do that.....but it depends on us to make it work or not.....if we keep thinking that somebody has done jaadu-tona on me and things are going worng....then this is bound to happen as you are attracting it................the only way to get rid of this is to think nobody has done anything...it's just a bad phase of life...will pass by time.......for eg... whensomeone give us a gift and we don't need it for any reason and return it....it goes back to him......same applies to jaadu tona .......done't care about it .......what ever is happening let it happen....you can't control it....then leave it....you should worry about only those things that you have control over.........jithe kuch kar hi nahin sakde.....hun marna thodi aa......enia joona bhog ke barhi mushkil naal manukha janam mileya....oh vi je suicide karke gwa leya.....koi fayeda ni..... You want to suicide...but make sure you know what will you get from it...and when you are born again in manukha janam after joonis or without going through them) where would you start from....I am nobody to tell you...but think you'll start from where you had left,,,,,,,so you'll end up getting in the same situation again..you have to work out to get over this.......so why not do it in this janam.....why waste time till next one.....you might not get all these valuable gifts then that you have now......situations might get even worse then,,....Please do think and compare the situation with your current one and then think if suicide is worth anything or not ? yaar je marna ee hai ta kurbani deke maro.....1984 de kaatla nu maar ke maro....at least eh body kise de kam ta aaoo, kise da bhala ta houu.......fokat ch kaade layi marna..... Thank HIM for what he has given you........do any of the following as many members have advised you..... Do path, if not then play it in your house/car 24/7 Do sangat Do sewa Read books watch comedy movies.....children playing,,,or play with children.......God has much more to give you ...just open up your arms for HIM........ ok I've said enough now...waheguru bhala kare...my apoligies if anything above hurt anyone....no intentions.....

Please let the OP answer first....it's not to offend anyone......

This is actually true......even devi devte wants to be born as "sikhs"........" teerath vi lochde santa di dhoorhi taayin" devi devte is just a "post" or "position"...anyone can do bhagti with that intention and can become devi devta of his/her own choice...........(sorry for being out of topic)

couple of questions,,,,,, Do you own/live in a house? Is anyone in your house handicap / disable? Do you have problem getting two ends meal?

waheguru ji....start doing sewa in gurudwara if you can't do path....and reading books....many books available here in Books section.......I would suggest sart by reading Bhai Sahib Bhai Veer Singh ji's "Satwant Kaur".......amazing grip for you wandering soul........

waheguru ji......start playing sukhmani sahib ji's path in your house..24/7.........

I'm nobody to judge you but it seems like you are more scared of bad atmas than the guilt of breaking Amrit.......doesn't metter if it's a guy guy or girl girl or guy girl...kaam is kaam....which is provoking you to do it........do ardas, apologize and do path at least once (if you wish) before you go to sleep and morning as many times as you want....... Ang 617 - Raag Sorath: Guru Arjan Dev Start with Mool Manter, say "pauri" then shabad ਸੋਰਠਿ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥ ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਲੋਭ ਝੂਠ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਇਨ ਤੇ ਆਪਿ ਛਡਾਵਹੁ ॥ ਇਹ ਭੀਤਰ ਤੇ ਇਨ ਕਉ ਡਾਰਹੁ ਆਪਨ ਨਿਕਟਿ ਬੁਲਾਵਹੁ ॥੧॥ ਅਪੁਨੀ ਬਿਧਿ ਆਪਿ ਜਨਾਵਹੁ ॥ ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਮੰਗਲ ਗਾਵਹੁ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ ਬਿਸਰੁ ਨਾਹੀ ਕਬਹੂ ਹੀਏ ਤੇ ਇਹ ਬਿਧਿ ਮਨ ਮਹਿ ਪਾਵਹੁ ॥ ਗੁਰੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਭੇਟਿਓ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਕਤਹਿ ਨ ਧਾਵਹੁ ॥੨॥੩॥੩੧॥ end with mool manter bhul chuk maaf