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Not every word is from sanskrit bibi ji , remember it was sapat sindh and Madardesh also those are sanskrit names

how do you know, did you go to the viah and see the daaj???BTW Guru Gobind Singh ji said that person who asks for daaj or sells their child (that is what daaj giving is buying a groom) is not my sikh

you're so funny , I object to laughing at domestic violence FULL STOP it is bad on women and bad on men ....i.e. equally bad on anyone . Laughing like a jack <banned word filter activated> doesn't change the world for the better , changing the actual attitude of acceptabilty of such mistreatment , i.e. talking about the true sad, bad nature of this world and making it better through action . I have seen the result of domestic violence, the poor girl have been driven crazy and had to live in social care housing with carers...we as a family befriended her and looked out for her . This left a lasting impression on us kids because we were little and saw first hand her pain. Next you will be posting rape culture jokes and say guys why are you not laughing ??? If your stomach hurts when Gurbani is mentioned what kind of sikh are you ?? Bani is my father mother everything ...that is where my salvation lies and I was giving examples of bairaag mai bani ... I would be glad to Guru ji's monkey ... He can keep me how he wants ...

Veer ji , How much Gurbani has Bairag in it, so much ? Mittar piare nu , 'Prabh kab gal lavange?' etc etc one can have the emotion in the midst of this world , maybe I was clumsy in words maybe 'lovelorn' is closer ...

you can get larger toothed kanga

I heard from kathavachaks and read that due to his bairagi avasta he was not inclined to joviality ... he was jodha in teens then became duniya tyagi, the he entered into 27years of bhagti what do you think ?

Bhainji which gursikh would find domestic violence and misogyny funny? I remember watching a program once on the mechanism of laughing , it is an outward sign of you thinking you are superior to the person/situation that you are laughing at , given that and also the sachia that Guru Teg Bahadur ji never once laughed in his whole life means that it's overrated and a tool to work on what we have going on inside us ... haumai mael

because of seriously crippling brain fart

I am hearing that you have support from your elders and they are keen for you both to work things out, remember that he was YOUR choice for over two years so there was some meeting of minds , can you not reignite that ? Is there other aspects to this situation like lack of son , money problems, career/job frustrations ? Sometimes guys are angry with something else but take it out on the person at home , unfair I know but it is a common thing. Marriage is not bollywood style or hollywood movie style , it is messy, tiring, sometimes up sometimes down much like life in general , if you both want to you can make it better or worse based on attitude and words. I do not agree with the other two bibis who are quick to jump to divorce , you have a lovely daughter and a loving family (agreed they didn't initially agree but they have changed to accept) it would be very chanchal and petulant to just do that . I am not saying take bad treatment but you need to face your own faults , and confront his role in this sad affair ...you really need to find out what his take is without the pressure of family . Maybe go on a day trip or weekend away together , sometimes we go into autopilot in married life especially after kids that we unthinkingly shut ourselves out from a close relationship with our LIFE partner, stop talking , just go through the routine of life. Have a break from that and reconnect as humans , as friends. Do ardas That Guru ji opens up your hearts again into sikhi and you get back on the path to true married life... Much love ...a veteran of twenty plus years ...stay in chardikala

sis , you are doing what you are accusing others of ....If we are sikhs we FOLLOW Guru ji's instructions and that's it . I have facial hair too and my husband still liked me enough BECAUSE of my sikh character to marry me ...so it is possible to have that blessing in your life , trust Akal Purakh and your Guru ji , give this problem up to Him .

Problem is so bad my eldest was beaten up and bullied by mona sikhs when he attended a sikh school ...when he was 3 ! These people are so full of fear and hatred that they are willing to attack a baby for wearing a patka . Reet is a person who is fear-filled because she believes media stories and rumour mills but she probably has no real experience of good true Gursikhs . Sikhi is the path of True Love

Bhainji teek aa?

Bro, The reason your faith do hijamat was to do with the original lack of water to wash as full bath in the desert locations, so removing of hair was considered to help with hygiene, but in the locations where water is plentiful there is no restriction in showering opportunities so keeping pristine hygiene is not a problem and therefore hijamat is not necessary . This has become ritualised somehow but thinking logically if you are true muslims and submit to Allah's will you will accept your body as He ordained it to be hair and all. Allah keeps bringing His Will to pass on your form but you think you need to correct Allah's work , not once, not twice but every time He bring His Will to pass ??? surely that is the height of EGO bro learn to live in His will: Keep your hygiene , use soap and water every day it's simple .

well the Hindus make money directly by stealing from golaks vie their lackeys why are we surprised the Muslims wont try also ... it's been going on for centuries ...Khalsa needs to inform the rest of the panth that such superstitions are fruitless . Bani is the truth Amrit we need .

sharabi bullies don't care about the dignity of anyone least of all family and the wife ....

it's India the land where a toddler gets raped for 2 hours and no one cares , a five year old gets runover and dies because no one would help her off the road so she gets runover two more times and dies... Sikhs are just like the rest waiting for someone else to step in . I would have grabbed that jutti and first kicked the old guy's legs out from under him then set to the H£$%^i who filmed the attack .

where do you live ? because in the UK you will not have such a problem , just buy a single use charcoal bbq tray , light it and burn your pamphlets after ardas . when it burns out you can dispose the tray ...

obviously you did not read gurbani enough ...the responsibility to make it in to the world is your own bhagti becoming safal whilst in the womb nothing to do with your mother, but, then again this is your MO blame any woman in your life for your own lack ... You get the Mother Akal Purakh has decided you get , man up and do your own paat.

bro you have major problems about sikhi ...even misspelling fairly common words ... if you are unhappy about your life path why put others off from sikhi aren't you scared of Akal Purakh's warnings ?

bro wishing against Guruji's Hukham is a foolish move ... try doing ardas that you have wisdom and santokh to accept His will

They managed to arrest him after a shoot out

one is worth 125,000 ...so plenty

yes there is a video of a japanese bibi who fell in love with Guru ji and is full amrithari dastarwali singhni

little sis , why do you want to get married into a faith that will restrict yur rights as a human being and a mother ? You do know that you will have zero say in the faith of your children they WILL be muslims . How much do you know about your own faith to be so quick to abandon its freedoms?

why are you encouraging a child of 15 i.e. underage to do the bollywood thing , grow up and stop being a lousy sikh ...never encourage a new sikh to go outside Guru ji's advice ...