Khalsa_Girl_1

I'm being totally honest about this... You need professional counselling. If you're complaining about how it wasn't 'fun' when you were Amrit-dhari, then what advice do you want from people? Honestly.. You're saying you want/need help. The things you say you want contradicts your words man.. Like I said, go seek counselling. Figure yourself out man... You're disgusting, really. It's because of girls like you, why people think most girls are easy. Here, you're saying that you want to be a better Sikh, but you're saying you enjoy/want to continue doing the ridiculously non-Sikhi things...? Stand your ground, girl. You're so weak, it's despicable. Yes, yes. It's very hard sometimes to not do your eyebrows and stuff.. umm.. Not! Girl.. The more you do your eyebrows etc now, the more you're gonna regret it later on. I've been living in a hick-town for a while, and was surrounded by white people in high school. I didn't do my eyebrows or nothing. I wasn't trying to be popular or anything, and I was popular. Only the girls hated me. Now think about that man. Be yourself, and you'll be liked. Don't be a certain way cuz you want to be liked. That's fake and F'n ridiculously idiotic. The 'F you saying and the 'F you trying to prove?? It doesn't make sense how you're saying you want to get back into Sikhi, but then saying how you like doing those kinds of things.. and even saying how you think you'll do it again. You're not ready for commitment man. Do you have any self-respect or dignity? Guys are gonna come and go man. There's really no need of feeling a sense of pride when there are guys following you... Because really.. It's the ONE commitment in life on Earth that you have to pay attention to.. and that's your future husband... your soul mate. Then, of course, is Guru ji. That's the one commitment you have to focus on spiritually. You're insecure man.. You need help. Please go to a counselor as soon as possible. You're saying that you feel good living that type of lifestyle..?? Ok.. Why don't you get drunk again. Let's see how cool, popular you are when you get raped by some random guy. I should mention the part where STD comes in... Right after the above. ^^^ If you like doing all the idiotic things, then continue.. By all means, continue. Doesn't seem like you're serious about life, anyway. You're just proving that you're pretty. ...lame. I pity girls like you.. except with you.. there's nothing to sympathize about in your case. Since you chose to do things like you mentioned cuz you enjoy that lifestyle... Just doesn't make sense man.. Doesn't make sense how you're asking for help, if you're not willing enough to help yourself. You WANT to get your eyebrows done. (So what do you want? People hired to tell you that you look gorgeous without getting your brows done?) You WANT to get your nails done etc. (btw.. Don't include nails in this discussion cuz it's completely different than what you're speaking of.) You WANT to go out partying. (So go..? What you telling us about?) You DISLIKED being Amrit-dhari. (Clearly, you're not ready to take Amrit again. Start off by reciting 'Wah(i)guru'.) You BARELY had 'FUN' on a daily basis. (w.t.f? Clearly, you do not know how to have fun then.) You have GUYS RUNNING AFTER you. (..uhh...okay? What's your point? That you're easy?) You admit that your outlook on life is really wrong, and that you want to go back to your Sikhi life cuz you had less stress. (Good for you.) But then you say that you say, again, that you have more fun now.. (Good.. for you.... ?) ...SO.. What the hell are you getting at, by posting this bs that no one cares about?... You called him.. and he said 'don't worry about it.' So why are you worrying? Didn't you mention your friends that stand by you no matter what? Why don't you go to them? AWWWWWWWWWWW I feel so sorry for you.. Losing your first kiss. Damn.. Must be hard.. Are you for real? ... Sis.. You need to understand that missing out on remembering your first kiss shouldn't make you worry about not remembering it.. but should make you worry about what situation you got yourself into. You could have been in a worse situation, and you're worried about a kiss????? I really can't believe you called that guy. You said he was your friend! So much for the friends that stand by you no matter what, eh? Even if he was a person who acted as your best friend, he wouldn't say much after what happened between you two. (Which is despicable, of course.. cuz of the fact that you're thinking of getting back into Sikhi.. but OH WAIT!.. You want to keep your current lifestyle in motion. Just amazing, isn't it?) Why would you even think of calling that guy now?!?! Is there something wrong with you? You can become a better Sikh by A.) Start doing Naam Simran whenever you can. Listen to it as you fall asleep. B.) Deleting the so-called friends that 'stand by you no matter what' C.) Stop and ask yourself what you're getting out of going out to drink etc. D.) Get into sports etc. E.) Start spending more time with your parents. * F.) Understand that you, seriously, have a spychological problem. ************************************************ Sorry to burst your bubble titled 'Bashing Girls'.. but guys do the EXACT same things as girls. Then, the poor girl ends up marrying someone she thinks is really great cuz of what her parents were told by her prospective in-laws who are a 'good family', as they say. After getting 'hitched' she realizes what a two-faced, deceitful, 'narinder singh' nutcase he is. oh well, that's just facts that we can't hide from. Anyway.. I hope the original poster seeks a counselor soon. ...Peace

