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Guru Gobind Singh did not say that there will be a twelfth guru after “Sri guru granth sahib”. About the naamdhari argument you can go very far with that. Most sikhs are converted from hindu and muslims. Before the mulsims were converted buddhists in punjab. Before the buddhists were converted hindus which were converted jains in which before there were tribal religions. You can go very far with that.

Ok so I read your post scratching my head i.e I do not understand what you are trying to say ?? who is “Sant thakur ji?”

What topics do the fights and drama consists of that causes alot of stress and drama at your house? What do you guys fight about? is it about your boyfriend?

Before we go on and and tell you how to handle this. When I read between the lines. Do you want get married to this indian girl willingly?

Remember this from long ago? Ah I have been waiting on this topic to show up. Let us find out why the future of sikhi are addicted It does start on a early age. While the parent(s) are to busy with work and stress. The smartphone is parents best babysitter that can take care of them while going to the bathrom. If you do not live in the US and do not have access to youtube kids. Then your kids watch stuff like spiderman and elsa from the movie Frozen being sexual with each other. Basically porn will affect the whole society. If you find that video on google (which is nsfw for 18+) at around 28:00 you will see the story of Randeep paji that tells tyger about his problem with porn which is very interesting to listen to. Her full lecture (Gail Dines) is also really interesting. Porn addiction it should be classed the same as heroin addiction. In canada is classed as a health hazrd for the population according to her. Men want thier woman to look like Sunny Leone.

I think mostly it is related to stress and lack of sleep. That said. I think you should follow ms514 pajis advice on letting the white hair go and having it . Even if you became a yogi, you can only slow the aging process and never stop it completly. Like our guru says in SGGS, everyday sons go 1 day closer to akal purukh. VJKK VJKF /Cloud

Wait this thread got resurrected. This guy is now 17. Keep it up!

Hold up. Why did you pull out your hair to begin with? Is it due to Trichotillomania?

Have you tried switching to Green or Herbal Tea?

This video will help you get started! VJKK VJKF /Cloud

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Hold your horses. If he did that scene in front of the Sri Guru Granth Sahib I think some of your comments are valid. But I believe that he did not do that because I believe he knows his audience and the backslash from the fallout as well. For that reference I just the video "Punjabi Television BREAKDOWN". Lets adress the issue at 9:50. I believe that Bhai Manvir Singh is doing a good job. If you guys want that part with english part I can also provide that as well. That is why people like Basics of Sikhi are trying to remedy that problem by first adressing what anand karaj is. Saying that sikhi comes from the guru not what you think someone sikhism or what the gurus called it gursikhi. These parcharaks are trying to educate us on what these things are. I believe that even jusreign is doing it. That is for example what made Basics of Sikhi his videos in the beginning that he wanted to answer alot of basics questions that are not answered by islam missionaries. They are trying to bring a change in our panth so that what jusreign just posted does not become normal in the future. That is why they are trying to give courses on not marriage but on anand karaj which there is a difference! VJKK VJKF /Cloud

Instead of debating if punjabi girls are better then western girl can we not help our brother in need when he is pleading the with sadh sangat? As someone who have had a similair experiance. Even contemplating suicide at that time. My question to you Pappi is are you divorced with this woman?

Fair enough. To be more specific the "tragedy" from the "golden age" of "glory days" of when you went to a gurdwara to what you experianced going to that specific gurdwara you went to today in 2017. The resource I will give you is this playlist. If you want because it has at least 20+ hours of material. But I would specifically want you to focus from 1801 - 1925 and 1925 - 1984 and forward. This is the series made by The Basics of Sikhi. Personally I have never heard Nanak Naam channel. I will check it out now.

