Wingz23

Please see a doctor.... Also there are creams they can prescribe

Hey Bro... Can I just say usually the ones who are the quietest are the ones who have most to offer and are the ones i find intresting, Dont ever lose that part of yourself... Well Done on completing studies its not that easy these days Fateh :respect: :respect: :respect:

I always used to feel like that... Maybe you just need to read a little bit of gurbani, Random things are the best, Thats what worked for me... Try a site called kirtan lovers... theres alot of gurbani on there...I rember listening to kirtan... PLaying outloud in my room... It gives you something to think about becuase you want to know what the menaing of the shabad is... Thats always somewhere to start... Theres something missing in your life... I think you have taken a very good step by coming onto the forum and asking sangat... Its Mahraj Your missing and kirtan is your Way to start :respect: Welcome :giggle:

Is That what doctors Do nowadays? High 5 :D

I think you should move out... This is about you starting a new family with your husband and child... Live for Yourself and not for Your In Laws... You Deserve More :respect: :respect:

Check this Site out http://www.sikhwomen.com/SikhNames/a.htm Good Luck with your Book

gond mehlaa 4. Gond, Fourth Mehl: aisaa har sayvee-ai nit Dhi-aa-ee-ai jo khin meh kilvikh sabh karay binaasaa. Serve such a Lord, and ever meditate on Him, who in an instant erases all sins and mistakes. jay har ti-aag avar kee aas keejai taa har nihfal sabh ghaal gavaasaa. If someone forsakes the Lord and places his hopes in another, then all his service to the Lord is rendered fruitless. mayray man har sayvihu sukh- daata su-aamee jis sayvi-ai sabh bhukh lahaasaa. ||1|| O my mind, serve the Lord, the Giver of peace; serving Him, all your hunger shall depart. ||1|| mayray man har oopar keejai bharvaasaa. O my mind, place your faith in the Lord. jah jaa-ee-ai tah naal mayraa su- aamee har apnee paij rakhai jan daasaa. ||1|| rahaa-o. Wherever I go, my Lord and Master is there with me. The Lord saves the honor of His humble servants and slaves. ||1||Pause|| jay apnee birthaa kahhu avraa peh taa aagai apnee birthaa baho bahut kadhaasaa. If you tell your sorrows to another, then he, in return, will tell you of his greater sorrows. apnee birthaa kahhu har apunay su-aamee peh jo tumHray dookh tatkaal kataasaa. So tell your sorrows to the Lord, your Lord and Master, who shall instantly dispel your pain. so aisaa parabh chhod apnee birthaa avraa peh kahee-ai avraa peh kahi man laaj maraasaa. ||2|| Forsaking such a Lord God, if you tell your sorrows to another, then you shall die of shame. ||2|| jo sansaarai kay kutamb mitar bhaa-ee deeseh man mayray tay sabh apnai su-aa-ay milaasaa. The relatives, friends and siblings of the world that you see, O my mind, all meet with you for their own purposes. jit din unH kaa su-aa-o ho-ay na aavai <banned word filter activated> din nayrhai ko na dhukaasaa. And that day, when their self-interests are not served, on that day, they shall not come near you. man mayray apnaa har sayv din raatee jo tuDh upkarai dookh sukhaasaa. ||3|| O my mind, serve your Lord, day and night; He shall help you in good times and bad. ||3|| tis kaa bharvaasaa ki-o keejai man mayray jo antee a-osar rakh na sakaasaa. Why place your faith in anyone, O my mind, who cannot come to your rescue at the last instant? har jap mant gur updays lai jaapahu tinH ant chhadaa-ay jinH har pareet chitaasaa. Chant the Lord's Mantra, take the Guru's Teachings, and meditate on Him. In the end, the Lord saves those who love Him in their consciousness. jan naanak an-din naam japahu har santahu ih chhootan kaa saachaa bharvaasaa. ||4||2|| Servant Nanak speaks: night and day, chant the Lord's Name, O Saints; this is the only true hope for emancipation. ||4||2|| raag dayvganDhaaree mehlaa 9. Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree, Ninth Mehl: yeh man naik na kahi-o karai. This mind does not follow my advice one tiny bit. seekh sikhaa-ay rahi-o apnee see durmat tay na tarai. ||1|| rahaa-o. I am so tired of giving it instructions - it will not refrain from its evil-mindedness. ||1||Pause|| mad maa-i-aa kai bha-i-o baavro har jas neh uchrai. It has gone insane with the intoxication of Maya; it does not chant the Lord's Praise. kar parpanch jagat ka-o dahkai apno udar bharai. ||1|| Practicing deception, it tries to cheat the world, and so it fills its belly. ||1|| su-aan poochh ji-o ho-ay na sooDho kahi-o na kaan Dharai. Like a dog's tail, it cannot be straightened; it will not listen to what I tell it. kaho naanak bhaj raam naam nit jaa tay kaaj sarai. ||2||1|| Says Nanak, vibrate forever the Name of the Lord, and all your affairs shall be adjusted. ||2||1||

