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Not sure tbh maybe some1 else will know

Chamkila on stage in canada said that the he gave singhs some money and they agreed that he can continue singing. This was a lie and the karkhoo singhs took it as a big insult. Singhs were fighting for the kaum why would they take money from chamkila who was poor anyway. Chamkila also ran away with another mans wife. Amarjot was a married woman. Shows you low his morals were. Some people were saying that other singers shot him because they were jealous of his success. Some said people from the tarkhan community shot him because amarjot was a tarkhan and she left her husband to sing with chamkila who was a chamar. Loads of theories came out. But it was kharkoos who killed him. Old songs like chamkilas were a lot more dirty with the lyrics than new songs. Main problem with new songs is the videos are dirty. Still rubbish songs though

Nothing wrong with marrying someone of your own caste/background but when you start thinking your better than another sikh or that your below another sikh because of your caste then you are very wrong and against gurus sikhi. All the gurus married within their own caste, in fact I dont think there is a single case of a sikh from our ithiaas who marries out of his caste. But at the same time they all ate together regardless of their background. I have no problem with marrying outside my caste but some Some sikhs have different cultures depending on their caste and these cultures will clash after marriage. Like I come from a very traditional family and I cant see myself marrying someone who is a khatri because culturally they can be very different and our families will just not gel. The cultural difference will get in the way. But at the same time there should be no discrimination. Regional differences can create cultural clashes aswell. I come from a traditional doabi family and will have to mary some from doaba, not only can the culture be different but the dialect too. Iike one of my cousins married a girl from a village near amritsar and there have been so many cultural clashes that the marriage almost ended up in divorce. When they used to argue especially the girls mother you could only understand around 75 % of what shes saying the rest would be some local amritsar pind words! And the swear words she would say were filthy. We all come from diverse backgrounds and its important to take all this into account when getting married especially when you come from a traditional family If your from a more modern gorafyed family then I doubt any of this would be a problem. Regardless respect each other and dont see yourself as higher or lower because of your caste.

Most the people being converted are dalit hindus in punjab but other communities too. I think the government is playing some kind of role in this

A singh will look like a gay if he wears something like that.

I only give charity to the british sikh council. They do a lot of work and have videos showing the development of their projects so I guess they are reliable!

Nothings gnna happen to him because he also is another ethnic minority, the police are to scared in getting involved in cases of one minority attacking another minority. Such cases are just brushed under the carpet. Only thing that will happen is some kid probabaly will break this kids teeth and his ammi will have to feed him halal meat liquid through a tube

I know a gujrati girl married to a punjabi guy and she went punjab for the first time and she hated it her in laws were trying to control her, they said they dont like how she dresses and that she dresses like a bhaiya rani. Dumb fvcks . Poor girl was texting me the whole time telling me stuff and asking me what shes doing wrong.

Sikligar sikh women Sangat at hazur sahib

Exactly, I can see some of these singhs telling non Punjabi sikh jananis that they shouldn't wear sarees because it's not a sikh dress, then what about their own british amritdhari wives that wear Jean's and t shirts? Is that a sikh dress? Double standards. If their aadmis dont have a problem with their women wearing sarees and if it's part of their culture then there is not wrong with it. Salwar kameej has got nothing to do with sikhi, it was given to us while the muslims were invading and raping punjabis

Lol this forum does make you write stuff that you would NEVER talk about with someone face to face lol. I guess it because your basically anonymous lol. As iv written on this thread that i went under the knife down there but in real I havent told anyone lol not even friends or family know haha. I think, and I'm not sure but I think I did tell a female friend but that's about it. But yh coz your anonymous on here your able to talk about and write stuff which you never would with someone face to face.

Southall nagar kirtan has been postponed

Sikh women at hazur sahib and sikligar sikh women and countless other sikh communities outside of punjab where sarees, are you gnna tell them that they can not wear sarees now? It's their culture and they can wear it. You cant tell people from non punjabi sikh backgrounds to stop following their culture. If you want sikhi to spread then expect diversity. In some parts of India for a married woman to wear salwar kameej is considered socially not acceptable

Yh you can but not anand Karaj as that is only for sikhs so you might have to do hindu marriage or registry marriage etc ...

Around here all the rice, atta, besan flour is sold. Asian section shelves in tesco are nearly empty. Might buy some atta for roti just incase

I think they gnna kill a lot of old people off mainly and save pensions. Borris yesterday said that a lot of loved ones are gnna die

Yh in public toilets iv seen goreh not washing their hands after p1ssing. That's just nasty.