Ya.. Like maybe the Indian, Pakistan, and American armies should actually stop these f'd up terrorists from destroying innocent peoples' lives, instead of sending their troops to the other countries just to get oil or w/e it is they want/need. When did Sikhs ever do anything to harm a certain group of people? Honestly, muslims are very scary. It's getting scarier and scarier each day. The women in Pakistan are, now, not allowed to exit their homes. Many Sikh families' homes were destroyed, and I wouldn't be surprised to find out that they are targeting places of.. (I won't even say it.) Disgusting, and scary. They're just so disgusting, making their 'many wives' and women cover themselves from head to toe while they go around seeking other women to marry (use as slaves for various purposes). Honestly.. It's just disgusting. Scary and despicable.

That's too messed. There are such things as latex gloves that are used when providing medical aid. :6 ...honestly... and I don't mean that they should use the gloves because they are helping someone from a different 'caste'. Gloves are to be used anyway.. I hope :6 What I meant was.. If a doctor is refusing to help the 'untouchables' when in need of medical aid, then who else will go near 'them'? Might as well open "'so-and-so' Hospital"s This is ridiculous. When a person is following Sikhi, why should anything else matter? My mother tells me I cannot marry someone from outside ____ because people 'lower' than 'us' have different ways of living. That may be so in India, because of the , already existing, segregation, but when people move to other countries, this thing should not be looked at all. Even in India, it should change. However, the people living in the 'slums' and poorer areas are more likely to be doing drugs etc. Actually, the people who take care of our houses in India take drugs. but... They are actually Amrit-dhari... Doing drugs etc. Although my parents have tried to stop them, they don't listen because that is what their parents, and their parents' parents (etc) were living like... Which results in my parents telling me that even if I were to marry a person who is Amrit-dhari, he may not be physically 'clean' because of the drugs etc taken. I can understand her point of view, but we can't just leave things the way they are. If people are not given chances to change/do better, then how do we expect prosperous communities/countries? Plus, even the Jatts are taking drugs now.. So this mindset should obviously change. Instead of continuing this stupid ideology by keeping/growing the gaps because of segregation, people should realize that every person should be given equal chances and opportunities. If a person born in a 'lower caste' was adopted into a family of 'higher caste' and followed everything that family did, the person would be looked at differently.. (I hope). So it really does depend on backgrounds and upbringings within families, that divide 'a people' into 'peoples'. Just like this, we have: - Nanaksaree Gurudwaras - Jatt Gurudwaras (that I just found out about :S ) - Dalit Gurudwaras (that I just found out about...) - Ramgharian Gurudwaras - NaamDhaaree Gurudwaras ..etc Even in countries like Canada, there are Dalit and Ramgharian Gurudwaras. Meaning.. what, exactly? ..... That people going to different Gurudwaras follow the same, ONE amazing religion, differently than others? That's pretty stupid, and against Sikhi. I believe it's up to the younger generation to stop the continuation of this idiotic idea, of separating people because of their... 'oooooh Last Name'... Ridiculous, really.

