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Maybe she needs change of place like a rest from her new life to be able to see things from a distance. Make sure too it's not depression settling into her. Stubborn ness stems from lack of attention too I suppose. Girls traditionally do visit their mums house after delivery. Settling into a new family is demanding work as everything is different. It can take a number of years to get comfortable with in laws sometimes. If she is very young then remember young and foolish --this is where you let emotions get the better of you because you are not quite sure of life's rules. She probably just needs your mum to talk to her in a way and explain to her how to behave better. This is best done when she is at yours and not at in laws. The demands of a little baby, lack of sleep and reduced bodily strength does take it's toll on the mind especially after an operation. Restlessness creeps in and patience goes out of the window. However it's just a passing phase. Nothing solid to worry about.

Why reply to a thread 8 years old. The guys probably forgotten her and is now happily married. LOL. Doing bhagti coz he's peaceful now. And she's got 3 kids to keep her busy while her beloved hubby is out on an overnight trip earning money for his family.

This eggless cake is healthy too and it has never failed me. Healthy ingredients too. http://food.ndtv.com/recipe-eggless-atta-cake-99179 Adding chocolate to the recipe yields a chocolate cake. Unlike other cakes using plain flour, this cake does not take long to mix. However I reduce the temperatute to 140 degrees. Maybe the oven is still new, so it retains heat better. I noticed that eggless cakes which have yoghurt as an ingredient in them cook better. Yoghurt is actually an egg replacer. Sometimes if the seal in the oven is old then some cakes do not rise. When choosing an eggless cake recipe if yoghurt is one of the ingredients then the chances of success are greater. A list of hints on eggless cakes and 10 best recipes. http://food.ndtv.com/lists/10-best-eggless-cake-recipes-754188

Mala gives a satisfaction of having completed one mala and want to go on to the next one though. I think the same principle applies to both methods. You got to know when to press the button or turn to the next bead. The counter can be carried with you anywhere while the mala raises eye brows. Perhaps other people (non-sikhs) have also discovered a new angle to the mala. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/04/the-power-of-mala-beads-michelle-belair/

As with everything, practice makes perfect. A mala is hard to start using as you sometimes forget to turn the bead or find you have turned too many and not done the path. This happens when you are tired and not concentrating. What helps if first you get the mool mantra rhythm without mala. Then when using mala train your mind and fingers to only go tothe next bead when you come to saying ik... one bead one God. Otherwise using an alarm clock to keep time like sitting for an hour or twelve minutes allows you to concentrate purely on path alone and works super too. Leave the individual counting to anterjami God, while you enjoy the ras. The more you do the more you will know what method suits you the best.

No problem. Hope you get inspired into doing regular simran and nitnem. Keep us posted on how it works for you in case others want to try too.

A bibi of high avasta some time ago was talking about a giani ji who did amazing katha on the end of time from dasam granth. She didn't mention aliens. However she was sad at the fact that the giani ji was murdered soon after. The main reason being that people did not want this sort of parchaar. I have also heard that Guru Gobind Singh has predicted yhat there will be langar served from some buried money in kalyug near end times. However I don't remember the exact guradwara.

I had to write a ufo ebook and the research results were so scary that I never slept for 3 months. There is a website onlune where real people talk about their experiences. I never went into the topic again. However time has allowed me to put to and two together andend up with a sane conclusion. There are scary pics of foetus which have come out of real people. The plan is to rid the world of God loving people and fill it with their own evil. It will eventually happen. Therefore we need to pray hard that we are not here to see those days.

No concrete proof of alien life has been found and yet people are having experiences of aliens flying around in spaceships. These are all created out of maya. They have other powers as well especially mind control. They even try to mate with the human race and create offsrpring This is not new as there is a reference in the Bible as well when angels descended to earth and tried to create their own race with humans. The demons approach mostly people in high positions especially in the military. There are labs where scientists carry out experiments esp the area 51. The devil is very clever and has a whole very evil system with millions working for him. So does God have a whole big system working for the good of us all. Therefore we should be able to choose where we want to be.