its basically a birth chart that bhamans make for you, it looks like a diagram. you tell them your date of birth, time of birth and place and they make a chart for you which predicts the events in your life, it also includes stuff like auspicious phases and bad/dark phases in your life and all the rest. so when you get married you take the kundlis of the boy and girl to the bhamans and he checks if the kundlis correspond, if they dont then the marriage is bad luck, if they do correspond then they need to match the kundlis and see which time and date would be auspicious for the marriage, if you get married at the wrong date and time then the marriage is doomed lol i think kundlis are based on the stars and the solar system and eclipses etc kundlis also tell you if you are mangleek, if you are then your supposed to get married to a tree first. my mami matched her son/ my cousins kundli with his wife to be and asked the bhaman what the right date for the marriage would be etc and the bhaman at the mandir gave her a date. the marriage flopped within a year and my cousin soon after passed away ..... still don't know why people follow this rubbish to this day

yh im pretty sure she practiced that sh1t. her peke practiced jadoo toona as well, my nani was saying how when that woman first came to our house after she got married the nxt morning my mama found a bunch of beads tucked under his pillow lol! same thing happened with her daughter in law! her daughter in law found beads tucked under her pillow as well. her daughter in law then showed my nani the beads and my nani told her to throw the beads in the fire under the chula. this is what my nani had to live with her whole life! shes now moved to canada and was telling my mum that shes found a mandir in her neighborhood and goes there all the time lol! no surprises there then ...

My mami is from a sikh family but she never lived as a sikh. She believed in devi devte and used to do pooja of the photos of durga and Lakshmi in her room. She also followed a lot of dera type babeh and used to go to them for advice. She used to have weird superstitions like she kept stones under her pillow, didnt wash her hair certain days, the manjha had to be positioned certain way. Every decision she made she used to consult the pakandi babeh and Matas first. Got kundli made for her kids. When her son was getting married she set the date according to the kundli. Marriage ended up divorced and he soon died. Fat load of help the kundli was ... The number of times she read japji sahib she probably can count it on one hand. My nani on the other hand was a amritdhari and because of their different beliefs they clashed a lot. Hygiene was definitely one thing my nani used to have a go at her for but she never listened, she never even used to wash her hands b4 making roti. My nani used to wake up 3am in the morning do nitnem, sweep the house, sweep the path leading from our house all the way to the pind the gurdwara and clean the gurdwara with bucket and water and cloth and then come back, my mami on the other hand used to role out of bed at 9am. My nani did a lot of dhaan aswell she gave a lot of money to the poor ravidassia community to help get their daughters married off, she helped so many poor people from her pind go abroad by giving them money even all the way back in the 60s and 70s. To this day we used to have NRI bazurgs who my nani helped move abroad back in the 60s and 70s visit our house because they they were so grateful. My mami on the other hand used to take wheat, almonds, money and what not and give it to the babeh she followed. She gave so much money to these fake babeh and matas! Never met 2 women so different yet in the same house!

Bhagat ji doesn't get the recognition that he deserves for his service to humanity imo. A lot of bhagat jis interest in dharam actually came from his mother, who inspired him for the rest of his life. His mother used to teach him to treat humans and animals with the same respect, she taught him to tread carefully so he doesn't step on any ants. She used to give water to travelers and food to wondering yogis and sadhus. Not many know but Bhagat jis father was a Hindu Khatri man while his mother was from a jatt background and because of this she faced a lot of discrimination from his father. Bhagat jis mother used to collect water from the well and give water to thirsty travelers, she was a very beautiful woman and bhagat jis father forcefully abducted her and took her to his house. Bhagat jis father was already a married man. Because Bhagat jis mother was a jatt and a lower caste than his he refused to have any children with her and made her abort 3 times! the 4th time she was expecting she begged Bhagat jis father not to make her abort the child and the father agreed but said because of her status he will never accept the child or consider it his legitimate child, the child was Bhagat Puran Singh ji. Because the father never accepted Bhagat Puran Ji as his own child he never provided Bhagat ji or his mother any financial support. Bhagat jis mother then decided to leave the house with Bhagat ji and start working so she can send Bhagat ji to a boys hostel, she then cleaned peoples dishes for a living. Bhagat ji never was the successful in passing his exams and failed he then returned to his mother. Bhagat jis mother soon died and he became all alone and then started doing sewa and the local gurdwara in Lahore. Bhagat jis mothers teachings and humanity inspired Bhagat ji for the rest of his life. It shows you how important a mothers influence is on a child.

in the west obviously most people are hygienic, but i have to say in india only religious sikhs are hygienic tbh. Pinds are cleaner than the shehrs, shehrs are filthy. Gurdware in general are cleaner than mansirs and darghas. mandirs and dargahs are not very clean. My nani was amritdhari and was very hygienic, always washed her hands before making roti, made sure her chunni wasnt on the floor when kneeling down and cooking, rolled the bottom of her salwar slightly up when cleaning. always washed her hands, her daughter inlaw my mami was the complete opposite, my mami wasnt a sikh and her salwar used to be covered in cow dung and whatever dirt she dragged around with her from the floor. she never washed her hands, i dont even think she brushed her teeth or washed everyday. horrible.

I saw a video of a kitchen in a dhabba where they were kneading the dough with their feet. I only eat roti made by my mum in india, the ladies that people hire to clean the house and make roti are not very hygienic either! They itch themselves while making roti. And they dont wash their hands after sticking the dried cow pat under the chula lol its nasty.