kaam karoDh mohi vas kee-aa kirpan lobh pi-aar. When you are under the power of sexual desire, anger and worldly attachment, or a greedy miser in love with your wealth; chaaray kilvikh un agh kee-ay ho- aa asur sanghaar. if you have committed the four great sins and other mistakes; even if you are a murderous fiend pothee geet kavit kichh kaday na karan Dhari-aa. who has never taken the time to listen to sacred books, hymns and poetry chit aavai os paarbarahm taa nimakh simrat tari-aa. ||4|| -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, and contemplate Him, even for a moment, you shall be saved. ||4||

aasaa || Aasaa: ਸੁਤੁ ਅਪਰਾਧ ਕਰਤ ਹੈ ਜੇਤੇ ॥ suth aparaadhh karath hai jaethae || As many mistakes as the son commits, ਜਨਨੀ ਚੀਤਿ ਨ ਰਾਖਸਿ ਤੇਤੇ ॥੧॥ jananee cheeth n raakhas thaethae ||1|| his mother does not hold them against him in her mind. ||1|| ਰਾਮਈਆ ਹਉ ਬਾਰਿਕੁ ਤੇਰਾ ॥ raameeaa ho baarik thaeraa || O Lord, I am Your child. ਕਾਹੇ ਨ ਖੰਡਸਿ ਅਵਗਨੁ ਮੇਰਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ kaahae n khanddas avagan maeraa ||1|| rehaao || Why not destroy my sins? ||1||Pause|| ਜੇ ਅਤਿ ਕ੍ਰੋਪ ਕਰੇ ਕਰਿ ਧਾਇਆ ॥ jae ath krop karae kar dhhaaeiaa || If the son, in anger, runs away, ਤਾ ਭੀ ਚੀਤਿ ਨ ਰਾਖਸਿ ਮਾਇਆ ॥੨॥ thaa bhee cheeth n raakhas maaeiaa ||2|| even then, his mother does not hold it against him in her mind. ||2|| ਚਿੰਤ ਭਵਨਿ ਮਨੁ ਪਰਿਓ ਹਮਾਰਾ ॥ chinth bhavan man pariou hamaaraa || My mind has fallen into the whirlpool of anxiety. ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨਾ ਕੈਸੇ ਉਤਰਸਿ ਪਾਰਾ ॥੩॥ naam binaa kaisae outharas paaraa ||3|| Without the Naam, how can I cross over to the other side? ||3|| ਦੇਹਿ ਬਿਮਲ ਮਤਿ ਸਦਾ ਸਰੀਰਾ ॥ dhaehi bimal math sadhaa sareeraa || Please, bless my body with pure and lasting understanding, Lord; ਸਹਜਿ ਸਹਜਿ ਗੁਨ ਰਵੈ ਕਬੀਰਾ ॥੪॥੩॥੧੨॥ sehaj sehaj gun ravai kabeeraa ||4||3||12|| in peace and poise, Kabeer chants the Praises of the Lord. ||4||3||12|| Ang 478, Sant Kabir Ramiyaa

At Preetam Man Mohnaa Ghat Sohnaa Paraan Adhaaraa Raam, He is dear to me; He fascinates my mind; He is the ornament of my heart, the support of the breath of life. Sundar Sobhaa Laal Gopaal Daiaal Kee Apar Apaaraa Raam, The Glory of the Beloved, Merciful Lord of the Universe is beautiful; He is infinite and without limit. Gopaal Dayaal Gobind Laalan Milhu Kant Nimaaneeaa, O Compassionate Sustainer of the World, Beloved Lord of the Universe, please, join with Your humble soul-bride. Nain Tarsan Daras Parsan Nah Need Rain Vihaaneeaa, My eyes long for the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan; the night passes, but I cannot sleep. Giaan Anjan Naam Binjan Bhaay Sagal Seegaaraa. I have applied the healing ointment of spiritual wisdom to my eyes; the Naam, the Name of the Lord, is my food. These are all my decorations. Naanak Paiampai Sant Jampai Mayl Kant Hamaaraa ||1|| Prays Nanak, let's meditate on the Saint, that he may unite us with our Husband Lord. ||1||