I believe aliens are just demons who try to approach humans and lead them astray

http://www.panthkhalsa.org/naamnet/Naam_Net.html Go the link above, click on where it says subscribe and send them a message and then wait for a reply. I think that is the only way I can find. Note that it is not a site like this one where you can talk on a forum. Naam net is a site where you have to do your allocated simran first in order to be able to send a message. That way you are driven to perform your nitnem and simran first before anything else.

Bad planning of time. If your day does not have prayer times which you strictly adhere to everyday, it will be a sad downward journey. If you waste your time during the day you will have less for simran. If you are not aiming to creating new good habits then you find some bad ones creeping in. Excuses: justifying to yourself that the present situation you find yourself in is good enough and doing nothing to put in effort to remedy your weaknesses.

My dad had a mamaji who ate meat on a sunday - chicken - slaughtered and cooked by himself. He read a lot of sakhis never missed nitnem and was an active member of the Guradwara. However we are classed as Ramgarhias. Meat addicts exist even in the roop of giani jis. There was a party where food serving was not going on too well. My brother was shocked to see the giani jis order a plate of meat and tuck in. Personally I think it is when you dont know how to cook vegs and cant be bothered to learn, meat comes in much handy.

seems like the line lakh lakh oathai jati hai, satio tai sanias is missing in the hand written copy... please add. vadiriye means to claim to be greatest of all

“Slok Mehla 1 jit dar lakh mohamda, lakh brahmai bishan mehesh lakh lakh ram vadirieh lakh rahi lakh vais. lakh lakh oathai jati hai, satio tai sanias. lakh lakh oathai gorkha lakh lakh natha nath.” Translation - “At God’s door there are a hundred thousand Muhammads and a hundred thousand Brahmas, Vishnus and Shivas. There are hundreds of thousand of Ramas, who claim to be greatest of all, and there are hundreds of thousand of “ways” (religions) and hundreds and thousand of sectarian garbs. There are hundreds of thousand of celibates, philanthropists and ascetics. There are hundreds of thousand of Gorakhs and hundreds of thousand of Masters of the Jogis.”

Full salok is in bhai bala janam sakhi 125 I think. The above jpeg is a copy I have of it from a shabads book that somebody lent me 25 years back.

The Mystery Revealed The readers will be surprised to know that those who tampered with the hand-written copies of the Holy Book and inserted fake compositions into them, were no others, than the Niranjanias, who were responsible for writing of the mischievous Bhai Bala’s Janamsakhi!! The readers will recollect that the fake compositions were inserted in the hand-written copies of the Holy Book, after “Mundhawani”. The first of such composition was “Slok Mehla 1, jit dar lakh mohammda”. In the copy of the Holy Book of Pindi Lala (district Gujarat), it has been written “Slok tatha gosht Malar nal hoei.” The next fake composition included in the copies of the Holy book was - “vir slamalaikh braey khudai sach chou, dageh kitnai saikh. jaia bijai lunai so, hukmi milai so khai. nanak sachai nam bin , badha dukh saheh. (2)” http://srec.gurmat.info/srecpublications/aboutcompilationofsrigurugranthsahib/chapter11/