*AvnitK... If your comment was about me/my post, and you think that I am not against tattooing when following Sikhi, please reread this, and my previous post. Like I had mentioned more than once, please do not judge my statements, (from my previous post(s)) when relating them to (what you believe is/are my) opinion(s) on this 'tattooing matter.' I had asked for people to not prejudge my views, deciding on whether I am against/for/disagreeing, or agreeing with the fact that a person can or cannot get tattooed as an Amrit-dhari. I had clearly mentioned that: *AvnitK... If you thought otherwise, then I apologize, and please ignore this post. However, if you did think that I am against, or not against tattooing, then please make sure you have read this post. ...peace

wow... :6 first of all.. whats this about BOYs having nice cars? girls can customize their cars as nicely as boys can! and there's nothing wrong with customizing a car.. to the girls who think only guys wanna customize their rides, you're completely mistaken :D anyway.. what's with all these inconsiderate comments..? errr.... "majority amritdharis say accept the way God made you, but then they sit all afternoon slappin polishz on the cars with the other hand." umm... they sit all afternoon slappin polish on cars, eh? i gotta say, that's one the poorest judgements i've ever come across. pretty sad to hear these judgments made when not knowing a single thing about the person with the car. and "hiding behind a big expensive car"?.. who's hiding? no one is hiding. so why don't YOU accept it..? i believe you should think more than once when generalizing a certain group of people. it aint nice. however, i gotta agree with the fact that there are insecure people out there who get cars and stuff to feel better... but i've yet to come across a Gursikh like that. material items are not good to be attached to, ya. cars are nothing when we're talking about life and deeds. but it's not like we're gonna drive the cars to impress Guru ji when our time comes. and ya.. we should hold on to the 5 kakaars given to us. but having a car doesn't mean you're letting go of the 5 kakaars man.. what's up with that talk? :S ok.. honestly... not all people who have customized cars are insecure, or wanna look rich/amazing. a customized car doesn't equal worldly attachment, unless that person really can't live without it. for example a person who can't afford to buy his kids proper winter-wear because he spends/spent too much $ on his car. THAT is an attachment.. some people just like certain types of cars. you can't just say a person is showing off or wants to look richer than someone else because of a vehicle. that's like personA asking why personB's brother wears GAP all the time..and then personB asking why personA's brother wears mexx all the time. it's cuz one boy likes GAP and the other likes mexx. :S ...like why hate people cuz of what they like...? isn't THAT against Sikhi?........ doesn't make sense. and what do you mean by "MEN shouldn't have a done up ride....." girls should, eh? i like the way you think lol :cool: yo... honestly man.. you jumping to a conclusion such as a person with a customized car means her/his soul is affected negatively.. that's not even concluding. that's jumping to conclusions because of what YOU think is not right. honestly, leave the judgments up to God. who knows how good of a person she/he with that customized ride is.. don't judge. leave that up to God. ............. ok, i think you're hating the singhs with customized cars a little too much........ "fancy rides" does not equal showing mayaa. showing mayaa is when someone is talking about it, or when that person gets their car all customized when she/he is unable to afford paying some of her/his bills. THAT is showing off. don't judge these people, seeing them as inconsiderate fools who dont help those in need.. when in reality, they could be helping a LOT of people. i mean, there are very successful sikh families out there who support those in need, but still have a lot of money left.. do you expect them to throw their money in the garbage????? ok.. if you know you shouldn't judge the amritdhari people who got customized cars, then why are you showing so much... hatred/disgust AND still judging? that's hypocritical. who's teaching kids wrong things? why do you wanna knock some 'sense' into a person because they spend "all" day polishing her/his car? (and i have yet to see a man, let alone a singh, spending an entire day polishing his car.) and what aunties are you talking about?? what on earth do they say?? :S umm.. confidence having a crown...? mind playing tricks on people? being unique...? seriously.. those things don't have to do with polishing up cars man.. and i gotta say.. those with nice cars would be the unique ones, don't you think? :rolleyes: and confidence with the dastaar? what do you mean "that should give you enough confidence" doesn't having a nice car show confidence.. (lol. that's how i see it anyway.. :umm: ) and having a customized ride doesn't mean it's a bad "unique". seriously, there's nothing wrong with having a nice ride... :S and why are you so annoyed by people having nice cars? :S seriously.. how is affecting you so much, that you gotta say "it's so annoying"..? having a customized car doesn't mean the person is immature.... <_< now that ^^^^ is something i agree with 100+% :D lol when with Sangat, no one should stand out. driving in 'hot' rides to the Gurudwara isn't right. (like those people who take their customized hummers, with that weird picture of a 'jatt'. that's just low...) ummm.... goraas? customizing rides has NOTHING to do with being goraa. if you think it's wrong to judge, why are you being so hypocritical? :S most of the boys who i know have customized rides are actually mexican. i'd say white boys get their cars customized the least. and please......PLEEEASE.. "acting lyk goraas" you say? did you know there are active goraa members on this site? they are also gursikh and understand punjabi as much as english. they've gone to miri piri academy. please think before stating certain things. stereotyping is not polite. please don't judge people.. whether you're talking about singhs, people with nice cars, nice houses, goraas or who/whatever, it's not right to judge. leave that to God. just because someone has a nice paintjob, rims/spinners, body kits etc, doesn't mean that person is showing off. Guru ji does not want us to have tu-tee fu-tee cars you know... when someone has luxurious items, it's wrong to think they're showing off, or that they don't spend money on helping others. there are a LOT of people who work hard and support many families (apart from those supported with their Dasvand), but still can afford luxurious things. let me tell you again.. Guru ji would not want Gursikhs in tuttee futtee cars.... honestly speaking, an amritdhari should have a car that is clean and well maintained (unless cannot afford it, of course. but we're talking about showing off etc). whether the sikh wishes to customize her/her car is up to her/him. we can't judge people with souped up cars, thinking they're showing off :S it doesn't make any sense. we, sikhs, are always being judged and stuff, so how do you think it's right for someone to judge another by their vehicle??? :S :6 i'm sure you know how sikhs are judged. it's not a very comforting feeling when hearing a person from the sikh community talk this way about singhs without knowing them.. and just because of their cars??? :| kinda lame, i'd say. oh and btw.. i'm getting my lime green car soon. i'm excited. it will be very nicely customized. not excited to show it off, you know. it's just because lime green is one of my favourite colours and my mom didn't let me paint my room lime green or anything else of the sort.. :lol: and again.. Guru ji would not want Gursikhs driving tuttee futtee cars...... <_< oh btw.. ONLY God can judge me. :rolleyes: p.s. to 'guest' who posted May 25 YELLOW is a GREAT colour for a ferrari oh and... as long as your car doesn't look something like the following, you're good.