Fateh Sangat I was wondering, maybe we could turn this into a shabad post.. Maybe everyone could post their favorite shabads on here, no matter how big or long , In written form :respect: WJKK WJKF

saahib nitaani-aa kaa taan sireeraag mehlaa 5. Siree Raag, Fifth Mehl: jaa ka-o muskal at banai dho-ee ko-ay na day-ay. When you are confronted with terrible hardships, and no one offers you any support, laagoo ho-ay dusmanaa saak bhe bhaj khalay. when your friends turn into enemies, and even your relatives have deserted you, sabho bhajai aasraa chukai sabh asraa-o. and when all support has given way, and all hope has been lost chit aavai os paarbarahm lagai na tatee vaa-o. ||1|| -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, even the hot wind shall not touch you. ||1|| saahib nitaani-aa kaa taan. Our Lord and Master is the Power of the powerless. aa-ay na jaa-ee thir sadaa gur sabdee sach jaan. ||1|| rahaa-o. He does not come or go; He is Eternal and Permanent. Through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, He is known as True. ||1||Pause|| jay ko hovai dublaa nang bhukh kee peer. If you are weakened by the pains of hunger and poverty, damrhaa palai naa pavai naa ko dayvai Dheer. with no money in your pockets, and no one will give you any comfort, su-aarath su-aa-o na ko karay naa kichh hovai kaaj. and no one will satisfy your hopes and desires, and none of your works is accomplished chit aavai os paarbarahm taa nihchal hovai raaj. ||2|| -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall obtain the eternal kingdom. ||2|| jaa ka-o chintaa bahut bahut dayhee vi-aapai rog. When you are plagued by great and excessive anxiety, and diseases of the body; garisat kutamb palayti-aa kaday harakh kaday sog. when you are wrapped up in the attachments of household and family, sometimes feeling joy, and then other times sorrow; ga-on karay chahu kunt kaa gharhee na baisan so-ay. when you are wandering around in all four directions, and you cannot sit or sleep even for a moment chit aavai os paarbarahm tan man seetal ho-ay. ||3|| -if you come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then your body and mind shall be cooled and soothed. ||3|| kaam karoDh mohi vas kee-aa kirpan lobh pi-aar. When you are under the power of sexual desire, anger and worldly attachment, or a greedy miser in love with your wealth; chaaray kilvikh un agh kee-ay ho- aa asur sanghaar. if you have committed the four great sins and other mistakes; even if you are a murderous fiend pothee geet kavit kichh kaday na karan Dhari-aa. who has never taken the time to listen to sacred books, hymns and poetry chit aavai os paarbarahm taa nimakh simrat tari-aa. ||4|| -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, and contemplate Him, even for a moment, you shall be saved. ||4|| saasat simrit bayd chaar mukhaagar bichray. People may recite by heart the Shaastras, the Simritees and the four Vedas; tapay tapeesar jogee-aa tirath gavan karay. they may be ascetics, great, self-disciplined Yogis; they may visit sacred shrines of pilgrimage khat karmaa tay dugunai poojaa kartaa naa-ay. and perform the six ceremonial rituals, over and over again, performing worship services and ritual bathings. rang na lagee paarbarahm taa sarpar narkay jaa-ay. ||5|| Even so, if they have not embraced love for the Supreme Lord God, then they shall surely go to hell. ||5|| raaj milak sikdaaree-aa ras bhogan bisthaar. You may possess empires, vast estates, authority over others, and the enjoyment of myriads of pleasures; baag suhaavay sohnay chalai hukam afaar. you may have delightful and beautiful gardens, and issue unquestioned commands; rang tamaasay baho biDhee chaa- ay lag rahi-aa. you may have enjoyments and entertainments of all sorts and kinds, and continue to enjoy exciting pleasures bahut Dhanaadh achaarvant sobhaa nirmal reet. You may possess vast riches, maintain virtuous conduct, have a spotless reputation and observe religious customs; maat pitaa sut bhaa-ee-aa saajan sang pareet. you may have the loving affections of mother, father, children, siblings and friends; laskar tarkasband band jee-o jee-o saglee keet. you may have armies well-equipped with weapons, and all may salute you with respect; chit na aa-i-o paarbarahm taa kharh rasaatal deet. ||7|| But still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then you shall be taken and consigned to the most hideous hell! ||7|| kaa-i-aa rog na chhidar kichh naa kichh kaarhaa sog. You may have a body free of disease and deformity, and have no worries or grief at all; mirat na aavee chit tis ahinis bhogai bhog. you may be unmindful of death, and night and day revel in pleasures; sabh kichh keeton aapnaa jee-ay na sank Dhari-aa. you may take everything as your own, and have no fear in your mind at all; chit na aa-i-o paarbarahm jamkankar vas pari-aa. ||8|| but still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall fall under the power of the Messenger of Death. ||8|| kirpaa karay jis paarbarahm hovai saaDhoo sang. The Supreme Lord showers His Mercy, and we find the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy. ji-o ji-o oh vaDhaa-ee-ai ti-o ti-o har si-o rang. The more time we spend there, the more we come to love the Lord. duhaa siri-aa kaa khasam aap avar na doojaa thaa-o. The Lord is the Master of both worlds; there is no other place of rest. satgur tuthai paa-i-aa naanak sachaa naa-o. ||9||1||26|| When the True Guru is pleased and satisfied, O Nanak, the True Name is obtained. ||9||1||26|| FATEH