Everything possible it should be noted too - with kirpa from Guru Ji

Jit dhar lakh muhandha.zip It is not a true composition

Lets see how bujjer kurehet comes about - fornication or adultery. First you see somebody. Set your eyes on them - and start having dreams about - certain things. You decide you like the person. Obviously at this time - you are not doing your simran or thinking about God. You are having your own ras. Eh ras vidar gae ras aaorr. If you are not having ras from waheguru jap, then you will start to have ras from other sources. Eventually, you device a plan to approach the person and get phone number. You meet somewhere, talk, kiss hold hands and make further plans to meet. Up to this point it is still not a bujjer kurehet. However you have planted the seeds of a bujjer kurehet which will soon be talking place is you dont handle this situation which your eyes, mind, ears, body have you led you into. Therefore satgur jI provides you with a foolproof plan in which to avoid falling into the bujjer kurehet. This plan is control your thoughts. If you in your mind had boundaries - that every girl or woman you see is your mum or sister - then these thoughts will not enter your mind. However sometimes you can get swept away by these thoughts. These thoughts are normal thoughts - which we have because of our hormones. This is the way nature works. This is the way you will also meet your future partner. However God helps Gurmukhs to have utmost control so that they are able to wait until marriage and don't engage in fornication. When you have been blinded and swept away by these thoughts, you have failed in your commitment to Guru Ji. Bad evil lusty thoughts exist in you which do not allow you to do simran with one mind. You become mun hor mukh hor. You are preaching to others what you are not practicing. You have now sinned big time and you have to be punished. If you are not punished here, then you will be punished after death. Nothing that you do goes unwritten and unrecorded. gharhi gharhi ka lekha maange. Every thing you do will be called into account. So in order to clear yourself from this account - which you clear after you die - you do it now through the punj peyare - get tankhah or punishment. This way when you die you will not have to go to hell to give this account. This account can also be cleared by Naam jap however it takes much longer. We have committed so many sins which weigh our souls down. We are not able to reach God because of them. Constant Naam simran will enable us to purify ourselves so that we dont have to be born again. Our aim is to escape the janam maran dha chakar which we have been stuck in for millions of years. Vin gun kite bhagat na hoi. nadar kare ta simreya jae. It is Satgur themselves who will grant us their grace so that we are able to engage in simran and start our journey which is to purify ourselves. You have to try to manage to have simran going on in your body at all times in order to be made one with God and hence you will not be sent on earth again. Otherwise all other powers will still pull you into the birth and death cycle. This simran is so powerful that it will fill you with the power of God which when you have, then you dont get these thoughts in the first place. Therefore it is important to always not miss your path and simran, because these are your protection at all times. There are many forces which are looking to drag you down at all times. Therefore you need to try to keep Waheguru in mind at all times as much as you possible can.

Forgetting to say Waheguru is the biggest bujjer kurehet... wonder how that is punished?