Gurbaanee Tuks don't mean one thing. they can have a few meanings or, at times, many. one of the most beautiful aspects of Gurbaanee is that the amazing poetry contained allows one Tuk to be interpreted differently by different people. Gurbaanee is like medicine, but a googolplex times better. it heals you not matter what. as long as you take it in full-heartedly, you'll be able to find out the meaning(s) of a Tuk, and get healed. 2 people going through completely different situations/lives who read the same Tuk might understand it in different ways. So the question is... What do YOU think it means, confused.com?

yeah.. late reply... anyway (before anyone reads this posted reply of mine, i ask of you to not take any offense. i'm just trying to be honest.) i honestly don't mean to be rude, but what did the original poster wish to ..accomplish(?) by letting people know that he/she was sent a link leading to the profile of this person who is, said be to be, a singhnee? furthermore, the poster indicated what he/she thinks of the 'singhnee' Singhnee With A Tattoo (i.d.i.o.t) so.. what has anyone gained from the this post/topic? naa-daa. ----------------- ...putting it out there: (you=anyone) you see her profile. you see her as an i.d.i.o.t. you don't see much sense in her. you posted your views. so... the person who started this thread clearly saw the 'singhnee's action(s) as (a) wrongdoing(s). the person who posted this did not ask for people's views, nor ask for people's suggestions. SOOO... i'll be frank when saying this.. when a person who you do not know does something you believe to be wrong/outrageous, but is not hurting you in any way, there is not point in telling other people what you have come across. it would have made sense if the topic starter had asked for suggestions on how to talk with the girl/lady in an appropriate manner. pointing out things about someone you AND the readers do not know of is unnecessary, and really gets no one anywhere. whether most people believe what she did was right or wrong, did it does not make a difference. it did not affect anyone in any way at all. who cares for this person who has a tattoo? no one. people are caring about what she is doing. they don't care about her. that means what the repliers say, is of no use to the original poster or the girl with the tattoo. talking about these issues does not help anyone. it's not as if a person who is reading this is the tattooed girl's possible future husband. if it does not have to do with you, then you are clearly wasting your time when expressing your thoughts on such useless topics. ************* ...and i wish to be clear about something really important..... please do not look at one person's action(s) and believe that people who look to be the 'same' do the same thing(s) as the the first's. (i am not debating about whether her decision was right or wrong. just generally speaking.) it was quite rude and disrespectful of the original poster to have said that. people from different races, cultures and religions do not wish to be judged because of the stupid decisions made by people within their community/society. in the same sense, (when talking about one singhnee's wrongdoing(s)) ALL singhneeaa find it quite offensive when someone categorizes them under the same opinion that does not apply to them. clearly, it was quite senseless for the original poster to have thought of other singhneeaa as the same as the tattoo singhnee. leaving my right-or-wrong opinion out of this, i hope everyone realizes that the above comment should have been thought of before posting. i'm sure all singhs would not like to be seen as senseless beings if just one random singh had done something wrong. ...............AND............... i was only trying to express my honest opinions politely. ...peace p.s. 'i.d.i.o.t.' is a banned word and is filter-activated.... :S