Read This When you are confronted with terrible hardships, and no one offers you any support, when your friends turn into enemies, and even your relatives have deserted you, and when all support has given way, and all hope has been lost -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, even the hot wind shall not touch you. ||1|| Lord and Master is the Power of the powerless. He does not come or go; He is Eternal and Permanent. Through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, He is known as True. ||1||Pause|| If you are weakened by the pains of hunger and poverty,with no money in your pockets, and no one will give you any comfort and no one will satisfy your hopes and desires, and none of your works is accomplished -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall obtain the eternal kingdom. ||2|| When you are plagued by great and excessive anxiety, and diseases of the body; when you are wrapped up in the attachments of household and family, sometimes when you are wandering around in all four directions, and you cannot sit or sleep even for a moment -if you come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then your body and mind shall be cooled and soothed. ||3|| When you are under the power of sexual desire, anger and worldly attachment, or a greedy miser in love with your wealth; if you have committed the four great sins and other mistakes; even if you are a murderous fiend who has never taken the time to listen to sacred books, hymns and poetry -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, and contemplate Him, even for a moment, you shall be saved. ||4|| People may recite by heart the Shaastras, the Simritees and the four Vedas; they may be ascetics, great, self-disciplined Yogis; they may visit sacred shrines of pilgrimage and perform the six ceremonial rituals, over and over again, performing worship services and ritual bathings. Even so, if they have not embraced love for the Supreme Lord God, then they shall surely go to hell. ||5|| You may possess empires, vast estates, authority over others, and the enjoyment of myriads of pleasures; you may have delightful and beautiful gardens, and issue unquestioned commands;you may have enjoyments and entertainments of all sorts and kinds, and continue to enjoy exciting pleasures -and yet, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall be reincarnated as a snake. ||6|| You may possess vast riches, maintain virtuous conduct, have a spotless reputation and observe religious customs; you may have the loving affections of mother, father, children, siblings and friends; you may have armies well-equipped with weapons, and all may salute you with respect; But still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then you shall be taken and consigned to the most hideous hell! ||7|| You may have a body free of disease and deformity, and have no worries or grief at all; you may be unmindful of death, and night and day revel in pleasures; you may take everything as your own, and have no fear in your mind at all; but still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall fall under the power of the Messenger of Death. ||8|| The Supreme Lord showers His Mercy, and we find the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy. The more time we spend there, the more we come to love the Lord.The Lord is the Master of both worlds; there is no other place of rest. When the True Guru is pleased and satisfied, O Nanak, the True Name is obtained. ||9||1||26|| All Mahraj Is Saying is At Least Think Of Him... Isn't He Sweet?.... :respect:

You Are not a DISGRACE... My goodness.. Out of all the killings and crimes taking place in the world, you feel a disgrace for masturbating once... !! Simple solution... Do Ardas.. Move on.. Be Happy :respect: :respect: Remember being amritdhari doesn't mean you wont make mistakes after it, It means when you do make a mistake you learn from it, Move on and think about the bigger picture... Dont Worry :respect:

Hi MODS is the chat feature working now?

Paji, this just goes to show how people stab you in the back.. forget them.. waheguru is the only one that can save you.. This is what hes trying to tell you.. Be around be people that make you happy, Blast your kirtan outloud if you have to.. Just always remeber He Is there For You :respect: :respect:

There is so much crime around :respect: :respect: ... Ill do ardas.. Hope he gets better :respect:

No your not going to get punished, No youre not going to hell... Just Be Happy and Live Sikhi To The Max :respect:

:lol2: :respect: :lol2: :respect: :lol2: :respect:

A NY Officer gives Boots to homeless man

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCVo6kkfkig Go to 5.08 Really Awesome

Thanks 4 the Cool Pictures :D

well this is a gupt forum gurpreet14 and you dont know me... Saying something like i am going to cut of his hair becuase he is doing namaz is bound to cause an issue, so as for igniting things, you did that all by yourself

Oh bolloc#s to this thread, it started out good now its just ridiculous. Fateh

Have you spoken to an elder about this? Maybe they can help