You have got all the reason to be greatly excited because there is very exciting news for you in black and white. (as you always require) Assuming you are a Gurmukh, this is what has been written about marriage in the SGGS Ang 372 However it does mean that you can do whatever you want. You have to exercise self control and make the right choices. Enjoyment does not always lie in fast cars and etc....(I wonder where you get all that from- hyperactive brain) The Guru has not preached instinctive behaviour anywhere. It is the enjoyment of life and getting the bliss and satisfaction out of every breath you take and be thankful for it and use it to become one with your creator. Marriage is a state where you get to practice the best of your virtues with a partner to help. You contribute the most important things to the human race and to your religion as well. If you sit and moan and don't enjoy and use your married life and be happy and fruitful with it, then you have only yourself to blame. If you only choose to look at the half side of the cup which is empty then it is your own misgiving. You reap depression and sorrow and end up regretting why you got married at all. Up and alive, active spirit, teyaar bar teyaar always thankful and ready to help others is the spirit of the Khalsa. Marriage is not a black and white written book of no nos given to us. The amount of ignorance and negative thoughts prevalent amongst us is shocking keeping in mind that we have been given the best spiritual guidance in the world - the SGGS. The rates of divorces, depression, child abuse, wife abuse and sad empty depressing marriages and married people too is alarming!!! Āsā mėhlā 5. Aasaa, Fifth Mehl: ਗੁਨੁ ਅਵਗਨੁ ਮੇਰੋ ਕਛੁ ਨ ਬੀਚਾਰੋ ॥ गुनु अवगनु मेरो कछु न बीचारो ॥ Gun avgan mero kacẖẖ na bīcẖāro. He does not consider my merits or demerits. ਨਹ ਦੇਖਿਓ ਰੂਪ ਰੰਗ ਸੀਗਾਰੋ ॥ नह देखिओ रूप रंग सींगारो ॥ Nah ḏekẖi▫o rūp rang sīʼngāro. He does not look at my beauty, color or decorations. ਚਜ ਅਚਾਰ ਕਿਛੁ ਬਿਧਿ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਨੀ ॥ चज अचार किछु बिधि नही जानी ॥ Cẖaj acẖār kicẖẖ biḏẖ nahī jānī. I do not know the ways of wisdom and good conduct. ਬਾਹ ਪਕਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਿਅ ਸੇਜੈ ਆਨੀ ॥੧॥ बाह पकरि प्रिअ सेजै आनी ॥१॥ Bāh pakar pari▫a sejai ānī. ||1|| But taking me by the arm, my Husband Lord has led me to His Bed. ||1|| ਸੁਨਿਬੋ ਸਖੀ ਕੰਤਿ ਹਮਾਰੋ ਕੀਅਲੋ ਖਸਮਾਨਾ ॥ सुनिबो सखी कंति हमारो कीअलो खसमाना ॥ Sunibo sakẖī kanṯ hamāro kī▫alo kẖasmānā. Hear, O my companions, my Husband, my Lord Master, possesses me. ਕਰੁ ਮਸਤਕਿ ਧਾਰਿ ਰਾਖਿਓ ਕਰਿ ਅਪੁਨਾ ਕਿਆ ਜਾਨੈ ਇਹੁ ਲੋਕੁ ਅਜਾਨਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ करु मसतकि धारि राखिओ करि अपुना किआ जानै इहु लोकु अजाना ॥१॥ रहाउ ॥ Kar masṯak ḏẖār rākẖi▫o kar apunā ki▫ā jānai ih lok ajānā. ||1|| rahā▫o. Placing His Hand upon my forehead, He protects me as His Own. What do these ignorant people know? ||1||Pause|| ਸੁਹਾਗੁ ਹਮਾਰੋ ਅਬ ਹੁਣਿ ਸੋਹਿਓ ॥ सुहागु हमारो अब हुणि सोहिओ ॥ Suhāg hamāro ab huṇ sohi▫o. My married life now appears so beauteous; ਕੰਤੁ ਮਿਲਿਓ ਮੇਰੋ ਸਭੁ ਦੁਖੁ ਜੋਹਿਓ ॥ कंतु मिलिओ मेरो सभु दुखु जोहिओ ॥ Kanṯ mili▫o mero sabẖ ḏukẖ johi▫o. my Husband Lord has met me, and He sees all my pains. ਆਂਗਨਿ ਮੇਰੈ ਸੋਭਾ ਚੰਦ ॥ आंगनि मेरै सोभा चंद ॥ Āʼngan merai sobẖā cẖanḏ. Within the courtyard of my heart, the glory of the moon shines. ਨਿਸਿ ਬਾਸੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਿਅ ਸੰਗਿ ਅਨੰਦ ॥