i just wanted to point out that it is Ik O-unk-aar, not Ek Ongkar. IK=one (punjabi/Gurmukhi). Ek=one (hindi). we should use Ik. and its not ongkaar...its O-Unk-Aar. there is a short 'U' sound after the 'O'. there is half of a 'G' after the 'N' sound. in punjabi, theres a vowel called 'TIPPY'. the tippy is applied when there is an 'ng' sound, but without the 'g'. its EXACTLY like saying the word Hankaar (hunkaar) (ego). notice how there is a different kind of N. sounds like the G is missing, but its not supposed to be there. its not hangkaar right? its hunkaar. and like that, its O-Unkaar, not Ongkar. (like in "Ring", but without the G.) its more complicated than a nasal voice. it ends before the 'G'. For example: say the word 'wrong'. then say the word 'wrong' without the G sound, but dont say it as 'ron' it has to have that (half) of the G, sort of. when we pronounce the letter N, our toungue touches the front, top of our mouth inside. when we pronounce the letter G, our toungue touches the centre part of the top of our mouth. but when we say pronounce the TIPPI, the centre AND the back part of the ceiling in the mouth have to be covered with the toungue. and when youre releasing the TIPPI sound, dont leave one part of your toungue remain touching your mouths ceiling, otherwise youll be left with an N sound or a G sound. sorry... i just believe that it is very important for Sikhs to know the most important and first msg of Sikhi, and be able to pronounce it the way it should be.

you should tell him to get a life. ok, im joking. on a serious note.......... what i suggest, is an open discussion where your parents, his parents, and you + him sit down to discuss this very important issue. he should really grow up though. i mean.. hes about to get married, and he hangs up... not hearing your concerns?? :6 thats lame for a guy whos turning into a man. not to mention the fact that hes amritdhari. not a very good role model, i point out. when youre having the discussion, make sure to mention the following: -> when you get married, parents from both sides of the family should get equal respect. your parents deserve respect just as much as his do. -> he should grow up -> he has brothers who can take care of his parents, ALONG with their (future) wives. (if he doesnt get this hint, dont marry him. lol) -> he should grow up -> when a man marries a woman from outside of india, does he not live with the his wife's parents? under certain circumstances, the ridiculous rules of punjabi culture do not have to be followed. (your situation is one of these 'certain circumstances') make sure to mention this. my maaci's all had each of their husbands live in each of their homes before AND after the guys parents moved in from india. -> he should grow up -> tell him that if he cant understand your feelings, youre not suitable for each other. (im really serious about this one: ) if he cannot understand or even listen to what you have to say about such an important matter (regarding your OWN parents) how can he listen to/respect you after marriage? obviously, he doesnt care, and thats ridiculous behaviour coming from a man who is thinking of marrying you. its marriage for crying out loud. the biggest thing in a persons life...! i mean, you are going to be husband and wife. you are supposed to bond, and understand, and feel each others emotions. if he cant even listen to what you have to say about your own parents well-being, thats just far beyond ignorance and immaturity. did i mention he should grow up? and the reason why im saying its ignorance and immaturity is because we cant continue doing things 'just because its tradition'. umm, talikhaak, try to understand where the bhainjeeo is coming from. you cant just assume shes trying to get her future husband to agree with him living at her house because she doesnt think rules are equal. :S i mean, shes not being a rebel or anything. understand what shes feeling here. and shes not nearly asking for the woman to walk in front of the man during laavaa. dont get to ahead of yourself there now. <_< i understand that our guru jis did not spicifically condemn the 'rule' of a wife going to the grooms house, but..... our guru jis didnt specifically condemn a lot of other things that are still traditions. i mean, its common sense. and im not saying all this because im a girl. i am very very sincere about equality. for example, my mom doesnt let me touch my dads shoes. whenever i pick up everyones shoes from the rug to put them in the closet, my mom stops me from touching my dads shoes. now, i know its different. this shows the respect the father has for the girl. but still, i disagree with it 100%. why is it considered to be ok when the boy touches the shoes, but disrespectful when the girl does? i mean, this is in favor for girls, but i still think its stupid. did guru ji say that girls shouldnt touch their fathers shoes? so dont say things like 'guru ji didnt say anything is wrong with the girl moving into the guys house' because guru ji didnt say that 'girls SHOULD move into a guys house' either. its tradition. and its stupid when a guy only thinks of himself and his pride etc. again, its not like youre asking for something impossible. if men think theyre so great, then why dont they do the so-called 'impossible' and prove their 'great'ness. doesnt Gurbaani/Sikhi teach us to love and respect one another? i say this again....... if he cant even listen to you and try to understand (hanging up), then he should read more Gurbaani and learn to love. in the end, i have to say... if he does not listen to you, hes not good for you. he does not try to understand you, hes not good for you. if he does not try to solve this problem (whichever way he feels is right), hes not good for you. i say, your parents should move in with him. where does it say in gurbaani that womens parents cant move into the guys house right? and if he still is being a baby, sock him in the face and tell him to get a life. :D sikhi=great punjabi culture/tradition= stinky there is major difference. and what does 'ghar jamai' mean anyway? i know it means born at home.. but i dont get it.... :umm: p.s. he should grow up.

