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was meant to be a joke :devil:

This is my dog LOL

I suppose but closing the topic isnt going to make the problem go away.

I think there is a negative stereotype going around that ALL sikh women want clean shaven guys but i dont think that is the truth as sikhism would have disappeared....................i mean without sikh women sikhism is nothing..................so HOW do we stop this as too many topics like this are appearing on the Gupt Section. Isnt there something sikh women could do to encourage boys/men to keep hair and beard.........just a thought.

I think there is a negative stereotype going around that ALL sikh women want clean shaven guys but i dont think that is the truth as sikhism would disappeared....................i mean without sikh women sikhism is nothing..................just my opinion.

Lol NO, dont take it personally you can associate with whoever you want, but regarding your family and depending on your age maybe its time you stood up to them.............. :TH:

Nope. Canadians don't have this problem at all because sadly, Canadian Sikhs have a rep. to be very violent. So if some Muslims were trying to pull this stunt, they'll end up being killed, period. :devil: @ running to singhs for protection. No offence, I never ask singhs for protection (I don't have the time to go into details why). If you're from Canada and need protection/help, then find a mona (especially the jatt ones) for protection. No Asian (desi) wants to mess with a jatt. That is the truth! whats so special about them, in the UK all they do is drink and act like idiots....................and they know jack all about Sikhism (im not claiming to know everything).................i think its strange that mone dissappear when we need to defend the identity of the turban i.e. france but when it time to act like drunken idiots they come out in droves...................you say there are more mone now than turbanned singhs so it must mean that mone guys are treating women badly and making them run off to non sikh guys!

i have different opinion altogether sys, sikh women, rather any woman, more religious than men. sikh women do nitnem paath at home or gurudwara, form sukhmani jatha at all levels, arrange weekly sukhmani sahib darbar at gurudwara or home by home every week, participate in langar seva and other seva on the occasions like gurupurabs and other big days at gurudwara. here at india there is a very healthy family link thread i.e. NANI / DADI KI KAHANI. i dont know whether it is prevail through out now a days or not. the aged grandma tells stories, sakhis, history etc. to grand children of the home before they go to bed. so my personel experience and knowledge says "woman are more religious than men" actually they do not have proper guidance and support from male part of the society / community. in fact this operation (prachar) is not a personal or gender limited kind of thing. it must be SARV VYAPAK (PREVAIL AMONGST ALL) whether male or female, younger or elder, even children can do miracle. i have started another thread seeking suggestions for prachar amongst children. here in india, this is summer vacation time, and during this period of more then 1 and half month, these children can be taken to a journey of knowledge through the Sikh History. a planned prachar program is a need of hour for sikh community to stop the stupidity, one of which being discussed here. NO OFFENCE AIMED. PEACE TRUE, there always more women at gurdwaras than men..................also there are only trim singhs at gurdwaras to................i keep a beard now (2 months!!!!! ) and i feel the odd one out at gurdwaras these days

women (i think) dont listen to sikh guys who try to warn them.....................most of the girls i have found KNOW EXACTLY what they are doing but when it gets too deep and the guy start abusing them they dont know what to do.................so they just carry on being abused because they have been in the 'relationship' for a long time and are afraid of the consequences of people then finding out, so they suffer in silence.....................the current trend of 'sikh' women only wanting clean shaven guys is also playing a part........i think but then again maybe not..................ive just stop caring about people like this who pretend to be sikhs do stupid stuff and convert then cry because its all gone wrong...................im just concentrating on my own life because 'sikh' women (and MEN) never learn.

I found this on another site: "On my way back from work yesterday 2 muslim guys from my university came and sat beside me and started talking to each other about how this sikh guy had converted into Islam because his gf is a muslim. Truly speaking I was shocked how this young guys were so happy about this. Being graduated form the same university few yrs back I knew wht their age might be. I was totally shocked. I am a 24 yr Sikh woman, though not amritdhari but I do practice Sikhism ( try too). Somewhere deep with in me I was badly hurt on listening them and I kept thinking that our Gurujis sacrificed their lives due to this. I wasn't able to say anything as I myself cut my hair so I am not a perfect Sikh. I think that we should try to propagate Sikhism so that people shoud know wht it is all about. It's not just about going to the gurudwara or taking naam. they had no idea what Sikhism is and they just kept on mocking". seems like 'sikh' guys can do thing like this to but 'sikh' women are judged more harshly................

hi everybody i got a heavy sarabloh kara and it is a bit dirty and rusty. could you recommend ways i could make it clean and shiny again thanks.