੨॥ निसि बासुर प्रिअ संगि अनंद ॥२॥ Nis bāsur pari▫a sang anand. ||2|| Night and day, I have fun with my Beloved. ||2|| ਬਸਤ੍ਰ ਹਮਾਰੇ ਰੰਗਿ ਚਲੂਲ ॥ बसत्र हमारे रंगि चलूल ॥ Basṯar hamāre rang cẖalūl. My clothes are dyed the deep crimson color of the poppy. ਸਗਲ ਆਭਰਣ ਸੋਭਾ ਕੰਠਿ ਫੂਲ ॥ सगल आभरण सोभा कंठि फूल ॥ Sagal ābẖraṇ sobẖā kanṯẖ fūl. All the ornaments and garlands around my neck adorn me. ਪ੍ਰਿਅ ਪੇਖੀ ਦ੍ਰਿਸਟਿ ਪਾਏ ਸਗਲ ਨਿਧਾਨ ॥ प्रिअ पेखी द्रिसटि पाए सगल निधान ॥ Pari▫a pekẖī ḏarisat pā▫e sagal niḏẖān. Gazing upon my Beloved with my eyes, I have obtained all treasures; ਦੁਸਟ ਦੂਤ ਕੀ ਚੂਕੀ ਕਾਨਿ ॥੩॥ दुसट दूत की चूकी कानि ॥३॥ Ḏusat ḏūṯ kī cẖūkī kān. ||3|| I have shaken off the power of the evil demons. ||3|| ਸਦ ਖੁਸੀਆ ਸਦਾ ਰੰਗ ਮਾਣੇ ॥ सद खुसीआ सदा रंग माणे ॥ Saḏ kẖusī▫ā saḏā rang māṇe. I have obtained eternal bliss, and I constantly celebrate. ਨਉ ਨਿਧਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਮਹਿ ਤ੍ਰਿਪਤਾਨੇ ॥ नउ निधि नामु ग्रिह महि त्रिपताने ॥ Na▫o niḏẖ nām garih mėh ṯaripṯāne. With the nine treasures of the Naam, the Name of the Lord, I am satisfied in my own home. ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਜਉ ਪਿਰਹਿ ਸੀਗਾਰੀ ॥ कहु नानक जउ पिरहि सीगारी ॥ Kaho Nānak ja▫o pirėh sīgārī. Says Nanak, when the happy soul-bride is adorned by her Beloved, ਥਿਰੁ ਸੋਹਾਗਨਿ ਸੰਗਿ ਭਤਾਰੀ ॥੪॥੭॥ थिरु सोहागनि संगि भतारी ॥४॥७॥ Thir sohāgan sang bẖaṯārī. ||4||7|| she is forever happy with her Husband Lord. ||4||7|| I wonder why we named marriage anand karaj? why do we celebrate like mad and wear our best clothes and spend so much on marriages? Why is it that people who are not married want to get married, earn for a partner, pray several prayers and do ardaas in every place possible for a good partner ? Why is it that the best glowing and happiest faces we have ever seen is when two people are getting married ? Step out of theory and into reality. God himself comes into the gristi and enjoys grist jeevan. ਗਿਰਹੀ ਮਹਿ ਸਦਾ ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਉਦਾਸੀ ਗਿਆਨ ਤਤ ਬੀਚਾਰੀ ॥ ਸਤਿਗ੝ਰ੝ ਸੇਵਿ ਸਦਾ ਸ੝ਖ੝ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਰਾਖਿਆ ਉਰ ਧਾਰੀ ॥੨॥ Girhī meh saḝĝ har jan uḝĝsī gi­ĝn ṯaṯ bīcẖĝrī. Saṯgur sėv saḝĝ sukẖ pĝ­i­ĝ har rĝkẖi­ĝ ur ḝẖĝrī. (2) Immersed in family life, the Lord's humble servant ever remains detached; he reflects upon the essence of spiritual wisdom. Serving the True Guru, he finds eternal peace, and he keeps the Lord enshrined in his heart. (2) Whilst in married life, practice your religion too. Even God enjoys his marriage to us - his soul brides. ਖਿਮਾ ਸੀਗਾਰ ਕਰੇ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਖੁਸੀਆ ਮਨਿ ਦੀਪਕ ਗੁਰ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਬਲਈਆ ॥ खिमा सीगार करे प्रभ खुसीआ मनि दीपक गुर गिआनु बलईआ ॥ Kẖimā sīgār kare parabẖ kẖusī▫ā man ḏīpak gur gi▫ān bala▫ī▫ā. If the soul-bride adorns herself with compassion and forgiveness, God is pleased, and her mind is illumined with the lamp of the Guru's wisdom. ਰਸਿ ਰਸਿ ਭੋਗ ਕਰੇ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਮੇਰਾ ਹਮ ਤਿਸੁ ਆਗੈ ਜੀਉ ਕਟਿ ਕਟਿ ਪਈਆ ॥੫॥ रसि रसि भोग करे प्रभु मेरा हम तिसु आगै जीउ कटि कटि पईआ ॥५॥ Ras ras bẖog kare parabẖ merā ham ṯis āgai jī▫o kat kat pa▫ī▫ā. ||5|| With happiness and ecstasy, my God enjoys her; I offer each and every bit of my soul to Him. ||5||