ty. really appreciate it.

GurFateh. I'm looking for (a) site/s which will allow me to download bhai pinderpal singh ji's kathas (full). My dad really likes his kathas, but unfortunately I wasn’t able to find any online. If someone knows where I can download the audio(s), please let me know. I’d really appreciate it. Thank you. GurFateh.

Basant, First Mehla: By His Creative Power, God fashioned the creation. The King of kings Himself adminsters true justice. The most sublime Word of the Guru's Teachings is always with us. The wealth of the Lord's Name, the source of nectar, is easily acquired. ||1|| So chant the Name of the Lord; do not forget it, O my mind. The Lord is Infinite, Inaccessible and Incomprehensible; His weight cannot be weighed, but He Himself allows the Gurmukh to weigh Him. ||1||Pause|| Your GurSikhs serve at the Guru's Feet. Serving the Guru, they are carried across; they have abandoned any distinction between 'mine' and 'yours'. The slanderous and greedy people are hard-hearted. Those who do not love to serve the Guru are the most thieving of thieves. ||2|| When the Guru is pleased, He blesses the mortals with loving devotional worship of the Lord. When the Guru is pleased, the mortal obtains a place in the Mansion of the Lord's Presence. So renounce slander, and awaken in devotional worship of the Lord. Devotion to the Lord is wonderful; it comes through good karma and destiny. ||3|| The Guru unites in union with the Lord, and grants the gift of the Name. The Guru loves His Sikhs, day and night. They obtain the fruit of the Naam, when the Guru's favor is bestowed. Says Nanak, those who receive it are very rare indeed. ||4||7|| http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Page.asp?Sour...65&Format=2 just thought i'd share it..

yes its true... in guru jis previous life, His name was Dusht Daman. see: http://www.sikhnet.com/hemkuntsahib/daman.jpg and for a little insight: http://www.sikhnet.com/hemkuntsahib/myth.htm (scroll down a bit) (not everything on that site might be correct..) but the pic is right.

i dont understand hindi at all.. so what's he sayin? (i got the part where the enemies run away..) but whats with the 12 o'clock joke? whats the joke?

this thread is still alive?!?!?!?! amazing i need to post my recent embarrassing moments.. :wub: BY THE WAY!! DOES ANYONE REMEMBER THAT POST LONG AGO WHERE SOMEONE MENTIONED THAT IT MUST BE EMBARRASSING FOR THE PERSON WHO STARTED THIS THREAD CUZ THE WORD "embarrassing" IS SPELT WRONG FOR THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD??

