the names of the panj pyare show it too. Bhai Daya Singh, Bahi Dharam Singh, Bhai Himmat singh, Bhai Muhkam Singh, Bhai Sahib Singh
so first daya or love and compassion, then dharam a righteous living, and then courage, then a leader, and then last is sahib or master.
so first love compassion and understanding is needed, not be a ruler and master or soldier first and then try for being a compasionate person, only a sant can give the 1st qualities.