SGGS Ang 304 The lines below can be referring to Amrit sanchaar as this is where you publicly associate yourself with your Guru. ਜੋ ਗੁਰੁ ਗੋਪੇ ਆਪਣਾ ਸੁ ਭਲਾ ਨਾਹੀ ਪੰਚਹੁ ਓਨਿ ਲਾਹਾ ਮੂਲੁ ਸਭੁ ਗਵਾਇਆ ॥ जो गुरु गोपे आपणा सु भला नाही पंचहु ओनि लाहा मूलु सभु गवाइआ ॥ Jo gur gope āpṇā so bẖalā nāhī pancẖahu on lāhā mūl sabẖ gavā▫i▫ā. O chosen people, O self-elect, one who does not publicly affirm his Guru is not a good person; he loses all his profits and capital. ਪਹਿਲਾ ਆਗਮੁ ਨਿਗਮੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਆਖਿ ਸੁਣਾਏ ਪੂਰੇ ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਬਚਨੁ ਉਪਰਿ ਆਇਆ ॥ पहिला आगमु निगमु नानकु आखि सुणाए पूरे गुर का बचनु उपरि आइआ ॥ Pahilā āgam nigam Nānak ākẖ suṇā▫e pūre gur kā bacẖan upar ā▫i▫ā. People used to chant and recite the Shaastras and the Vedas, O Nanak, but now the Words of the Perfect Guru have come to be the most exalted of all. ਗੁਰਸਿਖਾ ਵਡਿਆਈ ਭਾਵੈ ਗੁਰ ਪੂਰੇ ਕੀ ਮਨਮੁਖਾ ਓਹ ਵੇਲਾ ਹਥਿ ਨ ਆਇਆ ॥੨॥ गुरसिखा वडिआई भावै गुर पूरे की मनमुखा ओह वेला हथि न आइआ ॥२॥ Gursikẖā vadi▫ā▫ī bẖāvai gur pūre kī manmukẖā oh velā hath na ā▫i▫ā. ||2|| The glorious greatness of the Perfect Guru is pleasing to the GurSikh; the self-willed manmukhs have lost this opportunity. ||2|| On the same Ang below you have line which talk about faces blackened. ਜਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਸੇਵੇ ਆਪੁ ਗਣਾਇਦੇ ਤਿਨ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਕੂੜੁ ਫਿਟੁ ਫਿਟੁ ਮੁਹ ਫਿਕੇ ॥ जि बिनु सतिगुर सेवे आपु गणाइदे तिन अंदरि कूड़ु फिटु फिटु मुह फिके ॥ Jė bin saṯgur seve āp gaṇā▫iḏe ṯin anḏar kūṛ fit fit muh fike. One who does not serve the True Guru, and who praises himself, is filled with falsehood within. Cursed, cursed is his ugly face. ਓਇ ਬੋਲੇ ਕਿਸੈ ਨ ਭਾਵਨੀ ਮੁਹ ਕਾਲੇ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਤੇ ਚੁਕੇ ॥੮॥ ओइ बोले किसै न भावनी मुह काले सतिगुर ते चुके ॥८॥ O▫e bole kisai na bẖāvnī muh kāle saṯgur ṯe cẖuke. ||8|| His words are not pleasing to anyone; his face is blackened, and he is separated from the True Guru. ||8||

It may work by downloading the scribd app, else best to access it on computer.Else just try going to the ebooks section on the top right hand side of the home page of this site. Look for the ebooks of naam net and read them.

The route to marriage is strewn with loads of pain confusion and emotions. However once you are there, for some it is bliss. It is a complete change of life. Everything about your life has been written down beforehand. https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=chinta+mat+karo&oq=chinta+mat+karo&aqs=chrome..69i57.9145j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Most people I know have gone through loads however they have now settled down peacefully