yeah live by it

Well said! These worries and perceived threats come from internal weaknesses of the individuals. How can Sikhi feel threatened? Is that how weak we feel Sikhi is? When we look at the Saheeds in our history who gave their lives up because they were in love with their dharm (religion), they had full bharosa (confidence) in Guru Ji. We can’t compare to that because we don’t love our dharma, we don’t want to even show our kes and we sure don’t have the confidence in Maharaj because we think that the "daughters" of Guru Gobind Singh are now naïve gullible feeble victims who can so easily be manipulated. What happened to: naa ohi mareh na thaagay jaahi. Neither death nor deception comes to those, jin kai raam vasai man maahi. within whose minds the Lord abides. waheguru ji kakhalsa waheguru ji ki fateh! im reading these posts and can find traits of myself in ur talks. u all are judging based on ur own experiences in life. not all girls/guys grow up in the same environment. NONE OF US HAVE SAME PARENTS let alone same values and education. thus some of us girls are naive gullible feeble victims who can be easily manipulated. i dont know whos fault it is but some of us just grow up in a very protective loving environment where its hard to imagine that someone is out there to take advantage of u. why would someone wanna do that?(cuz in ones mind u dont think that way about others. u try to treat others the way u wanna be treated) and our parents sometimes just dont tell us everything about the world cuz they dont want us to think that world is a BAD, corrupted place to live in(it really isn't that bad but they forget to tell us that not everyones good). cuz thn one might lose trust in others and grow up to be a very sad lonely person. u eventually learn by being with people that gosh everyones not "good" but sometimes its just tooo late for some of us:( i can see myself confused about what gurbani says: everyone is good...no one is bad except me!(?) hum nahi chunge bura nahi koi well i could get myself in trouble by not truly understanding gurbani. stop blaming the girls and start looking at the problem. yes we can and are naive and gullible. its hard to think bad things about others. does that make me stupid? according to u if one went to uni ...or happens to be that age of "adults" makes one an adult? r u kidding me? think about it more. we listen to nd read gurbani all the time. it doesn't ONLY TALK ABOUT "SIKH" IT TALKS ABOUT THE WHOLE HUMANITY! how we are, how we act, and the stupid/wise, ugly/beautiful things we end up doing in life. saying that sikh wo/men do this and that or muslim wo/men do this and that is stupid on our part. we are warned by guru sahib and taught about the things that can make our life hell. it tells us what we need to do inorder to live a beautiful life on earth and have a thinking of pure people. i hope u can understand my frustration about all of ur comments. its easy to point out the short comings in other people. :sady: but if we look at the cause of other peoples behavior we will understand the situation better and will be able to not judge and discard the person who ended up burned by our fellow human beings. as u said they will suffer for it but as a sikh we need to help each other feel better and lessn the suffering of others. we as a sikh are suppose to be the support of those who were wronged by others (need for us to be compassionate) if im wrong in this let me know. bhul chuk muaff karni waheguru ji kakhalsa waheguru ji ki fateh! Yeah i can understand your frustration, maybe my comments were bit too critical, i can understand that people can be taken advantage of.............BUT women who are used in this way should go to the police or something you know................how can we help if you dont ask for help in the first place................until its too late, even after its too late women dont ask for help and suffer alone.

These women who go off to uni, we need to realise they are ADULTS now and to stop treating them like little girls. that period of their lives is over. if they want act like that it is not for us to judge them............later on in life they will probably hate themselves, even if they never tell anyone about their past the thing is they will know and will end up suffering for it................I hate the stereotype now that only sikh women do all this stuff...................muslim women arent so innocent its just that they are better at keeping quite.................

women need to start taking responsibilty for their own actions. Those guys didnt force themselves in, they were probably invitid...............women can always say no.

From my experience ive found that its the mona sikh men and women who look down on sikhs who follow sikhi properly and that they think they know better..............the reason why you are called a mona is not out of hate but because its the truth............looks like you want the best of both worlds but in reality this is not possible..............but the good news is you can always change. Singhs/singhnis are also fed up of being looked down upon.

Its not a stupid question but rather than asking us ask yourself why you are wearing a kara. are you wearing it for the sake of it because you're 'supposed' to or do you want to become Guru's Sikh one day..............

If somebody asked you this question how would YOU respond.

sorry its "can", typo.

HEY I DONT CARE people shouldnt assume stuff....i have a friend who has got hair and i aint bothered in fact im the only person she can talk to freely without being judged! im not the juding type nor am i big headed.

Dude, were talking about punjabi women here. Of course their gonna have facial hair, it comes with the 'job description'.

they said you are not supposed to exercise on a empty stomach.

1) are we allowed to eat vitamin pills like seven seas with cod liver oil, yes or no and why. 2) are we allowed to eat meat because i keep getting conflicting arguments and i met some amritdhari guys who said it ok to eat meat and he mocked me for not eating meat............ive been a vegi for two months now i thought i would be really hard but its SO easy to be a vegi anyway now im confused, yes or no and why. 3) could you recommend any protein supplements. 4) any bodybuilding tips for beginners. Thank you.

I have seen many sikh women who keep their facial hair. why? i thought women were only supposed to keep hair on their heads..............(sorry if it sounds stupid, cant learn without asking questions).

This may sound stupid but do sikh women who keep their hair have also facial hair?