"Either there are no answers or there are no satisfactory answers." - Radhanath Swami To understand this lecture watch the whole video. Now that you know the answer, should you stop complaining? Should we all stop complaining about what we think are bad? Including myself? I have meningitis and PTSD, it affects my studies in such a degree that my memory is like a 3-5 year old and because of that I can not keep a job as well as I have lost more then 4 jobs already. It makes it difficult to pass exams as well, I can not memorize my studies even if my life depended on it. My parents are in thier 60s and I worry that they will get dementia / alzheimer's and that I have to take care of them. I can write more when I got my cancer diagnosis but I think you get the point. So what am I supposed to do? Just lay down and die? No! I am not a depressed teenager anymore. I went to the internet to find the answers, because of course the answers are there. What I started to do was to first research on the internet because of course, how should I take care of my health during cancer? So I searched around the net and I gathered was that I should see after my own needs first and that I should have control over the life choices I make in life when it comes to cancer diagnosis. "Well, maybe in my next life." I thought: "I can not change s*** in my life." I mean I live in a punjabi family for Vaheguru's sake. But I think we all have choices in our lives. That is the gift that Vaheguru gave us. So what did I do? I started to change diet, for example Low Carb after I listened to the audiobook Grain Brain I try not to eat sugar at all any more. I try to do more Sadhana so that I can focus alot more on studies and on my life and ishnaan / cold showers to make my meningitis less painful. Trying to be physically, mentally and spiritually balance to deal with the issues in my life. So what I want to say is that as the lecture above mentions, focusing on your Sadhana will help you with alot of problems. Some more answers of karma. VJKK VJKF Cloud

To answer this question I will just copy paste what I wrote here: http://answers.sikhnet.com/question/9590/amritdhari-women-and-dresses/http://answers.sikhnet.com/question/9590/amritdhari-women-and-dresses/ VJKK VJKF /Cloud

Are you talking about youtube videos?

Not all gurdwaras are punjabi social clubs although most of them started that way. Before I answer your question, how much of sikh history do you know?

Alright. To clarify. Source: http://answers.sikhnet.com/question/10870/my-husband-is-amritdhaari-sikh-and-he-is-divorcing-me-after-domestic-violence-and-abuse-i-still-believed-that-my-husband-loved-me-i-cant-let-go-of-the/

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I was watching this video If you watch between 15:00-38:00 He is talking about Lareevar. https://www.sikhnet.com/pages/lareevar I would like to know if there is any place that can teach me to read Lareevar in Europe? VJKK VJKF /Cloud

When your parents came to UK for 25+ years ago. Alot of things were different then in Punjab compared to their new country. Usually when any family moves to another country, one coping defense mechanism to deal with the situation is to hold on tradition and values. That is basically what your parents have done. This will affect your parents and your brothers judgement when selecting a partner for your brother. Mostly they think that if they can choose a country girl that does not have access to internet they can then "mold" that country girl to your brothers future with that girl. Unfortunetly that country girl after getting married to your brother then want to go to Paris fashion week 2018 and become a modern sikh woman. This is a example what your parents see when they think of women in UK, US, CANADA etc. https://www.youtube.com/v/LFebWgqUtRY?start=27&end=420 Watch this until 7:17. Safe for work. That said I would just like to give you a word of advice. Right now in India was not what is what 25+ years ago. What is going on is a "Woodstock sexual revolution" were young teenage girls have to choose between view of women in India which has been so distorted by the moghals for 800-1000 years which treat them like cattle or like a group of consumers in the modern consumer culture which is right now consuming the consciousness of mankind. Most of them will choose the consumer ones of course. They will think this is 2017! They do not know of the "bad" sides of consumer culture like Bibi Sat Kirin Kaur. Good luck penji VVJK VJKF

Penji. Put your degree at work and just leave him. I am suprised he did not get into jail for drunk driving endangering innocent peoples lives. Let me tell you something, you may not like to live with him but he does not want to be in his situation right now either based on my experience when I got arranged married by force. According to what you wrote he is texting other girls which means he maybe did not choose to get married either. And he is using alcoholism to deal with his issues. When he will not use the guru as an anchor to deal with his issues, did your parents even marry you off to a sikh? Your parents say that in sikhism there is no divorce. Well alot of people these days can not make a difference between anand karaj and marriage in sikhism. https://www.sikhnet.com/news/anand-karaj-and-lavan There are other good sources like basics of sikhi and Jagraj talk on "modern" anand karaj etc. Speaking of divorce. http://answers.sikhnet.com/question/9892/sikhism-on-divorce-and-re-marriage/ Your case is a clearly a karmic marriage as referred to the 3rd question. VJKK VJKF

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