buttttt.... how do we know if the mother-in-law was in fact, amrit-dhari..?

http://www.3ho.org/ i see but why do ppl dislike the 3HO thing? its basically described as: a Healthy, Happy, Holy Lifestyle theyre amrit-dhari sikhs right? yes they are ppl hate on them cuz they do yoga haters need to screw off!! They're hated on because they do yoga, :wub: Whats wrong with yoga? I mean its becoming a craze now, even at my local gurdwara they have yoga classes . Where is the love? :wub: ye yoga is good aint it? i would actually think that yoga would be something that sikhi encourages :wub:

ya but... why was this posted... ..it just got my attention....

http://www.3ho.org/ i see but why do ppl dislike the 3HO thing? its basically described as: a Healthy, Happy, Holy Lifestyle theyre amrit-dhari sikhs right?

whats a 3HO? :wub:

i dont get it.. does this mean that girls are supposed to do the seva of husbands.. and husbands dont gotta do seva of their wives? :wub:

who said that the guy who help plot the murder was a "gursikh"? sounds like youre trying to pull up a debate.. :wub: anyway about this incident... its heartbreaking to hear such a story.. and to add, know that a thing like this was caused by a man with a turban? its just despicable its like some ppl are TRYING to make sikhs looked at with disgust. and in my views, arranged marriages are so scary.. i know a lot of ppl still believe that arranged marriages are good. i believe that they were at one point, but not now.. even sikh men these days abuse women (and children) for no apparent reason.. maybe the reason she wanted a divorce was cuz of him. as someone said before.. looks as if she comes from a religious family.. im sure there were many reasons for her wanting a divorce. (not saying that its a good thing) a lot of men still dont know what it means to be a husband. its not just putting food on the table, or disciplining their kids, or keeping the last name in high spirits.. im disgusted to see a sikh do such a thing. IF she was cheating and wanted to divorce, so be it.. she would be punished.. but for a human to even try to think they can take the roll of punishing someone like that..its surprising. in fact, this is what muslims do... not sikhs. and as for so called "honor" killings... such a thing shouldnt exist anymore.. as i said.. leave the punishment in Gods hands. and i wonder.. where's the husband's and mother in law's honor now? ....what a disgrace What the heck are you talking about? A 70-year-old grandmother and her son have been found guilty of murdering his wife in a so-called "honour killing". The lady and her son are guilty! He is comes from a religious Sikh family. Did you even see the pictures of him and his mother? what you mean what are you talking about? i was talkin abt the article.. what else :..: what are YOU talkin abt

who said that the guy who help plot the murder was a "gursikh"? sounds like youre trying to pull up a debate.. :wub: anyway about this incident... its heartbreaking to hear such a story.. and to add, know that a thing like this was caused by a man with a turban? its just despicable its like some ppl are TRYING to make sikhs looked at with disgust. and in my views, arranged marriages are so scary.. i know a lot of ppl still believe that arranged marriages are good. i believe that they were at one point, but not now.. even sikh men these days abuse women (and children) for no apparent reason.. maybe the reason she wanted a divorce was cuz of him. as someone said before.. looks as if she comes from a religious family.. im sure there were many reasons for her wanting a divorce. (not saying that its a good thing) a lot of men still dont know what it means to be a husband. its not just putting food on the table, or disciplining their kids, or keeping the last name in high spirits.. im disgusted to see a sikh do such a thing. IF she was cheating and wanted to divorce, so be it.. she would be punished.. but for a human to even try to think they can take the roll of punishing someone like that..its surprising. in fact, this is what muslims do... not sikhs. and as for so called "honor" killings... such a thing shouldnt exist anymore.. as i said.. leave the punishment in Gods hands. and i wonder.. where's the husband's and mother in law's honor now? ....what a disgrace

i went to baru sahib for 2 years (gr. 7 and 8) were the worst 2 yrs of my life.. no joke. dont send your kids there if you have any and if youre a student, please..PLEASE... dont go there to stay... im being honest. pleeeease dont go. if you do.

lol everything happens for a reason.. Gods given you the money.. make sure you do good with it if youre gonna accept it :lol: